Family & Relationships - 20 March 2007

2007-03-20 02:43:25 · 1 answers · asked by K 2 in Singles & Dating

I have gone to the beach and have only been out there for a few days at a time and i have gotten pretty dark over that time period. I am now going to the tanning bed and i am not too bad but i have only gone only once. i personally have gotten darker in the sun but i want to know what has worked for different people.

2007-03-20 02:42:42 · 12 answers · asked by ben_ukraine19 2 in Singles & Dating

well i'll start from the beginning. abt nevember time this girl came to work in the area i was working in. she didn't look very attractive or pretty and she looked at me, maybe coz i'm tall and she is short, and i was thinking how ugly is this girl and who in the world would want to marry her.( i know its not nice to call or think any girl is ugly, since every girl in the world is beautiful in their own way ) Anyway so i didn't see her for a while and then again in december she came to work in my area, coz of the xmas rush. Then as i saw her again, i just thought to myself is this the same girl who came to work in my area in nov. For some strange reason i felt as if i liked her. So now at this very moment i have so many feelings for her and i think i am in love with her. I think she may like me to, since we both stare at each other sometimes. But why did i start having feeling for her ?

2007-03-20 02:42:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What happens if the reason that he fell out of love with you because you weren't yourself or the person he did fall in love with in the first place. I wasn't myself for the last year (we were living together this year) of a 3 year relationship because of me being scared of losing him. I did extreme measures to make him happy, like being available to him all the time, letting him do what he wants avoiding any serious conflict (basicly losing my independence and identity). The reason why i did this was because he had committment issues in the past with me which made me think that if did everything to make him happy i won't lose him, but then he dumps me teliing me that he wasn't happy in the last couple of months and doesn't feel the same way by doesn't know why. I still love him and I regret in what I have done (in my case in losing myself first and then second, losing him)

2007-03-20 02:41:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a bi young woman. The woman I am dating wants me to accompany her on holiday with along with another woman. This other woman is also bi. I know what will end up happening, but this other woman is my friend's mum.

My gf is insisting that I do this as I owe her quite a bit of money.

Should I tell my friend (we are not that close) or just leave it?

2007-03-20 02:41:39 · 8 answers · asked by nettiecurtains 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my friend are talking one time, then suddenly we tackeled the topic of boys then she told me that somone wants to make her his girlfriend, he was my crush,i really like this guy. should i lose him to my bestfriend or fight for the sake that i like him?also should i hate my friend for she was the one being liked by hm?

2007-03-20 02:41:35 · 20 answers · asked by nikaramirez30 2 in Friends

look guys, i work with this girl. I’m fallen for this girl b/c she showed me she liked me (clumsy around me, STEALING GLANCES at me. the whole EYE CONTACT GAME*) we started talking, became friends. I ask her out, didn't work,(bad timing, misunderstanding. No number. So she gives me her number) she seemed like she still wanted to hang out. So i asked again, then she says, I’m busy now. so i said u got my number, let me now.
But her attitude is different now. and she only want s to talk about work related things, nothing flirtish* or personal.

What did I do wrong? What can I do now?
Why did she make me fall for her if she didn't want to go out?

MAYBE SHE WANNTED TO ONLY BE FRENIDS WITH ME, AND I MISSUNDERSTOOD EVERYTHING?

2007-03-20 02:40:50 · 12 answers · asked by S. 1 in Singles & Dating

my friend really insults me ALOT and it pisses me off.One time i told her that she hurt my feelings and that i dont like how she insults me without any good reason.She told me that shes just joking and that how i am a big baby.

2007-03-20 02:40:26 · 3 answers · asked by Euphoria 3 in Friends

oky there is this girl i have been with her for 2 years and i love her more then i love anything and she loves me 2 but i went on a vacation and found some one els she is something from a book when i saw her i stoped breathing and at the end of the night we wore dancing started to talk and we become good friends and i have never cheated on my gf to this day but i have fallin for the new one and i feel like i should do somthing wat should i do?

2007-03-20 02:39:46 · 11 answers · asked by lee77dt 1 in Family

im a vegetarian and my friend keeps making jokes like "i have another sausage in my bag, would you like it".
I have told her that i dont think this is funny and that shes just being juvenile. do you agree? is she really a good friend?

2007-03-20 02:38:33 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

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2007-03-20 02:38:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Hey everyone! I am 20 yrs old and am still living at home with my parents but am seriously considering moving out. I have a couple of questions that I'm hoping someone can help me with. First of all, my parents dont like the guy that i plan to move in with. If i tell them that i am moving out against their will, especially with him they will try to take my car away and also prevent my from taking my stuff out of the house. My question is if they are allowed to take my car if it is in my name? The car is fully paid off but they do pay the insurance. I am willing to start paying it on my own if i move out but i want to make sure that they cant take me to court for stealing the car anything. And secondly, can they prevent my from moving out? Should I even tell them that im moving out or should i just leave one day? Any comments and suggestions are welcome. Thank You!

2007-03-20 02:37:21 · 6 answers · asked by tired20 1 in Family

2007-03-20 02:36:49 · 32 answers · asked by hisangel28 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so I know that as you get older you and your friends start going your own ways, life takes you onto different paths... but how do you get your friends to understand that you are feeling left behind? I have alot going on in my life right now that I know not everyone understands (Mom is really sick and I have to help take care of her) and as friends they always say... IF YOU NEED ANYTHING JUST CALL... but then when I do call just to talk and vent they don't want to hear all the bad stuff going on or they are too busy to listen because they have things in their lives too... I have major things going on in my life and I feel alone? I think I'm getting depressed becasue I don't care about me, I don't care about anything right now, I feel that the only thing I can do is stop talking to my friends... really I feel like I should just stop talking to eveyone one and hide in my room... What do I do?

2007-03-20 02:35:22 · 11 answers · asked by A Friend 2 in Friends

But i know I still do love him. Do you think he is my "safe place"? does any one else feel like this?

2007-03-20 02:34:19 · 22 answers · asked by Brat 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a guy that I have been with or some years and he has this bad habit of not coming home at night. He does this at least twice a week and he knows that I don't like it but he continues to do it and I am so tired of it so what should I do?

2007-03-20 02:33:40 · 20 answers · asked by lady of the morning 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband wants to terminate his right to the child & pay no child support. Is that possible in Virginia? PLEASE HELP! His baby mother gives him all kinds of promblems & even tries to turn the child against him. He feels like he has no other choice.

2007-03-20 02:32:19 · 10 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Family

How would you react if your daugher got preganant at 14 yrs old , and your wife new all about the pregnacy from the start and didnt tell you , just kept it a secret between her and your daughter and carried on as normal hiding the pregnacy all of the 9 months , only for her recton to be when your daugher went into labour is OH MY GOD ID DIDNT EVEN NOW SHE WAS PREGANANT .

this happened to my sisters husbands niece , the child is now 6 months old but the wife ,when she is talking about the baby she is slipping up on things about her daughter being preganant ,when she said she didnt know she was , anyway she has told her husband that she did no now but he says he will never be able to trust her again .
how would you react ?

2007-03-20 02:31:51 · 9 answers · asked by fafandloo 5 in Family

he is working on building site

2007-03-20 02:31:23 · 13 answers · asked by miss smidgey 4 in Singles & Dating

Ok well the owner of my job has a son and the son works there.. anyways one day out of the blue he sends me an email saying .. i would like to get to know you better would you like to go out on a date .. now we went out on a date to have a couple of drinks ( that was on a thursday around 5 pm) then i told him i was going to go home and change then ill call him to see where can we go to hang out for a bit .. i left my house i started heading to his .. i called him and he told me he was going to talk to his friend then he was going to call me back .. he never called me back the next day at work he told me his phone had died.. so that same day he told me to call him so that we could chill .. so i called him later and he didnt pick up .. the whole weeken he didnt pick up .. sunday night around 8:00 pm he text me say heyy! i didnt replay until 12:00 midnight.. but then he didnt reply at all .. monday comes and i text him hey and he doesnt reply .. now today tuesday .. he asked me to clock

2007-03-20 02:31:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-20 02:30:12 · 5 answers · asked by Zero 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

well I end up snapping at her, I don't want to but it comes out! I don't yell at her but I say things to here like no Sh!t and stuff like that. I hate myself for that. I try not to but I do the same thing to the first person That I see when life frustrates me!
how do I work on that?

2007-03-20 02:30:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

the other day she told me that she had a fling w/ a married man. and its bothering me for some reason. this took place b4 we were even together but it still bothers me for some reason. and help/advice on this. i havent said anything to her about it bothering me.

2007-03-20 02:30:08 · 19 answers · asked by defensor-fortis 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He's my classmate and i like him since the 1st time we met (about 3months ago), we're both foreigner here, he's european and I'm asian. and since the 1st time we've been good friend. every month he always fly back to his country for several days to visit his dad who is very ill. and he always ask my help to get the paper from the course for him (we're in language course). But this time is a bit weird cos he dont even told me, so surprised me when last week suddenly he told my teacher that he can't come to the class cos must fly back to greece. O God, i miss him so much, n he should be come today, but why this time he doesn't show up? People, should i send text today, asking how r u, etc...or should wait till tomorrow?i dont want look obviously that i like him, thats why is it ok if i send him a sms, asking if everything allright with him?
Please people, i need ur opinion, thank you!!!

2007-03-20 02:29:47 · 10 answers · asked by Vivienne 4 in Singles & Dating

I was at the store yesterday and this guy i like was working and i looked at him and he saw me looking and he looked away he is kinda of shy.

2007-03-20 02:29:39 · 9 answers · asked by focus_e_us360 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-20 02:28:38 · 6 answers · asked by emadusa1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend of 18 months and I had a massive fight last night.He claims I always put him last and make him feel bad about himself and I couldn't agree less.Examples:
He was sick with the flu for 3 weeks and I didn't go see him but talked to him on the phone.What else was I supposed to do?If I went over there I could have caught it too.
He was in a car accident 3 months ago and ended up with a broken arm and leg and a concussion.He got mad at me because when I got the call from the hospital at like 7 am,I was sleeping off a night of partying and didn't go to see him until 6pm that day.Did he want me to drive over there half-asleep?He claims I put him down all the time in front our friends.I may talk about hooking up with other guys in front of him but it's all said in good fun and everyone but him takes it that way.He also keeps getting mad when I flirt with my ex.My ex and I are just like that.It's harmless fun and nothing more.
He's threatening to dump me if I don't change.

2007-03-20 02:28:24 · 41 answers · asked by Jamie 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-20 02:27:56 · 7 answers · asked by euphoriabelle 1 in Friends

I'm just asking for advice.

2007-03-20 02:27:19 · 7 answers · asked by Taylor 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have had a love marriage to my husband who is from Pakistan, I have 2 children from my previous marriage. My first husband just wanted stay in this UK. I was alone for 5 years until I met my second husband who is too from Pakistan. I went along to Pakistan with the children and married this man. Making family sacrifices along the way. This marriage was soley a love marriage and was based on our own decision as no member of my own family were in agrement with this marriage. I totally had trust in him and he had led me to believe that we will live our life together forever. To cut a long story short my husband got his visa for the UK and totally changed, Basically he was living a life a a single man. He has left me time and time again for the smallest of reasons basically because he needed an excuse for him to do what ever he wanted and leaving me do all the responsibities of the household. I am 6 months pregnant and my husband has now gone to Pakistan for a holiday bearing in mind that he has been away from home 5 months before. My husband has know from day 1 that I am pregnant. Please could you tell me if I should take my husband back into my home when he returns from his holiday to make a new start.

2007-03-20 02:27:08 · 22 answers · asked by zara 1 in Marriage & Divorce