My boss took advantage of my hubby's absence & he raped me all night right at the bed I share with my hubby. I was crying the whole time he was abusing me, & he left only early morning today, when i told him that my husband will be coming back anytime. He said he'd rape me again once i'm back in the office. What should i do? I don't want to ruin my very young marriage by telling my husband waht has happened. & my boss placed his kissmarks all over my body, mostly in my breast & armpits. My husband will be back in two day's time. Will these kissmarks be faded by then? Please advice. I don't plan to go back to the office anymore.
2007-05-12 07:06:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My boss told me before he left that no one will believe me in court should i file a case against him, as he said there is no forcible entry at all of his penis into my vagina, as my vagina was soaking with my own juices. Legally, do i have a chance?
2007-05-12 07:09:15 · update #1
I HOPE I GET BEST ANSWER FROM YOU!1!
This was your last question before this one-- you are so full of it -- do you like talking about vaginas? rape? Sex? get a life -- you have problems.. my advice, contact a therapist ofy our choice.
heres your last question...
Is it usual for a married woman to have her vagina wet all the time because of another guy? Help pls...?
I know this question is embarassing, but lately, whenever i'm with my boss my vagina is always very wet (or, one may say, soaked). We had sex the past week behind my husband's back, but since i love my husband so much, i pleaded with my boss to stop the affair that he wants to have with me. We compromised. Kissing and hugging are ok, but no more sex. Still, i can't understand why my vagina is wet all the time whenever he is around me. Is this normal for married woman, specially she has a big crush on another guy? I love my husband, but my vagina isn't this wet when i'm with him. I'm confused. Should i got to a doctor? Serious answers, please...
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23 hours ago
I am trying my best not to give in to my boss's teasing, but the temptation is too much. He says he loves me very much, and that he doesn't give a damn about my being married to a wonderful and good man. He says my body and loving was made by God for him. I confess i have a very strong crush on him. What should i do? My husband is a decent man, & it's bad enough that i have cheated on him last week. Please advice. I'm so confused, and aroused, with my present situation.
23 hours ago
My husband is completely clueless to the problem i am now facing... should i tell him? But i don't want to hurt his feelings...
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2007-05-12 07:17:58 · answer #1 · answered by ★★★ Katharine ♥♥♥♥ 6 · 8⤊ 1⤋
You need to go to either a hospital or police station NOW. Take the clothes you were wearing yesterday with you. Tell the TRUTH to the police, Dr.'s and your husband. Your husband married you because he loves you. This will NOT ruin your marriage, but keeping quiet will eat at you forever. You need to go now, and be strong. You are not alone, and you DO have a case against him. YOU ARE WORTH IT!! Now get your things together and go.
Good luck!
WAIT A MINUTE!!!!! I just read some of the other post's to this question...if you were raped you need to go to the hospital or police station. But if you're just being "funny" or playing a joke you are a sick sick person!!
2007-05-12 07:48:55 · answer #2 · answered by Jacob's Mommy (Plus One) 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he raped you then why have you not called the one person that you spend your life with or the police if you were raped. Why was he at your house in the first place, he is your boss not your friend. Seems kind of weird to me the whole situation. If I was raped and he left this morning I would have had the police there the first chance I could of and would of called my husband to come home and be with me.
2007-05-12 07:15:33 · answer #3 · answered by xyz 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
First you need to go to the hospital and be checked by a doctor. File a police report, and call your husband and tell him what happened.
don't worry about ruining a marriage over this situation. it wasn't your fault.
If you have any time, ie vacation or personal time take it. Don't talk to your boss, call someone in HR.
Go get help. Get counseling and get the support of your husband.
Don't wash the sheets that he raped you on, it could be evidence of him raping you.
2007-05-12 07:15:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Go to the hospital and tell them you have been raped! They will call the police for you and will do a rape kit on you to collect physical evidence. Call your husband too. He will be more upset if you don't tell him.
2007-05-12 07:29:13 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would tell authorities and then tell my husband. Forget about the marks and if this will hurt your young marriage, Think about who he might do this too next, It could be some young girl and then how would you live with yourself then. Letting him get away with this would hurt your marriage. Tell husband right after you tell authorities, he will come home if able and help you through this. I would not wait another second.
2007-05-12 07:15:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
regardless of what the boss said, you call the police at once and tell your husband... if you did not want sex, it is rape, and he will go to jail!
get to the ER and get a rape test done
just read your OTHER questions
umm, you've had sex with your boss before, which makes you a cheater and now a fake poster...
get a life!
i will tell your husband for you... then you can be a divvorced lying cheater
hope that helps
2007-05-12 07:13:21 · answer #7 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Why was your boss at your house in the first place? You should have went to the police!
2007-05-12 07:44:31 · answer #8 · answered by lovely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would contact the help line for abused women or the womens community shelter if they have one in your area. This guy may come back and try something again. Don't let this go any further, it may cause you a bit of grief facing the facts now. However it will have more lasting effects on your life if you don't do something immediately.
2007-05-12 07:11:07 · answer #9 · answered by Jimmy P 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Call the POLICE! or Go to the Police with evidence. I hope you have not showered, in order to preserve the evidence. I know this is hard, but please seek out the authorities and prosecute this person, before he does this to someone else.
2007-05-12 09:29:26 · answer #10 · answered by bahjij6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋