I know....It will be easy for you to say "go study"! but I found a friend who understands my situations a lot but she takes up a lot of my time and I'm a college student taking 18 units. Gosh I know what u'r gonna say but how can I even everything out? Like, she known my whole schedule.
2007-03-17 20:31:59 · 11 answers · asked by Nishu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
A good friend is the one who understands your situation and who cares about your future. A self analysis is very necessary for analysing your friend. U say that your friend knows about your schedule and so if she cares about you she should act according to your schedule. So finally i would like to conclude that a good friend will care about your future. So if u consider your friend as worthwhile you concentrate on both your friend and studies because friends are not going to give u salary.It is the crucial period so i think you will understand. If u think that ur friend is not worthwhile please stop your friendship.Remember your parents have a great dream about you.So act according to it..
2007-03-17 21:20:09 · answer #1 · answered by kirthika D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally understand having a busy schedule in college. I once had a full load of classes in addition to being part of a couple clubs. It was hard to find time for family and friends sometimes.
I think friends are worth taking time. If you haven't chatted or hung out in a while, I'd say go for it. If you hang out everyday but have a big test tomorrow... well, studying is probably better.
2007-03-18 03:41:47 · answer #2 · answered by boxofficemail 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if this girl understands your situation, then she should try NOT to take up so much of your time. You two should try to work out a schedule best for you two to hang out, but I'd say your school work comes first. I'm sure neither you nor your parents want to see you flunked, right? Your parents didn't pay the tution for your social life, right? Think twice before hanging out with this friend of yours because your parents have to work hard to pay you through the college, and it's not inexpensive. OK? Good luck.
p.s It's a great chance to learn how to better manage your time. Right?
2007-03-18 03:38:07 · answer #3 · answered by claire d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang out,after all u have ur whole life to study & work hard.
Well that was a very honest opinion from a very hanged out person
2007-03-18 13:34:55 · answer #4 · answered by mysterious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who's paying your tuition? That is a really important question, because student loans have to be paid back whether you graduate or not, and it's really hard to do if you're still working at the DQ because you don't have a degree to get a better job.
2007-03-18 03:39:49 · answer #5 · answered by Lesley M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's about time management. Hanging out with your friend is like stress relieve for you but you need to set up time for study and time for hanging out.
Your friend should be concerned about your studies as well.
2007-03-18 03:51:37 · answer #6 · answered by Jivan S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be polilte and tell that you really need to study right now, maybe the two of you can get together so time after your finished.
2007-03-18 03:37:38 · answer #7 · answered by dottygoatbeagle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to plan your day effectively. You have to fix certain dead lines and set targets for your self. Before doing any thing please check with ur schedule, ur targets ur achievements and deadline to finish it then do it.
Trying being honest to yourself.
2007-03-18 07:07:48 · answer #8 · answered by singh_kv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both, but study comes first.
2007-03-18 11:11:52 · answer #9 · answered by yuvraj S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u r so sure abt ur friends decisions for u, y r u asking this question here---- tht sounds stupid
2007-03-18 10:31:17 · answer #10 · answered by priya k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋