I am 16 years old.I am pretty all over but my forehead. Boys don't want to really talk to me I guess because I have a big forehead. I don't know why else they wouldn't want to. My forehead is not gigantic but it's big enough to not get me any attention. So should I just have sex with these boys to get them on my side. I am not a virgin but I just don't have sex to have sex. I have only done it once but should I just start doing it out of control. No boys want me for a girlfriend anyway so I might as well is the way I see it. Maybe then I can get some attention. I just need some help from both genders. Boys what do you think of the kind of girl that sleeps around alot and do you think that a gril with a big forehed is ugly?
2007-04-08 07:25:26 · 32 answers · asked by lovinbroooklyn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So what your saying is that you would rather be known for your pu**y then your "big" forehead? Yeah, THAT'S hella smart. You should never just have sex for attention, that will damage you emotionally and you will only get attention from asshole guys. Be smart!
2007-04-08 07:29:35 · answer #1 · answered by L'Ambitieux 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sarah Jessica Parker was told she would never get movie or TV offers because of her large nose. Tyra Banks forehead looks like a football field. Actress Lauren Bacall had a huge gap between her front teeth. Activist (and currently on Dancing With The Stars) Heather Mills has an artificial leg. Jennifer Hudson did not let her weight prevent her from winning an academy award in her first film. Actress and singer Cher refused pressure from her film studio to have her nose fixed. Each of these ladies had men who admired and loved then and married them ( except for Hudson) Why... because they were secure in their own skin. Don't you see, Hon... this is not about your forehead at all? It's about very low self esteem. You need to stop worrying about boys and start enjoying being a 16 year old girl. Believe me, when guys see a smiling, fun loving girl , they get interested quickly... and it's not just for sex.
2007-04-08 07:53:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most unattractive thing about you is your lack of self confidence. Do you really think you will "buy" love from someone by offering sex? Is that real affection?
Of course not - you'll just be the one whom everyone calls names. Hey, I'd rather be single, with a big forehead (btw - it doesn't sound too bad to me) and do something positive for me! Look beyond boys and sex. There's a world out there waiting to be explored. Get some proper ambition in your life and some decent goals. Not just be the bicycle!
2007-04-08 07:29:58 · answer #3 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl that will get you attention but not the kind that you want. You will be labeled as a ho. Which is not a good reputation. Just b/c this group of boys don't like you, trust there is someone that likes you for who you are. DON'T have sex out of control. y our body is precious and you should treat it with respect. If you don't respect it then how do you think that someone else is going to respect you or your body. If you want to get attention, play a sport or join a school club, that will get you some positive attention. Love yourself first or noone else will! I hope that I was some help. I felt the same way, but then I realized taht I am beautiful and some does want me for me.
2016-05-20 00:39:16 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think many guys would say "gee, her forehead is enormous, I am not gonna ask her out" , many young guys aren't going to look at your forehead anyway.
Having sex with everybody is going to make you popular for a while, but not for a long term relationship.
You need to work on confidence first, be happy being you.
Talk to some other girls, or a hairdresser and see if there is a hairstyle that will minimize your huge forehead. (seriously I don't think it can be that big )
2007-04-08 07:39:53 · answer #5 · answered by mark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not! Everyone has something about them they don't like. There is no need to impress them, get them to impress you. I went to high school with a girl who had an "above average" forehead, and she started sleeping around in our sophomore year and she was the school skank in no time. You are much better than that. I think the only thing you can do is accept it ( or wear bangs?) cause it's some guy out there who loves that forehead of yours. Just do what's right.
2007-04-08 07:38:09 · answer #6 · answered by djlilrob2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i think youre absolutely ridiculous for thinking that sleeping with guys is going to get you more attention and make you feel better, it'll just get you a bad reputation of a slut and than no guy will ever truly be interested in anything else about you. I really doubt that guys really care about youre forehead that much, clearly you just havent met the right guy but sleeping around with guys just for confidence wont do sh*t, trust me it will only make you feel worse. You will constantly feel used and its just not worth it. I think you just need to stop putting yourself down because that turns guys off a lot. Just have more confidence and you'll find someone that won't just use you for sex.
2007-04-08 07:30:55 · answer #7 · answered by bridget m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I'm Suhel from Canada. First tell me that 'Is your life more important than getting those boys on your side?' See! if you did sex with them, you can get pregnant and STDs too. See, I'm a boy and I know how a boy feels when he is doing sex. He has no control on his mind and he just wants girl's body. Find someone who loves you from his heart. If you don't, just don't think about them. Concentrate on your studies because people who don't study, they finds themselves in a trap from where nobody can come out.
So, don't become a toy for those boys and waste your life. Someday you'll find a guy, who will marry you and then you can have sex with him.
Mail me - suhel1992@yahoo.ca
2007-04-08 09:48:38 · answer #8 · answered by Suhel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no reason for you to do that, I know when I was that age girls that started sleeping around where also known as Whores. Find a guy who likes you for who you are (big forehead and all) I can also guarantee you there are boys that like you or have a crush on you.
2007-04-08 07:36:14 · answer #9 · answered by Ric Dizzle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hoooo no no no!!!!! Never. That's a black hole.
Don't even think about it. If you do that, you will have NO condifdence at all because guess what? You'll be like trash to them- worthlesss- something to be chewed and spat out dead on the road. Don't don't don't let your confidence be dependent on people let alone boys. Do you think you're the only person in the world with a supposedly large forehead? God said you are fearfully and wonderfully made and you should get your confidence from God and what is written in his word (the bible) and not from outside influences becuase they will always let you down. You are a made in god's image and don't defile yourself- its incredebliy important. Talk to your parents. Please don't prostitute yourself and destroy yourself.
God bless you and take care.
2007-04-08 07:35:28 · answer #10 · answered by Warrior Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 things you should know:
1. 16 is not the end of the road. You will continue to grow, your looks will change and so will your friends. Eventually, you will meet guys who think you are without equal.
2. Sleeping around will only make you friends that last as long as the sex does. The following day, you'll be lonelier than you were before. Guys don't fall in love with women who give them what they want too easily.
3. The sooner you learn to love yourself, the sooner others will. Confidence will take you further than ANYTHING else. You are who you are, don't change to please others. Patience will pay off.
Best of luck to you in learning to love yourself... The rewards outweigh anything you're enduring today.
2007-04-08 07:34:44 · answer #11 · answered by John N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋