Family & Relationships - 12 May 2007

I know it sounds dumb. I am in love with a person who never makes time for me physically. I am underweight but I do not have abs. I am living without sex while he masturbates to porn. He says he loves me or he wouldn't be here. I feel that I would be superficial to end a relationship over sex. He is good to me in all other regards. This has profoundly effected my self esteem and my body image. Although most people tell me how pretty I am all of the time but it only matters to me what he thinks.I have done everything I can think of. Bought costumes, etc...I am a very physical person and the intamacey makes me feel loved. We have discussed this for over two years now and he knows how I feel but he won't stop the porn and turn to me. I have tried everything!!! I do not want to nagg him anymore about it. So right now I just go without a physical relationship with my partner.

2007-05-12 07:35:31 · 20 answers · asked by need advice 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i know, Mom is the best Gift even god gave us. Right. we see now a days, the way mom feed us , give birth, most of the poeple left thier Old parents alone or new genration left thier home and leave thier parents alone. my Question is Why it happend like this.? they give birth to us beocz one day we will go away and let them alone.?

I think we should give our parents best time beocz today what we are so beocz of our MOM and DAD.

2007-05-12 07:28:02 · 2 answers · asked by methedevdas 1 in Friends

my boy friend was caught having sex in the skool bathroom wit another girl he said he would never do it again and that he'll make it up to me after he comes back from his suspension should i trust him or should i move on?

2007-05-12 07:27:30 · 23 answers · asked by peaches w 2 in Singles & Dating

ive been with my boyfriend a year now and right now i can make it.....but i want to know how long is the right time to wait...??? when its too soon???

2007-05-12 07:27:06 · 18 answers · asked by **PrinCess** 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Should I start right away or wait till she gives me a reason?

2007-05-12 07:24:04 · 28 answers · asked by booger 3 in Family

It's no secret that a womans brain is smaller and less developed than a mans. Hey, I think I just answered my own question!

2007-05-12 07:19:49 · 22 answers · asked by booger 3 in Marriage & Divorce

So, this is about the same guy i wrote about before. For the past 2 weeks we have been talking, and we did reveal to each other that we liked each other too. He has turned out to be a really cool, funny, and sweet guy. The thing is, whenever we talk on the phone or chat or text, we talk fine, but at school all we do is joke around and flirt. Hardly any socializing going on, and i feel like we have more connection with technology..Whenever we are face to face, its like hes hiding his feelings i guess..Besides, it was me that admitted i liked him first, when i asked him if he did, he was like " well, what would you think if I did?" What kind of question is that? He confuses me alot, and I don't know if i should still keep tlaking to him if he isn't going to start towards the next level. I don't want to waste my time, if he isn't going to do anything. I always make things easier for him, like beign the one to start up the conversation. He's hard to understand soemtimes..I just don't know.

2007-05-12 07:18:08 · 16 answers · asked by Chase P 1 in Singles & Dating

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2007-05-12 07:16:51 · 3 answers · asked by ROCKY 2 in Singles & Dating

WHY?

2007-05-12 07:14:23 · 8 answers · asked by coroncoro418 1 in Friends

I'm not asking which one has a worse manifestation of vindictiveness, which would have to be men, with the in-person stalking (but, women do plenty of stalking remotely) and murders and all. I'm asking which gender is more likely to be vindictive, rather than neutral or "helpful" after a breakup.

2007-05-12 07:13:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boss took advantage of my hubby's absence & he raped me all night right at the bed I share with my hubby. I was crying the whole time he was abusing me, & he left only early morning today, when i told him that my husband will be coming back anytime. He said he'd rape me again once i'm back in the office. What should i do? I don't want to ruin my very young marriage by telling my husband waht has happened. & my boss placed his kissmarks all over my body, mostly in my breast & armpits. My husband will be back in two day's time. Will these kissmarks be faded by then? Please advice. I don't plan to go back to the office anymore.

2007-05-12 07:06:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

more than 10 years after saying she doesn't want any help, that she can manage, etc.

I know someone this is happening to - they were never married so no real comitment was made between tham.

2007-05-12 07:00:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i just can't understand male's mind... i'm in love with a guy from my uni, but we don't know each other personally... he follows me around, always looks into my eyes, copies me, collides with me ''by chance'', always appear there where i am, but never comes up to me talking! and i'm sure he is not shy, he is too often surrounded with girls... and he is too attractive to be shy...and i can't make the first step, out of my rules, and i'm kinda afraid... and everything is so obvious and has been lasting for 2 years already! i just have no idea what's on his mind!

2007-05-12 06:49:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok heres the story... one of my college teachers from this last semester is pregnant and me and a few other girls from the class really like her alot.. at the end of the semester we took her out to lunch and showered her with baby gifts. I told her that I really liked her as not only a teacher but as a friend too. She replied by telling me to call her by her first name, implying that she wants to be friends too. Well, we are all going out to eat again towards the end of this month. I wrote her and asked her if that was ok and she said it was great.I was just wondering if it sounds fine to offer my help when she has her baby.I didnt want to seem weird since we dont know each other yet on a very personal level.. but i hope to. Do you think it was ok for me to tell her that?

2007-05-12 06:46:59 · 11 answers · asked by blue_star12111 1 in Singles & Dating

my mom is a coke addict, how do i get her to quit, shes promised me three times shed stop, and i dont knwo what to do now...my friend told me to run away from home and tell her ill be back when shes clean, but im sure that would make her worst

2007-05-12 06:39:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i met a guy and he is interested in me, but the feeling is not mutual. he insists that he only wants to be friends, but tells me that he cant stop thinking about me, and how much he likes my eyes. how can i tell him that i am not interested NICELY? we havent gone out on any dates, so we have no romantic ties except that he is interested in me.

2007-05-12 06:33:38 · 8 answers · asked by ilovemymercedes 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay, Its gets me mad that some rude and inconsiderate ppl actually come to your questio and tell you how dumb it is. or disagree with you but they have to say like "oh your dumb, why would ask something like that" or w/e and then you go on there profile and see the questions they asked and they are probably twice as dumb as yours. i mean its not nice, some ppl just want to know something, get info, get a quick answer from someone if you need to know something right away or even if somethings bothering you and you want to know the answer. I just had to say something cuz i've been getting alot of that. like i asked a question bout my parakeet, then someone called me dumb and then i went on their profile and they asked what kind of gravy do you like. GGRR! but dont you think its mean? Why would someone do that to someone they dont know?

2007-05-12 06:33:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Girls: What do you look for in a guy?

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If your idea for a post has more than one word, try VERY hard to think of a single word that describes what's on your mind.
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2007-05-12 06:29:02 · 16 answers · asked by techronarrow 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-12 06:23:30 · 12 answers · asked by meethi 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband wanted to marry me the moment he met me, is it that the men don't feel this way about the mother of their child? Are they just waiting for something better to come along?
Do some people not have the money for a wedding? Do they not believe in marriage?

What's the reason, I would like to hear from men and women.

No need to get angry, I don't have a problem with it I am just wondering. Mostly curious about what men's reasons are.

2007-05-12 06:18:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

like leave his momma and put his feet under his own table. but like he never cut the umbilical cord. i see him as less than a man because he has always allowed himself to be put in the center and enjoys the tug and pull between his maamma and his wife. about 10 years ago i gave up. just let her have him. i dont want him. i am tired of hearing i am the one with the problem. so since then its been a sexless loveless marriage. has this happened to any other girlfriends. do you ever reach the end of your rope and say i love you hubby but you are not worth the trouble? do you ever just walk away emotionally and just give up?
i am tired of fighting in my home due to the mother in laws interference. i live a moderate married single life now. no physical or emotional binding with my hubby. go through the motions. talk about the kids and his day at work. as if i really care.

2007-05-12 06:14:58 · 12 answers · asked by WORKING OLDER SMARTER BLONDE 4 in Marriage & Divorce

If you have a younger brother, do you have a good relationship with him? Or do you boss him around a lot?

2007-05-12 06:13:27 · 9 answers · asked by hello world 7 in Family

says its a prank should i beleive him

2007-05-12 06:06:10 · 19 answers · asked by :..WIzDOM..: 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i think my mom in law delights in keeping her claws in her son rather than go ahead and let him grow up. i think she would rather have him still nurse at the breast rather than give him the freedom to grow up and have his own life. how many girlfriends out their also have the mother in law from hell? if i knew then how she would always be intruding i would have run run straight out the door of the church. do you think a man is a mammas boy just because he always looks for good in his mom and gives her the denefit of the doubt in issues where she is concerned.? should not he be able to love her without creating this fantasy world that she lives in? i could stand it if he loved her if he was just willing to look at her for what she is and be honest. but instead his moms on a pedestal and i am the dirty bad guy cause i see his mom in a different light. oh yes we really dont discuss her at all. so dont tell me to keep my opinion of his mamma to myself because i do.

2007-05-12 06:02:02 · 3 answers · asked by WORKING OLDER SMARTER BLONDE 4 in Marriage & Divorce

my brother always bothers me what should i do no m not going scream i am not going to use my voice now

2007-05-12 06:00:50 · 16 answers · asked by biancaonwenu 2 in Family

my bf n I R 27 been together 4 months-no sexual contact bc of his "beliefs". I finally told him i felt unwanted and needed some kind of physical contact bc i n others started ? his sexuality (i didn't say that part). he said he was waiting for a sign from god to have sex with me-wierd?he doesn't act religious in other ways though.anyway days after that n days after i was introduced at his family reunion he EMAILS me he wants a break. i wait a week call him leave a message that i need some kind of communication he EMAILS me back he's "not interested in a relationship anymore and we can get together next week to talk about some things".i know he's been busy and stressed from work-i'm hoping he realizes he made a mistake when things clam down. with no closure n no communication i'm going crazy here.I call his sister and we figure out that he has been lying. he told her our breakup was mutual and in conv. i realize he had lied to me about a previous relationship. just looking for thoughts.

2007-05-12 05:59:41 · 3 answers · asked by Jax 3 in Singles & Dating

someone that i care for a lot, is on drugs, and has been for over a year, and im really worried about her, i confronted her once, and she promised to quit, but then the next day, everything stayed the same, and i worte her a letter last week and put it in her stash, and nothing hapened, im really worried about her, shes means alot to me, and i really want to confront her about it, but i dont know what a 17 year old can do to change an adults mind about something as serious as this, and its not like shes smoking pot, its much worst, shes smoking coke, im super worried....and im the only one to know execpt for her husband...someone help me please, im desprate

2007-05-12 05:47:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

believe his mommy capable of being anythin g less than perfect. if theres a problem than he thinks its me- not his perfect mamma. sides have been drawn and my hubby picked his mamma. does anyone understand why i dont see him as a man and wont let him touch me. dont say work it out with the mamma. she has what she wants. she has her little mammas boy. i stay here only till my kids are 18. then look out i am looking for someone else. does anyone blame me? do you think i am selfish? would any of you other ladies put up with this. i have been married 25 years. i have slept alone for the last 10 years

2007-05-12 05:45:25 · 5 answers · asked by WORKING OLDER SMARTER BLONDE 4 in Family

So my fiancée has been arrested for an old DUI charge from 3 years ago. I understand why he did not do his time mostly because he has a 7-year-old daughter and wants/needs to pay her child support, and her health insurance. Here is my problem. I knew about this DUI when we started dating (a year ago) but the story that I was told is different from what really happened. I have found out from the courts that he had a probation given to him but because of his child support was created in Alaska Tribal (from his army days) he has a percentage not a set amount taken from his check and comes home with about 25% of his paycheck give or take and was unable to pay for his monitor anklet. Here is my problem I have found out all these lies and now he is in jail and might have to do 80 days. I can’t write him about my thoughts for it can be used in court and I do not want to make this harder for him. I am committed to our relationship to a full extent hence the marriage.
What should I do?

2007-05-12 05:44:08 · 18 answers · asked by Miss.lace 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my dad past away 4 months ago. im going to see his girlfriend witch i do love lot but to be in my dads house knowing hes not there anymore scares me what do i? also he went into the cold water when he died and now im going to have to look at the lake with open water knowing that my dad was once in there

2007-05-12 05:39:29 · 2 answers · asked by truepink 6 in Family