So I have this guy friend, we've been very good friends for about two or three years, our tightness going off and on through fights and so forth. This last Tuesday he expressed to me how he feels for me more than just a friend, he knows that with school and everything I am not interested in a relationship right now. I've never really been attracted to him, he's not very good at grammer or writing, and I'm an English major, and he doesn't have drop dead looks to make up for it...yet I just recently found myself falling really fast for him. We could never spend our lives together, our careers don't match. What do I do? give it up and fall in love with him? or buck it and continue with my old dream?
2007-05-12 19:15:17 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should continue on with your dream. Seems to me that you have already answered your own question in that paragraph. I think you aren't falling in love with him necessarily, but the idea of being in a relationship and in love. Don't give it all up for a relationship that is already doomed to fail (as you have perfectly noted in your paragraph.) Hope that helps and the best of luck to you!
2007-05-12 19:23:45 · answer #1 · answered by ggirl_77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might not be very good at writing, but your grammar isn't perfect in this particular instance either. ;-) That's fine, of course, but I thought I'd make that point.
Sometimes the desire to be loved is very strong, and that might be part of why you are currently finding yourself falling for him. Suddenly this guy you've been close to has expressed feelings for you--it's only natural that you are going to start thinking about him a little bit differently. Don't fall in love with him too fast, but consider a few dates to see how it actually goes in real life. If you've been friends for this long then clearly there is something that keeps you together, and good grammar and a sexy façade won't be enough to do that alone.
Best of luck!
2007-05-13 02:28:41 · answer #2 · answered by joy_like_a_fountain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know you can do both falling in love doesn't mean you give up your dreams it just means you have someone there to love you, and it sounds like he already does, but if you have to question it you are either analytical or really uptight girl just go with how you feel and belive me the rest just falls into place.
2007-05-13 02:22:15 · answer #3 · answered by Hidden in the crowd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think that he is not good for you...let him go...and focus on your career...don't feel bad because his feeling are stronger towards you than yours..its not your fault, and I think your are falling fast for him because he told you how he feels, but when he told you, you didn't feel anything..so..maybe you just feel sorry for him...now don't think that having the same career as your partner its the best option, because you will have that in common and it would be boring...nothing to talk about...so just think through..but if you give him a chance tell him that you are not stopping your studies because of him..
2007-05-13 02:27:59 · answer #4 · answered by Lali 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep on looking for Mr. Right.
2007-05-13 02:20:21 · answer #5 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plz forgot about him and make some new good friend
2007-05-13 02:23:30 · answer #6 · answered by naresh k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋