Family & Relationships - 17 March 2007

A dude I use to talk to who my sister calls her brother ups and ask her who I talk to while another girl is ova . My sister tells him that I said I'm going to get him back and he just smiles. He sometimes calls and ask wat I'm doing and might hold a conversation for a minute. He tells my lil sista stuff I lik for him to do while he takes her to work. One day he says let's fight so then we can make up after it. He then says make up sex is the best and smiles. He often ask me where I'm going when we're at skool. He tells me that I should stop smoking and often gets mad. Wat you think he wants me back ,still got feelings, or wat?

2007-03-17 20:40:02 · 8 answers · asked by Kimmy 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm 30 this year but still cannot find gf.sometimes i feel really shame when people ask me when marry or where is my gf.most of my friend and relative at my age already have relative including my brother.i know its because of my own weakness.i'm too shy when talking to girls especially to girls i like.some more my lifestyle is boring.i don't have much friends and most of them is guy.i really worry now and i start feel that i'll become single forever.

2007-03-17 20:39:05 · 29 answers · asked by Chong F 1 in Singles & Dating

A woman went to Saudi Arabia to help financial problem in the family.She is a registered teacher.She sent all her salary to her husband every month.After a year she noticed the unusual thing of her husband so she let her family find out what was going on.And they found out third party.She cried always and nearly crazy,until such time,he meet a man who has the same problem.She is young and good looking and the man is half of her age.They live like a couple until she discover she fall in love to the man.But now,she wants to separate the man again because she dont want trouble.She want to live peace with GOD.But the man dont want to.What do you think the man is looking for?

2007-03-17 20:39:02 · 13 answers · asked by sheryl r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im feeling so hurt and so sad and upset .. that after all 9 months with the guy i believed and loved with all my heart..
everything all the dreams of future is not there now..
he is dating around to see if it helps him to get over me he said he wants to go back to the way he was before i met him.
he says he doesnt feel anything for them and its not helping but he somehow knows he will get over me even though that he says he isnt sure what he wants says that he has feelings for me but dont love me, says he misses me alot but dont want to be with me.. he says he will hurt alot and that it hurts now knowing that i'll be with someone else but he'll get over it!
im so stupid i even spoke to him on the phone said its me now or never that i dont want to lose what we had that noone will love him like me. He says he isnt 100% sure he wants to be with me and he isnt 100% sure he doesnt.. then i called him again and he said i dont want you, i dont love you........ >>read additional details>>

2007-03-17 20:38:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-17 20:38:16 · 7 answers · asked by vikas 1 in Singles & Dating

but yet my mom still treats me like Im 10 yrs. I work 40 + a week and I give her $1,136.00 a month. Every week i give her $100 and evey two weeks I give her $368.00. Im 4 months pregnant. I cant bring my childs father to our apartment. Its hard for me to save money. I cant even go out. She expects me to be home by 9:30. She expects me not to go out to a club or even go out Friday nights. Im trying to save money but its so hard when the majoritie of my check goes to her. What should I do? Im the youngest of 6 kids. so im not sure if thats why she keeps on holding on to me. What should I do?

2007-03-17 20:37:48 · 8 answers · asked by trish 2 in Family

hospital, for high blood pressure, at the same time i found out i was pregnant, but do to health reasons, i wont be able to keep it..he has two kids, that he pays child support on, things got rough, he missed a few payments, now he has to go to court..the first court date, he had a bench warrant out becuase he wasnt in court. he got lawyer that lifted the charges, and reschelduled. He got put on probation, and to pay 90 aweek for two months, when that was over, he went back to court, and everything was fine. Now during this, i had to pick up the load in alot, He was working 8hour weeks, for about a month, he had doc appt's, court dates, and a weekly child support payment, i had to pay for most of this becuase he wasnt working. We had a fight today and things got out of hand, the police were called, and he was arrested,due to the old warrant,that was still in the system. I'm afraid that now he will blame me for it. Just like he did when he was in the hosp is it my fault? what do i do?

2007-03-17 20:36:52 · 9 answers · asked by trudywannabe 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i moved to canada from england 2 years ago and i am trying to get a girlfreind, i have been hooked up with three girls already but i cant manage to go out with them the last girl i got hooked up with dosent seem intersted anymore , i have just sent her an email saying why she blocked me dosent she like me anymore. What is it i have to do for them to like me? girls here seem so much hardwork

2007-03-17 20:36:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a guy stars singing love songs to you when they come on the radio...is he IN LOVE with you...?
he admitted he was singing to me ... not just singing because he liked the song... He sang Toni Braxton's UNBREAK MY HEART and did Motown style hand motions to the song.



So is this GUY-language for I LOVE YOU?????

I forgot to mention I am a singer and he loves my music. So he knows I relate to songs!


He sang another love song Monday, but I forgot the name now.
I do like the Toni Braxton song....



And I'm crazy about the guy, I am just trying to convince myself he sees me as girlfriend potential.

2007-03-17 20:35:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what would you say or do? hubby and i made plans to be intimate tonight after dinner and he fell asleep on the sofa. i got him up and was "prepped" for our intimate times and he seemed ticked off and said lemmie alone i am tired and i said it is our nite to make love and he got all upset and i got embarrassed and got dressed in my pajamas (non sexy) and i was hurt by it and i reminded him and he said u remind me again u psycho ***** then i will make it 1 week for u with out sex. i said that is not fair u punish me like this and he said i want u to go find another place to live this weekend. get the f*ck out i dont want u no more u f*ckin pshyco ***** and no i do not want sex from u u f*ckin b!itch . stop begging me cuz u are not going to get sex from me ever! what would u do??

2007-03-17 20:34:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-17 20:34:14 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

After avoiding relationships for 5 years i met and surprised myself by falling in love with a man. Three weeks ago he said it was happiest ever been.This transformed to a week ago screaming down the phone abuse at me for no reason and with no catalyst. Then sorry, then next day face to face foul verbal abuse and today he has gone without even an argument or call. I know love been destroyed as my trust now gone and do not want to be vulnerable to insecurities. Just would like to know why the behaviour. Is it my doing?

2007-03-17 20:33:28 · 18 answers · asked by sunshinesmainlyonme 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

or friends, what would it be?

2007-03-17 20:32:27 · 28 answers · asked by Zhughu 2 in Friends

did i screw up?

2007-03-17 20:32:15 · 21 answers · asked by Timmy 1 in Singles & Dating

I know....It will be easy for you to say "go study"! but I found a friend who understands my situations a lot but she takes up a lot of my time and I'm a college student taking 18 units. Gosh I know what u'r gonna say but how can I even everything out? Like, she known my whole schedule.

2007-03-17 20:31:59 · 11 answers · asked by Nishu 1 in Friends

I met a guy online almost 6 months ago, and we've been flirting with each other until last January. He was on a business trip and IMed me back wishing me a happy new year AND "a significant other". (He wrote, "I wish you could find a significant other this year.") I asked him if he would like to stay in touch EVEN if I do find my significant other, and he wrote that I COULD take him as an online friend if I like. So we still contact each other, and he's cautioned me about a guy whom he didn't like or trust several times sicne then. 6 days ago I wrote him an e-mail telling him about my mother who's got cancer. The next day I got his reply trying to offer me some advice. I asked if I could write him more about my mother's condition, and he wrote back day before yesterday telling me that I can write him more if it makes me feel better. I think it's really nice of him to show me concerns and to listen to me. I'd like to ask what you think of this guy. Is he just being nice? Thanks a lot.

2007-03-17 20:31:35 · 6 answers · asked by claire d 2 in Friends

His GirlFriend!!!!!

what does that mean?

2007-03-17 20:31:07 · 15 answers · asked by Nice Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

Last summer me and this guy started talking. We went to school together but never said a word to each other. I would help him get over his old girlfriend and stuff and then he started talking to my friend about me. He told her that he liked me and that he wanted me and wanted to ask me out but he was scared of getting hurt again. I told him not to be scared but everything changed when school started up again. We don't go to the same school so we drifted apart and he never asked me out. I still like him a lot but we don't really talk anymore. He would put songs on his myspace and told me that they reminded him of me. He even told me he loved me. Now I have bands on my myspace and like he would put the same band on his page. We go to the same church so thats our only way of seeing each other. He told me I was the only reason he goes to church. Was I just a rebound? Do you think he still like me? please help.

2007-03-17 20:31:00 · 2 answers · asked by vondee 3 in Singles & Dating

She likes it, but I wonder if i want to marry her?

2007-03-17 20:30:50 · 6 answers · asked by David C 1 in Singles & Dating

ppl who enjoy friends ....like friendship......define friendship.....love friendship......give ur response

2007-03-17 20:30:41 · 2 answers · asked by vikas 1 in Friends

My mom likes my best (male) friend. He's nice, respects me, and does a lot for me. I only see him as a friend, but with my mom saying she likes him and him buying me things(sometimes) I've thought about him as more than a friend. The thing is though he use to go out with one of my homegirls, they are still friends and I feel he still has feelings for her, so I really feel us dating would be a "no no". He wants me to get an apt. with him when I move back to Georgia(in Hawaii now). But really not sure that's a good idea. I know my mom is just looking 'round for me a "good" guy, but how do I get her to stop bringing him up whenever we talk?

2007-03-17 20:30:03 · 5 answers · asked by gababygrl10583_912 2 in Friends

i've liked this guy for four 1/2 years. he's the ONLY guy i've EVER said i loved. but.....he loves my best friend (he likes her just as much as i like him.) it hurts just to talk to him anymore.

2007-03-17 20:28:09 · 20 answers · asked by bananas 2 in Singles & Dating

im feeling so hurt and so sad and upset .. that after all 9 months with the guy i believed and loved with all my heart..
everything all the dreams of future is not there now..
he is dating around to see if it helps him to get over me he said he wants to go back to the way he was before i met him.
he says he doesnt feel anything for them and its not helping but he somehow knows he will get over me even though that he says he isnt sure what he wants says that he has feelings for me but dont love me, says he misses me alot but dont want to be with me.. he says he will hurt alot and that it hurts now knowing that i'll be with someone else but he'll get over it!
im so stupid i even spoke to him on the phone said its me now or never that i dont want to lose what we had that noone will love him like me. He says he isnt 100% sure he wants to be with me and he isnt 100% sure he doesnt.. then i called him again and he said i dont want you, i dont love you........ >>read additional details>>

2007-03-17 20:27:23 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am not obese, but I am overweight. I was wondering how big girls give off sex appeal. And also what men find attractive in bigger women?

2007-03-17 20:26:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-03-17 20:26:41 · 12 answers · asked by Nikki 2 in Friends

2007-03-17 20:25:37 · 5 answers · asked by chris 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay so what if you have this friend that u call on the phone very often...but that friend never calls u...u always have to call them to chat...does that mean they dont think of u as a friend? they are not too interested in being your friend? should u keep on calling them and thinking of them as a friend? or is it like a one-way thing and u shouldnt bother them? or can u have friends where u are the only one calling?

2007-03-17 20:25:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We were never officially together but we saw each other for a month and a half before he finally stood up for himself against me and said "I can't be with you if you constantly treat me like crap." and that was that. that was about a week ago. and i know this sounds really ridiculous to even bother with, but his AIM profile is always filled with lyrics that are kind of hinting at something. Is it just me or do these lyrics mean something? "baby i will wait for you
if you think i'm fine it just aint true
i really need you in my life
no matter what i have to do i'll wait for you
i'll be waiting..."
the weird thing is that the other day his best friend was out with my friend and his friend said that he's doing just fine and that he's never seen him get over a girl this fast before.

I think his profile is about me because when he first told me he couldn't see me anymore, he told me he'd wait for me to change.. but then later on he made the decision to just not to give me any chances.

2007-03-17 20:24:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

girls do you think thats personal to tell guys how many you slept with yes or no? girls do you think that is imporant for a guy to know how many you slept with. because I do not feel comfortable share that with a guy because I think that,s very presonal because they may not like the number of guys girls slept with.

2007-03-17 20:23:43 · 10 answers · asked by Carebear22 4 in Singles & Dating

me and this girl were best friends for about a year. that whole year she had a huge crush she describes it as "for a girl to like you this much is once in a lifetime". i didnt ever think of her as more than a friend until we started messing around during the summer and then at the end of the summer we got together. i gave her everything she could want. if she wanted something i bought it for her. i look around me and i see guys treating their girl like **** and they get more than i got from my girlfriend. i was always kind to my girlfriend and in return she never cared about my feelings, played with my emotions, ignored me, left me for her friends but i still loved her. our relationship got better and we were both happy. she never made time for me even though i drop any plans for her and always told her how much i loved her and appreciated me. girls wanted me but i didnt ever cheat on her even if she treated me like **** and constantly played with my emotions and never listened to me..

2007-03-17 20:23:41 · 6 answers · asked by robin c 3 in Singles & Dating