Family & Relationships - 17 March 2007

My friend, whose girlfriend married to someone else due to usual arrange marriage thing in Indian culture, although both of them loved each other so much, but my friend's girlfriend had to marry against her wishes under her family pressure to someone else(as her family belongs to v backward areas).Both of them had a heart break and she married to some one else....that's what my friend told me.Now the problem is that my friend want to forget her and wants to start new begining in his life, but he is unable to forgot his girlfriend till now, and his girlfriend too, being married now, still cares and loves him and tried to talk to him several time on phone(which he didnt answered).Yesterday he was v upset as their college was holding it's annual convocation and all old students were in college again,including his girlfriend, but my friend told me that he's not going to attend the convocation and meet her. But he was really feeling so bad that time. Can anyone suggest anya advice in this?

2007-03-17 23:59:04 · 6 answers · asked by Manu 2 in Friends

...they have never talked to or met when they really perhaps mean they are attracted to that person and would probably like to get to know them and possibly date them?
Some even say they love them and dont hardly if at all know the other .
Maybe this is the new way of saying "I'm Attracted to...." for the younger generations? It really is a misleading phrase in many case, dont ya think? just looking for different opinions and putting food for thought out there....

2007-03-17 23:57:53 · 11 answers · asked by Gary G 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-17 23:56:44 · 3 answers · asked by Shashiz 2 in Singles & Dating

and do you think that falling in love is inevitable? in other words, if the season is happening, could it be just anyone who becomes the object of affection who walks into the persons life who shows companionship and good nature? in other words, is it possible to just fall in love with anyone if the timing is right.

2007-03-17 23:54:51 · 11 answers · asked by wcarolinew 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend has been going through a hard time. He has been applying for new jobs and attending interviews in his free time. He works full-time so he spends his free time preparing for the interviews. But the problem is he gets negative reply each time. He is still waiting for some answers but yesterday he told me he is fed up of loosing. The thing is I have become very needy of him and I started to worry he does not care about me anymore as he has become distant with me. He has tried to explain to me many times that he needs to focus but I did not handle it very well. He told me last week that he is not sure about me anymore due to these problems and he has become less enthusiastic about our relationship. I really worry about loosing him. How can I make things better? I have been trying to give him space but I worry he has made his mind up that I am not the girl he wants as he thinks I will not support him when he needs to be.

2007-03-17 23:52:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-17 23:50:33 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

After 6 yrs of engagement we got married, but it lasted only for a year, I left him because he prefered to be with that GRO. It's been 7months now and still i hardly believe it myself.I'm trying to move on anyway. We are not yet annuled, in the philippines we have no divorce. Still saving for my annulment..

2007-03-17 23:49:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

And for your brothers and sisters?

Did they tell you where their names came from?

And what about the names you chose for your children?

I'm not asking for any names, it's up to you if you want or not to write your real name here. I'm only asking for your stories.

Thank you for sharing, and have a wonderful Sunday! :)

2007-03-17 23:47:11 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-03-17 23:45:42 · 2 answers · asked by c v 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Mr Shah was a C.A. He used to teach accounts in Sukh Sagar Institutes in Mumbai during 1983 -85. Any contact number will be appriciated. He used to stay at Napeansea Rd in Matru Ashish building.

2007-03-17 23:45:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-17 23:45:22 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

....that it's not a deodorant or a book?

2007-03-17 23:43:09 · 11 answers · asked by siamesefish 1 in Friends

2007-03-17 23:42:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was in love with a guy of my class 2yrs back. But then I broke up because of some misunderstandings. Then I came to hear that he is in love with another girl of my class. I then completely changed my mind. Now after such a long time, he is telling me that he always loved me and no one else. He even cut his palm and wrote my name over that to prove it. He now says that everything was just a misunderstanding and he was never in love with that girl. He says that now he will die without me .
Another problem is that , the girl with whom I had heard he had a relation is my friend. She loves him madly and moreover I don't have very cordial relation with my friend from begginning. But the guy loves me madly.
What should I do now? Please help me out of this problem and tell me what should I do. I am in urgent need of good opinions.

2007-03-17 23:41:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-17 23:40:25 · 24 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Marriage & Divorce

hey all!... guys mainly

question: do u boys like jewelery? im thinking of getting my bf a piece of jewelery.. just not sure if he'll like it or not. im thinking a ring.. or one of them bracelects.. or a dog tag and im getting our date engraved on it.. watcha'll think? also, what type would be best.. silver.. sterling?

i'd love some suggestions..

i asked a few of my guy friends, one said.. rings are gay and he'd rather wear one when he's married another said it would be cute.. most go for the dog tags how bout u? =) THNK U!

2007-03-17 23:39:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

let me make it quick..
im in love with this man have been since the day i meet him i was 15 young nieve girl and i feel for him we meet up for a yr no sex or anything then 6 mnths after my 16th birthday we had sex i lost my virginty to him.. now every like 3 mnths we meet and have sx and i have feelings for him strong ones he has a girl friend but still sees me why?? why wen he has her ?

2007-03-17 23:39:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband's birthday is comming up and he wants to have a nice dinner together at home and then have sex,
I want it to be really speacial because it is his birthday so do you think i should make the house all dark and dim and has soft romantic music in the background, while candles and rose peddals are spreaded through out the house and when he gets home he will find me in bed with only a sxc bra and a g-string on with a bottle of wine on the bedside table!
or should he walk in the door and find me standing there with a long jacket on and when i take it off ill have nothing but skin.
Help guys i dont know what to do for him?
Just think what you would want a lady to do for you ( sex ) and then tell me cause i love him so much and i want his birthday to be a speacial night we will never forget!
thanks alot boys and lets hope we have great sex lol,
ta ta xx

2007-03-17 23:38:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom died for about 4 years but then it still hurts knowing that she was gone.

2007-03-17 23:36:56 · 8 answers · asked by shekinah_78 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a problem. I live in the middle of nowhere and it takes forever to get to town. I don't have a job and I live with my mother. I REALLY want to move out and i want a job sooo badly, but driving in to town is too expensive. It's hard to save money when I have to keep fuling up my vehicle every day. What do I do? I want to start my LIFE....I want a job, I want a home of my own, I want a social life and I want love.

2007-03-17 23:35:56 · 6 answers · asked by Answer Girl 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

plss can any one help me out,,,i based in germany but am going to affrica to marry,number one am only using 3 month befor i will go back,,,plsss can i have the wedding withought the traditional marriage??? 2,,,plssss can i finshed my marriage in 2 months time,,???both the weddin plans and aweariness i.v,and the wedding its self,,,and honeyy moon imidiatly,,.before i took off to germany plsss encourage me are all this possible all in 2 months withought traditionall marriage

2007-03-17 23:33:58 · 7 answers · asked by evangelist s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am the girl that wrote "why wont my boyfriend marry me?" last week. well now we are getting married!!!! we had a very lengthy discussion and i think i made him realise how important it is to me and he wants to make me happy. i am so excited to be his wife and for us to finally be a proper family! however, he wants to get married in vegas this year and then do it all properly with big wedding on beach etc.. in a couple of years when we move to australia. the beach wedding in oz is my dream wedding, we have a lot of friends there as well and i know it would be fantastic. the question is should we get married in vegas this year and then do the big weddding or just wait and do the dream wedding just once? i am just a little scared that it wont feel as special if we are already married. he doesnt mind either way, he is leaving the decision up to me. what do you think?

2007-03-17 23:31:58 · 17 answers · asked by pom pom 1 in Weddings

My friend has a friend in the Army..nothing to do with the US or Iraq etc...they are both in Asia. The girl every month sends him things so he can save money and help him out she also gave him a PSP and game...the guy will knows the girls likes him and misses him very much... the guy is busy and doesn't answer her messages but still leaves his phone on...it is known he doesn't answer anybody lol but if he didn't really care about the girl will he leave his phone still on? Before he left it off but now its on all the time...but he doesn't come on IM anymore before he would wait for her and told her he could never be angry at her..what do you think does he care?

2007-03-17 23:30:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What atrracts you to the female body?
I mean her breast etc..but why I mean its just skin if y'all think about it..
Thanks

2007-03-17 23:27:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-17 23:24:42 · 8 answers · asked by WEE WEN K 1 in Friends

okay, a few nights ago my boyfriend was just goofing around and making fun of me and he put on a pair of my highest heels and was walking around the room. anyway, he looked and walked great in them and it totally turned me on for some reason. i really kind of want to see him in them again. anyone else out there ever have this happen? is this strange for me to WANT my boyfriend to wear high heels?

2007-03-17 23:24:15 · 14 answers · asked by sabrinareto 2 in Singles & Dating

The thing is, i had been a good friend to them. We are a group. We are 4 people. Here in the four of us, 2 people: Zuleika and Charlene Denise are quite solid!!! They always left us out. Now, once the brought Kathleen with them and so I was left out. Then there was this time that Kathleen and I talked. And I found out that they are so backstabbing me!! Then they are acting so nice to me, but the truth is... The are just acting!! They have anger in me!! What to do?? I really wanted to end our friendship coz they are always hurting me and ruining me. But i just can't. WHAT THE HELL SHOULD I DO???

2007-03-17 23:22:04 · 5 answers · asked by cute10 1 in Friends

My friends needs some advice and i can't write what he wants to say so i am going to let him write it.

my father came back into my life after 15 years, he left cause people said that my mother was cheating on him, and she told him i wasn't his. and i heard a family member talking about the rumor was a joke and that person is like when he sees a friend mad has nothing to say he tries to make up a joke or comment, and he had to of said it no doubt that person did, and than my father calls me, and they pick up and every time they answer i come into the subject, and they say everything bad about me, and the reason i would do something bad or wrong is because i dont talk, very much, and they hate me cause i dont talk, and even when i do talk its worse than i would talk. and so i snap cause they purposely do things that make me snap, and do those bad things or wrong things. and so when everything is almost good they say and do things like move out, and for no reason, and yell about it

2007-03-17 23:20:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I like this guy but he is a year or two younger than me. Look-wise, he looked older though. Should I approach and start talking to him when I see him around?

2007-03-17 23:20:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It seems that men can get upand out of the door in 10 mins, but girls need at least half an hour... there seems to be noconcept of faffing... what do you think?

2007-03-17 23:20:00 · 11 answers · asked by Mr X 2 in Other - Family & Relationships