Family & Relationships - 8 April 2007

I have five woman at work trying to get me to go out with them, they are buying me gifts and writing little love notes all day long. What can I do to let them know I am not interested at the moment...?

2007-04-08 06:47:32 · 28 answers · asked by EW 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-08 06:47:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i got marry on 13april2004.when will i marry ?i love someone his name is kunal willi marry himplz rly i m very disturb.if i marry with someone how willhe

2007-04-08 06:46:08 · 5 answers · asked by shweta s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have had really rough times for our entire marriage (thats not to say its all bad though). He lies constantly about everything. He made up a military carrer and lies about every aspect of our lives to me and others. Everyone else knows what a liar he is, I dont want to be assosicated with that. He is also extremely irresponsible. I had decided to get out, started my leaving plan and told him, thats it, I'm done. He cried and begged me not take leave that he loved me and wanted our family to stay together. I felt like I owed it to my family to try and make it work, but just days after that decision, I just dont think I can stay. I have no desire to work it out with a man that I do not trust or respect and honestly dont feel I ever will again. Is it selfish for me to take my children and go without another chance? Should I stay true to my feelings, or try for my kids? He says he will do whatever it takes. I think that is just another lie. Am I being unfair to deny him?

2007-04-08 06:45:01 · 15 answers · asked by My two cents 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi everyone! I have a friend that is desperate for advice. She's 15. She's a gorgeous girl, and im not just saying that. She has liked this guy for quite a while! When we were younger he was like her dream guy lol :). Anyway, she met him one day she was walking down the street by his house. He introduced himself and was being a complete gentlemen. They set up a date to hang at the park. That day he let her know he was 20. I couldn't believe it! The guy looks like he's about 17 or 18. But yea, he's 20. She quickly told me about this, and is sad because he's such a great guy to her but the age difference is a problem. Although she said he was a sweet guy and she wants a relationship with him, she showed me some of the texts he sent her on her phone. A couple times already, he has brought up the "sex" subject. Things like "i want you in bed". She's worried that he just wants her for sex and NOT a relationship. What should i tell her?! I don't want to give her the wrong advice...

2007-04-08 06:43:05 · 24 answers · asked by colorfulgarden 1 in Singles & Dating

You would not have a whole new group of in-laws to get used to.

2007-04-08 06:42:53 · 13 answers · asked by alfie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am searching for my birth mom and have been looking for many years. Can you help me?

2007-04-08 06:40:44 · 7 answers · asked by tessa1942 1 in Marriage & Divorce

a girl was with a bunch of her friends, i started talking to her. at that time her friends had disappeared. as soon as she ask me if i wanted to go for coffee with her. she looked around to see if her friends were still around.. what does this mean to you

2007-04-08 06:39:17 · 5 answers · asked by tripppah 3 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i have been dating 5 months and he is awesome. im really in love with him. but his friends have told me in the past that he had sex with another girl but he denied it so i try not to believe it. it hurts to think he even did something like that. i dont know who to believe? should i talk to him about it or what?

2007-04-08 06:38:25 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i think she was waiting for me. I went away for 4 months and came back she had a new bf. I made the mistake of telling her i really had liked her. Ever since she has made herself very distant. It is possible she has feelings for both of us and is trying to sort her feelings out or did i spook her? Did i just ruin a 3 yr friendship?

2007-04-08 06:36:45 · 3 answers · asked by KID87 1 in Singles & Dating

he really buggered me up, i want revenge and what better way than to take it out on his pride and joy... its a 93 corsa if that helps... suggestions people?

2007-04-08 06:35:06 · 11 answers · asked by babygal 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

after a girl gets pregnant and doesn't exercise is it most likely that she will just gain more after the baby is born and do things get worse? how much would they gain?

if a girl doesn't exercise and smokes when do they first get health problems?

is it natural for some girls to complain and bitc* about everything no matter what age they are or do they mature at some point?

Thanks for your opinion, I appreciate it......

2007-04-08 06:34:58 · 23 answers · asked by Butter 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I pay child support every month on time and its in the papers that i get my girl on certain days and weekends but so far the mother wont let me see her when im suposed to she always has an excuse what can i do leagaly to see my daughter???

2007-04-08 06:34:30 · 6 answers · asked by "OGER" 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have known each other 2 months, and the other day, he was at work, and an msn message came thru on his computer. I opened it and then read the message history, it appears that he has been seeing someone else, and he was planning to meet her in the summer. I am devastated, crying all the time. Can we get over this, as he is going away to work for 6 months and the other woman is going to where he will be working for 6 months too. Don't know what to do for the best.

2007-04-08 06:33:47 · 24 answers · asked by Loli 2 in Singles & Dating

I am in the army and gone from home alot. Every time that she has cheated I have been away. currently I am stationed overseas and I am begining to get the feeling that she may be doing something back home.

2007-04-08 06:33:17 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Where should I go looking for girls that have tan skin and really long dark hair? (i live in america and there are none here, at least not where i am)

2007-04-08 06:31:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

As you know, I was stood up last night. I don't think I asked the question right earlier, though. Why did he pursue me for a week, call twice that day to confirm and then not answer my call?
And why am I sad? I wasn't the one who even asked out. Even gave him a chance to break the date THAT DAY (yesterday). He was tired and I said that we didn't have to do anything tonight. Then he quickly said, "no, no I'm fine, just don't want to be at work". He even called later with movie times. I'm just confused. And I'm really surprized how sad I was afterwards. Is there a chance there is a legit reason? Or am I just a joke?

2007-04-08 06:31:25 · 12 answers · asked by allfwdmotioncounts 1 in Singles & Dating

After watching Eastenders (yes Im sad, lol) Rob left May for Dawn. Does this really happen? Have you met another female and fallen in love with her? And left a woman who has been with you for sometime. Why was the other woman worth it? Could you see yourself treating this new woman the same as the old?

This should make for interesting reading!

2007-04-08 06:27:11 · 15 answers · asked by buff1ne 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Men if you had a girl that was honest, loving, hard worker, supportive, dedicated to you, trusting, funny, beautiful, and sweet would you care if she had some quirky things like not liking anyone to use her pillow, hating to see cords laying around the house, etc? Would you care if she had quikry little things?

2007-04-08 06:26:59 · 35 answers · asked by ilih2006 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-08 06:26:48 · 6 answers · asked by blue 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been in a 10 year relationship, since first year University, one could say that it was my first real love and we married after 6 years into the relationship. 4 months ago, She suddenly left and quoted the reason to be "fell out of love". I still love her very much, but it has left me very dazed and confused. We had recently changed environment and work, maybe that might have been a catalyst to this. We are in talking terms and care about each other... but is this the end?? Once someone falls out of love, is that the end?

2007-04-08 06:24:52 · 14 answers · asked by Dazed and Confused 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Girls, what does your bf/husband do in the relationship that just gets under your skin? I am open to all comments. Does he leave the toilet seat up? Don't help with the dishes? Fall asleep after sex?

2007-04-08 06:24:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do girls like that even exist? I'm serious. I'm not going to get into the "I'm a nice guy" thing becuase it's kind of old. It's true, but I just wonder if girls that that even exist. Have you ever met anyone like that?

2007-04-08 06:23:15 · 5 answers · asked by justintime03_2 1 in Singles & Dating

So, I'm not sure if I should be mad or not. But, I am steaming. Married for 2.5 years. I have 4 kids and he has 2. none together. I moved 3 hours away from my family to live with him. His family does not like me. They don't say that I'm not welcome but I always feel very unwelcome. I have found notes to my husband where his sister has called me the most evil person she has ever met. His family hates me. Every holiday he makes plans with them without telling me. This year he made plans to go to church with them. He asked me if I wanted to go the day before yesterday. I'm upset because I have a choice. I could go with him or spend easter alone at home with my kids while he takes his kids. So, here I am alone with my kids on easter while he is with his real family. He has no regard for me at all. Didn't ask what I was planning and didn't show any remorse when I confronted him. My family is 3 hours away. so here I am alone with just me and my kids. should I be upset?

2007-04-08 06:17:59 · 12 answers · asked by reowrrrr 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so my friends B-day it in 3 days and i said that i would do some thing for her and i would love to but i don't know what to do cuz
1. i don't have a lot of $$
2. i don't no it i should have a lot of people do something or just like 5 or 6 of us ??
so what should i do for her???

2007-04-08 06:15:48 · 6 answers · asked by RaRa 1 in Friends

Dear Josh.
I miss all of you back there at HST. I specially miss you. There were so many things about you that I have liked, such as your sense of humor, your niceness, your friendliness. Ever since you and I met, I felt like you would always be my friend no matter what. As our friendship grew, I started to like you for more than a friend. There were so many great memories with you. I remember the time when I asked you to show me Ms.Grant’s classroom, but you decided to walk me down. Or remember the times when you would steal something out of my backpack and see how long it was before I discovered it missing? I specially miss all those times when you would sing to me in the hallways to annoy me, I would act annoyed but secretly I liked it and now I miss that because I don’t see you anymore. There are again so many things I liked about you. I always felt like there was always a connection beteween
and had I not left, we could’ve been together at last. I like you a lot, and I will always remember you.
Always and Forever,
Lola.

2007-04-08 06:15:30 · 6 answers · asked by ummm....i dont know! 3 in Singles & Dating

who hear would like to send me an email. Say whatever you like. Put the title of your email as your answer

2007-04-08 06:13:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have decided to leave my husband after nearly a year of being manipulated by him. We married after knowing each other for only 4 months, I married him because I loved him but circumstances give me the impression(though he says he loves me) that he really married me so that he could be sponsored by me to stay in this country. (I married him under the impression that he loved me and thought that it was the right time, only to find out that his work visa was about to expire in a few months- veru suspicious, yet I still married him thinking it was just a coincedence). I then found emails from another woman from when we were dating indicating they had been intimate and I let it go thinking it again was a coincidence.

2007-04-08 06:12:49 · 13 answers · asked by MsTrust 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I currently have two bridemaids, two jr. bridesmaids, and two flower girls, but they're all under 18 and I don't really have any female friends or relatives (of age) that I'm close to. My closest, best friend for the past 12 years is the groom. All of my cousins are either really young, or much older and I hardly know them. My fiance has five groomsmen (including BM)and a jr. groomsman. I don't want to look like a loser with no friends, but I don't want to just pick anyone for the MOH. What should I do?

2007-04-08 06:11:34 · 16 answers · asked by BostonBabe 1 in Weddings

has anyone ever met someone off a chatroom n it actually worked out??

2007-04-08 06:11:01 · 34 answers · asked by LISA S 2 in Singles & Dating