im 17 & the guy i like is 18,we have pretty much everything in common hes like a perfect match.he admitted to me he liked me,& i didnt mean for him to get jelouse before i knew he liked me b/c he was flirting with my best friend in front of me so i flirted with his "friend" & he pushed his seat in the car allll the way back almost squishing me in a sarcastic way & when i got out of the car he bumped into me saying stop flirting & smiled.aniways he doesnt call me for some reason but when i do call him to hangout he picks me up & we goto parties,i havent hung out with him for like a month because im nervouse about calling him,he also said to my friend he doesnt make the first moves.since we havent hung out in a while im starting to think he doesnt like me anymore...& the farthest i have gone with him is hugs because we kinda just met but he knows im not going to go that far with him,and im not a clingy girl.he said he likes me but what do you think i did,if he doesnt like me anymore??
2007-04-08 08:07:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like you could do so much better then this guy. He squished you because you were flirting with someone else after he was flirting with your friend? He never calls you? He doesn't make first moves?
You want a guy that's going to go for you, call you, ask you out, try to hold your hands. I'm pretty old fashioned when it comes to this stuff and I believe that the guy should be doing certian things, like asking you out and calling you.
Personally I think that you should move on. You can do so much better then that.
2007-04-08 08:13:24 · answer #1 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when people are copied at something they know they should't do they get mad.let me try to explain.two wrongs don't make a right. you should have either told him you didn't like him flirting or you should have just let it go until you could have talked to him in private about your feelings. then if he blew you off then you would atleast know wear he stands on the relationship. let it go for awhile don't call or right don't ask friends about him see what happens if it supposed to be it will if not then he didn't care in the first place move on enjoy yourself you have a long time to find the right person... protect yourself..
2007-04-08 15:17:46 · answer #2 · answered by mybaby_poohbear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to be playing this dance too slow. Men move on if they feel the women is disinterested, which is the feeling you are giving off. Probably better if you rethink this strategy if you really like him.
No offense but you seem to be a bit old to still be in the hugging stage, he probably thinks you just want to be friends. Guys don't want to be "just friends" with girls. Better kick start this relationship or he will be dating someone else...if that hasn't started already.
2007-04-08 15:13:56 · answer #3 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he was flirting with you, and if he really said he doesn't like making the first move, then he probably is shy and doesn't want to ask you out. You should talk to him and hang out with him more, and if you start liking him more, if he doesn't ask you out then ask him.
2007-04-08 15:13:34 · answer #4 · answered by punkxrocker3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's 18?!?!
He sounds more like a 14yo.
If you find yourself a guy who is a little more mature emotionally, then perhaps things will seem a lot less complicated.
2007-04-08 15:20:28 · answer #5 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He dosent want to make it weird for you two to go out so he wont ask. You should make the first move theres no doubt he will say yes.
2007-04-08 15:13:26 · answer #6 · answered by bosnian babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out. There's no harm in expressing yourself. Maybe that's what he's looking for?
2007-04-08 15:10:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it wuz b/c you were flirting with his friend and then he thought you liked his friend.anyway tell him how u feel. it will work out hopefully
2007-04-08 15:13:40 · answer #8 · answered by karen flaca*rip lauro* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋