Ok heres the story... one of my college teachers from this last semester is pregnant and me and a few other girls from the class really like her alot.. at the end of the semester we took her out to lunch and showered her with baby gifts. I told her that I really liked her as not only a teacher but as a friend too. She replied by telling me to call her by her first name, implying that she wants to be friends too. Well, we are all going out to eat again towards the end of this month. I wrote her and asked her if that was ok and she said it was great.I was just wondering if it sounds fine to offer my help when she has her baby.I didnt want to seem weird since we dont know each other yet on a very personal level.. but i hope to. Do you think it was ok for me to tell her that?
2007-05-12 06:46:59 · 11 answers · asked by blue_star12111 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds noble, however, until you know each other on a personal level, it would be rather odd. Meet up with her, become friends, make sure you are all comfortable with each other, then offer your help at that point.
2007-05-12 06:50:28 · answer #1 · answered by brandonb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 11:39:51 · answer #2 · answered by damaris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean actually help with the DELIVERY or help watch the kid after its born?
Definitely don't bring up *anything* that has to do with what happens in the hospital.........that would be incredibly awkward. Any guy asks me that, I would think, "Stop picturing my stuff!"
As for watching the kid.......I wouldn't say anything about that either. Sure, she probably thinks you're an OK person, but she will be incredibly protective about her kid and will only want to leave him in the care of an expert (like her mum or dad). Also, if you offer to help watch her kid, she will think that you're trying to get too close too soon.
2007-05-12 06:58:40 · answer #3 · answered by YearoftheRat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she thought that it was a bad idea then i would assume that she would have told you. If you still have any doubts them tell her that you are just excited about her having a baby and just want to do something nice for her because you admire her. Ask her if she feels as if you might be asking too much. it is better to be frank and honest. Good luck
2007-05-12 06:53:01 · answer #4 · answered by orcarius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have impressed her very much and wants to tie up with you on emotional basis . develop relations slowly and gradually. Secondly she is pregnant that it self leads to mother hood therefore she looks to you from that angle. She must be a fine teacher.
2007-05-12 06:54:02 · answer #5 · answered by baboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't think it offended her or anything... After all, she asked you to call her by her first name in the first place. And it was nice of you to offer to help her with the baby, so I think it'll be ok...
2007-05-12 06:54:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are developing a friendship with your former teacher. I think that it was fine for you to tell her that. If your former teacher thought it was out of line, she would have told you.
2007-05-12 06:50:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about you tell her that you and all the others girls are there for her if she needs any help.
I'm sure she will be pleased that you are all there to support her when her life changes so dramatically. It's great to have friends.
2007-05-12 06:51:12 · answer #8 · answered by oisian88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i think its fine that you tell her that as long as she isnt married....cause if she is it would be weird for his husband is some other random guy was helping her out ..cause that would b the husbands job!but yes its fine if u told her that as long as she isnt married but is she is i would just kinda leave it to tha husband and stuff! good luck =]
2007-05-12 06:51:33 · answer #9 · answered by Brooke H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it was ..and im sure she is appreative of the thought too..the main thing is that she is willing to be friends..have fun..down the road she will probably really need a babysitter too.
2007-05-12 06:50:51 · answer #10 · answered by sunshine01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋