A bit rude?

Question

I love a guy and we r gonna get engaged. we live in 2 different countries. we chat ALOT ( almost the whole day :) )
however i have 2 problems:
1) 90% of the times i call he doesnt call back or answer. he says he is busy
2) sometimes i feel he gets harsh on me (not verbally) but the way he writes on chat. its sometimes feels rude

any suggestions. (dont say he doesnt love me coz i know he does, otherwise he wouldnt considering coming all over from the other part of the world to my country just to get married)

Answer 1

I hate to do this to you, and this way, but I'm not really in love with you, I just want to be friends, I don't love you.

Come on now, do you honestly think some guy you've never met is seriously going to move to another country and marry you. And you're getting engaged how? through text messaging ?

Answer 2

He is either one of those pink beer bellied men from england that want a thai/polish bride to do all their dirty work or he is a poor Jamaican guy trying to get his citizenship anywhere in the world apart from Jamaica.
THINK WOMEN.THINK!!

I hope you know what you getting yourself in for. Make sure you get a MARRIAGE PRENUMPTIAL.So if it does all end in tears he won't get any of your cash...and you can't take his.
Good Luck

Answer 3

Have you ever met him face to face?

How long have you two been dating?

How often has he visited you? How often have you visited him?

Have you met his family? Has he met yours?

How old are you? How old did he say he was?

Which country do each of you live in?

How often do you call him? And vice versa?

Answer 4

At the risk of sounding hurtful, is there perhaps another reason he wants to come here and you are his ticket?

Answer 5

I would have to say
Very Insinuation Suggests Aspersions
(or VISA)

Answer 6

umm.....how can u trust him if he's in another country?? i think u guyz went a bit 2 far wit the engagement...u should've met him in person 1st, but i dunno the guy so i guess it's kool