Family & Relationships - 8 April 2007

im 17 & the guy i like is 18,we have pretty much everything in common hes like a perfect match.he admitted to me he liked me,& i didnt mean for him to get jelouse before i knew he liked me b/c he was flirting with my best friend in front of me so i flirted with his "friend" & he pushed his seat in the car allll the way back almost squishing me in a sarcastic way & when i got out of the car he bumped into me saying stop flirting & smiled.aniways he doesnt call me for some reason but when i do call him to hangout he picks me up & we goto parties,i havent hung out with him for like a month because im nervouse about calling him,he also said to my friend he doesnt make the first moves.since we havent hung out in a while im starting to think he doesnt like me anymore...& the farthest i have gone with him is hugs because we kinda just met but he knows im not going to go that far with him,and im not a clingy girl.he said he likes me but what do you think i did,if he doesnt like me anymore??

2007-04-08 08:07:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 17 years old and I had sex at the beginning of this year when I was still 16. Personally, I don't think I was too young. I am mature and I felt so comfortable with the person I did it with. We planned it for ages and we took all the pre-cautionary measures. But some might say I was impatient, what do you think? (plz no bible talk, I'm not christian)

2007-04-08 08:06:58 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok i met a guy this year and we spend alot of time together. I ask him if he had a girlfriend and he replied with a i have a baby mama. He says that he'll never get back with her but of course they'll always have a relationship because they have a child together. Im a jealous person... and a friend told me dont do it because guys always go back to their baby mamas... I really like him and we spend so much time together... I just dont know what to do with this situation.. Plz Help... Thanks

2007-04-08 08:05:52 · 6 answers · asked by shanicea 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-08 08:01:42 · 16 answers · asked by Cute Future Auther 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-08 07:53:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i read a ? on here and it made me think of something i am going threw right now. me and my 4 year old step-daughter do not get along, at night i find that i have a have a few drinks just to be able to deal with her. i am not an alcoholic, but i do find my-self drinking to deal, i dont get drunk, just enough to relax. my ? is what s your opion on how i am handling this, should i keep doing what i am doing or leave? also me and my hubby just had r first child together recently. please, i want other peoples honest opinions.

2007-04-08 07:50:06 · 19 answers · asked by greengrass 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex-husband just left me a voicemail about our 14 year old daughter. He has sole physical and legal custody of our child and moved due to job reaons. He just left the child assuming his mother who lives a few miles away would come and take care of her.

He says that she is failing miserably in school and she is not interested in going to college. She is depressed also. I went to stay with her for a few weeks and then came back.

He also said that he will not let me rest in peace or move on and get resettled. He says that I abandoned my daughter.

He wants me to call him and decide what to do with our child. I have repeatedly told him that he can send her to me.

Talking to or e-mailing him does not go anywhere. I really don't know what to do. The child is suffering though. Her grades are not good and he is putting the blame on me.

What should my next steps be?

2007-04-08 07:48:25 · 12 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i hope not mine are really hard work my mom drinks to much and my dad is really selfish and un emotional!

2007-04-08 07:47:04 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have a business in southern California. We have one employee. She's a single female. She's been working with us for about a month. Today she text messaged me and wished me Happy Easter. She's not Christian; so I thought that was very nice of her. My husband said, "Well, she didn't wish me Happy Easter". I told him that I thought it would be inappropriate for her to do so; and that her wish to me covered him as well. He said that if she would have text him, I would have been upset because I'm jealous.

Honestly, if she would have text him, I would have been somewhat offended. I think it's inappropriate; that's all. But, I don't consider myself jealous. I have a healthy perception of what is appropriate and what is not.

Your thoughts?

2007-04-08 07:43:22 · 14 answers · asked by loving_caring_wife 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-08 07:40:30 · 16 answers · asked by Baby Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

we know each other for 4 years, we always liked each other romantically. reccently he has been talking to me a lot about his college life, what he will do after, university, career plans, etc. I didnt ask him about it, he just randomly tells me, he tells me about his life in the country & college where he studies, he asks me when i finnish school etc. (hes 18)
he also started to talk about his family and comparing the fact that we both have divorced parents etc. he tells me he will deffinately introduce me to his friends from his country.
p.s (im very close to his other group of friends & they like me) & he knows most of my friends.
problem is that in september he had a break up wit his gf and his friends say he isnt looking 4 anyone at the moment, just f*cking around and stuff ( with me and others i guess) but i dont think it applies to me, do u?
does he really want me in his future or is it all bullsh*t?

2007-04-08 07:39:49 · 1 answers · asked by babycake 1 in Singles & Dating

I am new to this and somehow I closed my question yesterday so Please help me...
I find it is so terribly hard to deal with my heartache alone but when you share three kids how am I to do it when I still have to see him? It is Easter today and I am finding it so painful to deal...I put on my "I'm ok" mask for my kids this morning and it is taking everything I have to not just curl up in a ball and cry. My 8 yr. old saw me crying late last night and said she is hurt too. I feel ashamed that she can handle this and I can't. How can someone that you have loved for so long be so cruel? I know I should be angry for what he has done but all I can think about is how much I love him and how much I need him here...I am falling apart...and I have gone to seek professional help but there is not much they can do for me...antidepressants is what they gave me...yeah in about a month they might work but I need help now. PLEASE!

2007-04-08 07:38:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Lately ive been lookin at other lads . we have been together 3 months and wev argued quite alot they have always been me who started them .. on the phone sometime i dont want to say i love you because im unsure i mean it and i started to feel hes always around when hes not am 14 and hes 16 .... he loves me to bits and i know that i say i do to but i dunno anymore . he says he dunno what hed do wothout me and i do id be free again but i dunno Grrr help!

2007-04-08 07:29:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you french kiss?? any suggestion what do to or not to do?

2007-04-08 07:25:35 · 26 answers · asked by M 4 in Singles & Dating

I am 16 years old.I am pretty all over but my forehead. Boys don't want to really talk to me I guess because I have a big forehead. I don't know why else they wouldn't want to. My forehead is not gigantic but it's big enough to not get me any attention. So should I just have sex with these boys to get them on my side. I am not a virgin but I just don't have sex to have sex. I have only done it once but should I just start doing it out of control. No boys want me for a girlfriend anyway so I might as well is the way I see it. Maybe then I can get some attention. I just need some help from both genders. Boys what do you think of the kind of girl that sleeps around alot and do you think that a gril with a big forehed is ugly?

2007-04-08 07:25:26 · 32 answers · asked by lovinbroooklyn 1 in Singles & Dating

Well a friend of my parents are throwing them a surprise party for their 25th anniversary. The issue is that my parent's friends want to hear about all these good things about their marriage that she thinks my parents had, when little did she know it was all a facade. well the problem is that me and my one sibling were the only ones that lived with them for the majority of those years and lived with every kind of abuse and hell. And I definetly don't want to celebrate nor talk about how great my parents were as a married couple and have it all be a lie, its all hypocritical to me. My sibling has to work and lives out of town with his family, so he can't go. So i need any advice on this situation, whether just not go and have everyone wonder and ask why, or what. It feels so wrong, for me to be celebrating this or go and put on a very false front. I do get along with my parents now only because we don't interact and live in separate towns.

2007-04-08 07:12:08 · 5 answers · asked by Hazel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i just saw a tv commercial where a man was trying to help his daughter with her homework over the computer and the mother walks in and asks him why he hasn't washed the dog yet, he tells her that he is helping his daughter with her homework and the women replies "jack, leave her alone" and his daughter gives her father a look of contempt. then the mother says "go wash the dog" or something like that.

i am very offended by that commercial and NO that is not funny. that's the most vulgar form of sexism i've ever seen.

could you imagine a commercial where a father tells his wife to leave her son alone and to go iron his shirt?

and don't give me that "men always did that on tv" crap either. i've never in my life seen a commerical or tv show where a man is openly nasty to his wife and deliberately makes her look like a fool in front of her children and it's supposed to be funny.

you can make all the excuses you want, but that is just downright wrong!!! why do we allow it?

2007-04-08 07:11:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I just had a baby, she is six weeks old and was born here in Texas. I would like to move from Texas to Utah. Her father came to the hospital to see her but did not sign the acknowledgement of paternity paper or the birth certificate. He started out having something to do with her but has since stopped calling and won't answer my phone calls.

My question is can I move from Texas to Utah? Is there anything legally he can do to stop us from moving? I have a better support system there and will also continue college. Do I have to wait until I live in Utah for 6 months (interstate family law?) in order to file the paperwork to establish paternity and then move on to child support, custody, and visitation? Please help!

2007-04-08 07:10:09 · 7 answers · asked by meme 2 in Marriage & Divorce

known this guy for months like 8 months and he says he comes from chicago, but he sounds south african, and he says he is working in lagos nigeria, do you think he is for real?? i have pictures of him he looks white its just the accent that doesnt sound right?? would love to know your opinions on this, and hope some one will answer????????

2007-04-08 07:08:24 · 38 answers · asked by sneits 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok this girl and me have ben really close friends for awhile.. friday night we were flirting and then finally we went up to my room and just cuddled and made out. The next day she asked me to go out to eat with her.. we did and then we went to pickup one of her friends and she kept talking about her ex.. and then later that night pulled out her camera and started crying.. then when she was taking me to my car that night i was just giving her my input and what she would do and shes like i love your advice will you come over? i was like of course. then we got there and she just layed against me and stared at me with this grin on her face and she even said something like "wow you remind me of him so much its scary" then like just hits me but in a joking way.. i dont know what any of this means like is she using me for a bridge to get over him? or what

2007-04-08 07:08:22 · 10 answers · asked by geechi 1 in Singles & Dating

i work with him. he is a lawyer, 29. He is gorgeuous 6'8, broad sholders, tan, black hair, blue eyes, in amazing shape. He has three kids, their adorable, his wifes 30 not that pretty and shes getting a bit chubby. Come on Im 23, 5'11 blonde blueyed natural 36DD nice butt. I dont get it, Ive known him for 2 years were friends? i cant stop thinking of him. I dream about him, especially it take care of myself, a girl has needs. He so smart and wise. The problem is hes Catholic goes church every sunday. I he said he waited till he was married to have sex and has only been with his wife, a college friend at work says its true, can you believe it thats hot, don't ya think he'd be curious. he still talks when i talk to him but he is avoiding me. I told him to come over and fix my computer, he was an elec eng undergrad. he came i left to mybedroom to change, he said nothing was wrong i came in this cute thing from victoria secret.

2007-04-08 07:06:36 · 9 answers · asked by blondesweety69xxx 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am 33 year old man who wants to get married to someone but they don;t want me to is there anything they can do to stop me? they can;t do anything about it? can they if i run away and get married?

2007-04-08 07:06:31 · 20 answers · asked by stephen w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Its easter sunday and i was getting up to make breakfast, my husband didnt say anything except u should have done that hours ago. Then he gets on the phone and starts calling friends and family to "catch up" he said. I cooked the meal and an hour and a half later he decided to stop calling people. He then didnt know why i was upset, i called him an a**hole and he spit the food all over the kitchen table and said it was disgusting. I dumped a soda on him. Do i have a reason to be upset??? Am i over reacting?? i think he was disrespectcful. Easter is all day he could have called the rest of the people after breakfast.

2007-04-08 07:04:33 · 8 answers · asked by mama of 2 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My bf told me I have beautiful eyes like panthers what the hell does this mean?
thanks kisses!!

2007-04-08 07:04:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love a guy and we r gonna get engaged. we live in 2 different countries. we chat ALOT ( almost the whole day :) )
however i have 2 problems:
1) 90% of the times i call he doesnt call back or answer. he says he is busy
2) sometimes i feel he gets harsh on me (not verbally) but the way he writes on chat. its sometimes feels rude

any suggestions. (dont say he doesnt love me coz i know he does, otherwise he wouldnt considering coming all over from the other part of the world to my country just to get married)

2007-04-08 07:04:14 · 6 answers · asked by A 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend gets jealous alot. i no he cares but he also drinks, ive tried to get him to stop but wont. he never answers when i call. he barley ever calls me. he might have already cheated on me. he does bad things and i try to get him to quit, he wont listen. but i love him and i cant just leave him like that. i see spending the rest of my life with him. just with everything he does i worry to much and then he doesnt answer the phone.. i have no clue what he is doing. i love him i just dont no what to do with him. ??

2007-04-08 07:00:50 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you have talked about it with your family and have "let go")...I couldn' believe this person...she came up to me in a store...and says.."Hi, how are you?"...i barely remembered who she was....so i am looking at her..."she says remember me?...i said.."Oh yes, I do now"...then .she mentions the tragedy..."I remember when.....blah, blah, blah..."...i am shocked and horrified that she would even mention it!..after a few minutes it seemed, i just said.."yes, that was a painful time for all of us...but we have had to let go"...and I WALKED AWAY!!! what is wrong with people??? it was hurtful to bring up terrible times...

2007-04-08 06:58:16 · 9 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I just turned fifthteen in march 25 and I still havent had my first kiss.And that really sucks because my freind always talkes about kissing a guy and it sucks because I really think guys dont like me because I am skinney but to me I think I am fine and Im just like that because I have a fast matabolisim.So when did you have your first kiss.And I dont even think im pretty because this one boy last year he would always call me ugly and then smile everyday why do you boys do that?

2007-04-08 06:54:28 · 41 answers · asked by J WEEZY LOVES NIKKI R.I.P. 1 in Singles & Dating

I think that boys don't like me because of that I don't look at myself good and I think that the only way out is surgery.

2007-04-08 06:54:06 · 10 answers · asked by lovinbroooklyn 1 in Singles & Dating

My mom has been gone about 5 yrs now. My stepmom always calls me her daughter and her my mom on introductution. She has been good to me to some extent, but feel I might betray the bond I have with my mom even though she is gone if I did so. Any ideas?

2007-04-08 06:52:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family