internet relationships?

Question

has anyone ever met someone off a chatroom n it actually worked out??

Answer 1

It has worked out for me ,but it hurts a lot.So be careful.

Answer 2

Not likely. I wouldn't reccomend chat rooms because someone could be lying on there age. That cant ever be good. And eharmony relationships do not work and if they do then it is never fun. The eharmony matchmaker matches people exactly the same and thats never fun. But chatrooms are dangerous and i wouldnt reccomend accually meeting someone from a chatroom.

Answer 3

Met my man in a chatroom 6 years ago, he was in Northern Ireland and I was in Wales. We're getting married in August!
I think it's important to say that neither of us were looking for a relationship at the time. We just got chatting.

Answer 4

Well, I met a guy on myspace, and I think I'm in love with him now. I told him how I feel about him , but he thinks it won't work out because we both live in different countries...I think it would work if both of the people are looking for someone and they like eachother and they can handle the long distance thing.

Answer 5

Yeah and it was great I will never forget her, It lasted for nine months but we only ever met twice as we lived in different countries but It was special to me and her at the time and we just got chatting and things just evolved it was geeky at first (Im one of these that thinks ppl who generally meet off the web have some aversion to actually talking to a woman face to face, I mean im shy and a bit self concious but I still talk to women, as im a nice guy) so ppl who are scared of the opposite sex - dont be! there great, just be friendly and instantly you will get a gut reaction as to whether they are a nice person or a big boob! :P

but in answer to your question, yeah and it was great, she was my first love (im only 20) but even though we dont talk to each other now (my choice really as she ended it but the way she ended it made me feel she was hiding something so when she said lets be friends I couldnt because I didnt trust her) Maybe I got that wrong but we all make mistakes but it doesnt mean to say it was any easier letting her go from inside me, it was rock hard and to this day there are things that remined me of her and always will be and I know I will always love her in some way and never ever will I forget her so much so that Ive promised myself when im a grey old cogger :P lol im going to tell my grandkids the story of me and this woman im reffering to because, It was great!

in general though lady they dont work but if your lucky and you get on as friends and it evolves naturally let it! It will play havoc with your emotions regarding the amount of trust you have to put into someone and the faith you need to keep in them

there are some that work so much so they get married

there are some like me who work for a while but leave ever lasting memories

there are some that are a disaster

if you become friends and are at ease with each other then there could be something there but my advice is critically analyse the person youu are talking to subtely so they dont grasp that you are trying to work them out, understand???? hope so but all you must do is if you feel its getting serious is tell people about it and although they will be like wtf??? are you nuts if its special to you, go with it, go with your feelings, follow your heart but stay safe by telling friends just incase there nutty!

but follow your heart, I did and others have and although there is a high chance of it all falling apart as you need a lot of trust etc. if its a mutual respect and friendship between each other it will be an everlasting memory (the time you will be together for) it maybe a few weeks, few months, few years, a life time but what ever if you have a good gut feeling then follow your heart and stay safe by telling people

although personally speaking its had such an effect on me in that she is my barometer in the sense that before her I didnt have a set "type" but there are certain things now that I want my woman to be like (not meaning looks) I mean personality wise, that I found in my ex, which I havent yet found in dates that I have been on since her!

but good luck and lots of love
xoxox

Answer 6

My boyfriend and I originally met on Blackplanet.com. We were friends first, chatting via internet and over the phone in 2001, met each other face-to-face and became best buds in 2003, started dating in early 2005 and have been together eversince. We are very much in love!

Answer 7

Got to say, I have met my boyfriend on FaceParty.com! 2 Years along the line, we are still hapilly together... I thought it was wonderful to talk like we did before we actually got to meet! How often does it work like this? Not that often I suppose but in my case so worth it!

Answer 8

Yes but you can't live on internet chatting alone. If possible you should try to get together in a phsyical sense as well as a mental sense. That way you dont burn yourselfs out on mental attraction while you have no physical. Good luck

Answer 9

The last guy I dated out of chat room found out he was married I had a cop run his plates when he came down to visit me. And another was a player. So NO there is to many lies and they tell you anything you wanna hear. If you truely believe him have his plates run and get his last name and first name and check it out on www.casenet.com I did it to my husband before we got married it tells you how much trouble the other person has been into. Or get his full name and have a cop run hisa name for ya. Don't believe everything they tell you.

Answer 10

One of my sons met a girl in a chat room that by coincidence went to the same h.s.. They met face-to-face and have been going together exclusively over 4 years now.

Answer 11

I've seen a lot of crazy people get together that way. From what I have seen so far, I wouldn't want to wed anyone like the people who meet online. I will just stick with people I know in real life.