I've been in a 10 year relationship, since first year University, one could say that it was my first real love and we married after 6 years into the relationship. 4 months ago, She suddenly left and quoted the reason to be "fell out of love". I still love her very much, but it has left me very dazed and confused. We had recently changed environment and work, maybe that might have been a catalyst to this. We are in talking terms and care about each other... but is this the end?? Once someone falls out of love, is that the end?
2007-04-08 06:24:52 · 14 answers · asked by Dazed and Confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm sure she still loves you but not in love with you. I think she has found somebody on the side.
2007-04-08 06:41:43 · answer #1 · answered by Susie L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it can happen. One of you has grown further than the other. Maybe she has fallen out of love with you, but still does
love you. After 10 years, it does happen. Sounds like she
wants to spread her wings, and you should let her. Remember
"if you love someone, set her free. If she does not return, the
love never was". And who knows, she may miss you and in
time, need to be with you. Evidently she is confused about
her feelings regarding life and future. So let her experiment
altho it hurts so bad. It has to be. Maybe you will find another
road with more tar also.
2007-04-08 13:34:22 · answer #2 · answered by Buttercup003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand this falling out of love thing. It sounds like an excuse to something else. Is there someone else? Did she feel like you stopped loving her? There is a real reason in there somewhere. Try to find it and go from there. Good luck!
2007-04-08 13:29:41 · answer #3 · answered by natsuko1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can make it work if you have to without being in love. Marriage is more about the little everyday stuff anyway. Millions of people have done it throughout history, but it would be a fairly unsatisfying experience.
I'm sorry this has happened to you. Good luck.
2007-04-08 13:42:39 · answer #4 · answered by wsibwigu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can regain the love, but it takes a while. Trust me.
My ex cheated on me three years ago. I loved him after that, but one day it sort of hit me.. he cheated, with my friend, and now our marriage was over. We haven't had one to go back to since. He's tried, WE tried, but it is just simply over at this point. I fell out of love and cannot seem to get it back, so I've given up.
2007-04-08 13:28:39 · answer #5 · answered by JanksGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is something that you must discuss with her. Maybe ask her why she "fell out of love", ask what you guys can do to work it out... etc.
I know from experience that you can fall back IN love, but all relationships take work. Sadly they cant just stay good on their own...
Good luck =)
2007-04-08 13:29:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, yes, it usually is the complete end to a relationship. It can be very very rough and you just gotta pull through it.
2007-04-08 13:28:45 · answer #7 · answered by Constantine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah She found someone else At least you know now instead of many years down the road.
2007-04-08 13:30:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over the daze and get another woman .Just like she did
2007-04-08 13:47:08 · answer #9 · answered by dad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, it is the end..
She either has someone else in mind or she has already
found him...
2007-04-08 13:30:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋