my boyfriend and i have been dating 5 months and he is awesome. im really in love with him. but his friends have told me in the past that he had sex with another girl but he denied it so i try not to believe it. it hurts to think he even did something like that. i dont know who to believe? should i talk to him about it or what?
2007-04-08 06:38:25 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not joking - Make sure it was actually a girl, and not one of his lying friends. Maybe it was one of his friends he was with. (Maybe he wasn't lying about being with another girl.)
Talk to him about it because with no communication, there's no realtionship!
Also, have him tested for STDs.
2007-04-08 06:47:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trick Him Tell Him You Talkt To The Girl And She Told You Every Thing If He Calls You a Lier Than He Dident Cheat Or Ask Her Even Thow you probly Hate Her At least Youll know The truth.or who care's if he cheated as long as he is with you now that's who he loves
FOLLOW YOUR HEART!!!
2007-04-08 13:54:52 · answer #2 · answered by Eric F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u must talk to him about it u haven't really been dating that long and maybe he did it when u both had just hooked upand he wasn't sure how long u two would be together u have to give him the benefit of the doubt if he still lies r acts like it was no big thing then he's a jerk and your lucky u found out now good luck
2007-04-08 13:50:05 · answer #3 · answered by donna k 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in the past when? before u met? or during d last 5 months?...
form experience sometimes friedns ar ejsut foes..they dont really want ur best n u neevr knwo what's thier motives//jealous...etc..
so if ur in liove n happy wiht ur boy, then let it go for now, coz u better enjyo it while it's ehre rather than worry bout smthn which may not be true..it's all abotu turst..if u asked him and he said no, n u beleive him, then let go. Actions speak louder than words..so if overal l u can say he's als omadly in love with u (by the way he acts n treats u ) then i wouldnt worry..
if he acts weird distant etc..then there's reaosn for doubt..
for now just let it go n be happy..its hard to be happy in thi life..these moments r rare and few..so have faith in urself n ur bf. yes, its harder to trust but it makes u srogner n a better person..
hope this helps:)
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2007-04-08 13:45:19 · answer #4 · answered by sakura 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot truly love someone without the trust. It's like 90% love. If you are happy with that, fine. But if you want to know the truth, ask the girl( the one "supposed" fling). No fighting, just find out the truth. If he loves you, he will take you to her to clear up the nonsense. If he makes a huge deal out of it, beware!
2007-04-08 13:44:03 · answer #5 · answered by janjaley 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there are always two sides to every story! dont forget that. and there ARE mean people in this world that love nothing more then starting drama!!! i would be completly honest with your man and talk with him about it.. i think the communication is best in a relationship.. just try to keep an open mind, people make mistakes..
2007-04-08 13:42:52 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sucks being cheated on... trust me ive been there done that... ive been on BOTH sides of that and BOTH sides suck... but im a woman and well... to be blatently honest with you you should leave hiss ***.... but only if your gut instincts tells you that he cheated on you! MOst of the time the friends are jellouse b/c now their "Boy" has a girl and his time is taken up with her so they will try to break you up by telling lies.... so what you need to do is sit down and talk to him CALMLY if hes telling you the truth youll know and if hes lying youll know trust your gut! listen to what your heart, and your instincts tell you they are very often correct...
2007-04-08 13:57:23 · answer #7 · answered by Hblasingame 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should talk to him. Its always good to be honest with each other in a relationship. Ask him if he has ever cheated on you and tell him he should be honest. Look him in the eyes that sometimes helps.
2007-04-08 13:41:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He may have told his friends that once because he was pressured into saying it...
I think he would know more about who he had sex with than his friends.
2007-04-08 13:42:04 · answer #9 · answered by chaloobe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first even if he did it he will still deny it......
how is your relationship?
if you don't plan to marry him and dont see things working out then get rid of him now before you get hurt
try living with him and then you see the real him......most couples break up after living together
2007-04-08 13:42:41 · answer #10 · answered by Butter 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋