i have son of age 19. last week i cauht him while doing crossdressing. he wore my sarees, blouse bangles even my bra and panty also. he want to wear my all jewellery and dresses. i am confused wot to do. He is very curious about my bangles, nathani. even when we are going out side he is watching all the sarees. he is going in market with market for observation of all female sarees her make up her bangles even her blouse also. he like all the sarees specially zig zag sarees and dresses. pls advice.
2007-05-12 19:29:02 · 12 answers · asked by alka s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This maybe something that is a passing phase. Keep a check on him, if he still continues this behavior, I'd suggest counselling.
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2007-05-12 19:33:24 · answer #1 · answered by Starreply 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. If he is gay or a crossdresser he might need you to listen to him. At 19 its unusal to try on moms clothes. Be as understanding as possible and try to help him with what ever he needs. Have you tried explaing the bangles to him? Then again it just might be a phase, you never know now a days.
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2007-05-12 19:38:06 · answer #2 · answered by cyran 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While this is not traditionally my area of expertise, I will recommend this: you must speak with your son and ask him just why he cross dressed to begin with. Was it a cheap laugh? Did he derive some pleasure from it? You may not know until you ask him yourself and so I put it to you that if you do ask him, you must be sure to not sound insensitive. Let your son know that you will love him regardless of whatever he chooses to wear, for after all, clothes are simply clothes.
I also suggest asking him to tell the truth and to be honest. It is unwise to be angry at him if it was involuntary, if he did it simply to (heh heh) try some new styles. And so it remains up to you: speak with your son, communicate with him, he needs you,and you never know...
2007-05-12 19:35:48 · answer #3 · answered by Diego S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be a transvestite or a transsexual... however, it may pass, he might be just interested how things works, and after a while his deep interest in women clothes may pass... but do worry about him... try to talk to him :)
2007-05-12 19:38:32 · answer #4 · answered by kamqx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see a psychatarist because its not normal for a 19 year old boy to do these things.
2007-05-12 19:35:58 · answer #5 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's hiding something inside. Might be curiosity.
2007-05-12 19:32:32 · answer #6 · answered by exo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats wierd. Possibl transsexual.
2007-05-12 19:42:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he definitely is gay....don't b that way to him....that's natural...mayb u feel unfortunate...but try to talk him out of it if u want it that way..if u r nt successful...then i don't think anything can help it out..
2007-05-12 19:32:34 · answer #8 · answered by cravingbrains 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he's a cross dresser.
2007-05-12 19:31:35 · answer #9 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
so wierd..take him to a psychiatrist
2007-05-12 19:32:18 · answer #10 · answered by Billionaire 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋