Family & Relationships - 18 March 2007

this is what she said
James, I've been thinking... would u ever consider dating other people? We wouldn't break up, we'd just have sort of an open relationship. Because, as hard as this is, it's going to be a long time before we ever see eachother again. You don't have to do this. I just want u to be happy and i want u to date whoever u want. I know there must be at least one girl you've had your eye on. Please don't feel bad. I won't be jealous at all, i promise.
But like i said, if you're too uncomfortable to date other people, you don't have to. I don't want to break up with u. I want u to live a happy life without worries about what i'll think. If we see eachother in the future at all, then i know we'll be happy. Right now, i want u to do whatever u want. I just think it's time to face the truth. It's probably going to be at least 3 years before i even have a CHANCE of seeing you again. Have u been thinking about this too?
Please please please james, PLEASE be happy and i'm telling u, i won't be jealous or mad if u want to date other people. How can we go three years without ONE DATE? I want u to date other people. Who says we can't and then find eachother later?

baby, i still love u so much and u mean everything to me. You're my best friend and the person i'm closest to. I mean it. Please do this for me.

i love u so much omg SO MUCH.

2007-03-18 23:59:34 · 5 answers · asked by JC MI 38 1 in Singles & Dating

I work with this girl.

I really like her.

I want to show her I like her.

2007-03-18 23:59:18 · 4 answers · asked by S. 1 in Singles & Dating

The guy I liked just found out I like him, but I dont like him anymore, and practically the whole year knows and no one will listen to me!! HELP!

2007-03-18 23:57:44 · 8 answers · asked by hello 2 in Singles & Dating

I posted and asked a question earlier about good wives it was not read through by most those that did say the following most often "we both have to work, no time for a relationship, we just never can have this time together" I find this disheartening and want some ideas how to free up a two income family for more relationship time this is a tall order I know but think you had time for this when you were dating why not now that you are commited has it really changed that much one thing I say is you should be married at least a year before trying to have a kid so you can enjoy each others company before you get a family involved.

2007-03-18 23:57:23 · 8 answers · asked by Bear_Polaroid 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was with him for 8yrs we where engaged we hadn`t seen each other for 4yrs then out of the blue he phones me at work to say hi and that him and his wife are moving back to Blighty.
He really hurt me in the past but for some reason we have an incredibly strong bond and i can`t forget about him.

2007-03-18 23:56:08 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well i like flirting its the truth i never leave a opportunity
well i see a girl who u damn hot n i go talk to her n n kinda flirt now she was a frnd of my frnd now me n her get along well but she got a bf n i got my gf so we just flirt so should i tell my gf i do such things
or if she finds then i tell her coz i think she trusts me alot n i know i m not doin anything wrong

2007-03-18 23:54:11 · 10 answers · asked by Angad 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Arhh....
It is my husbands birthday next week and for his gift i am going to give him sex he will never forget!
But what would be a great idea?
Im thinking about dressing up as a french maid with a g-string on and a sxc bra with high heels and when he walks in ill serve him dinner and ill act as a maid and i will be like " oh you cant start without a napkin on your lap!" and ill place it down with abit of a feel ( if you know what i mean ) ;).
What would your most sexiest thing you would want your Wife/Husband to do to YOU!
please i need help we already have sex 4 times a week but i want this to be friggen SXC!!! lol,
ta ta xx

2007-03-18 23:54:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

right ok, my friend realy likes this younger boy, *she 25 he is 18* and she told me she feels she has fallen in love with him,

they have spent (from what she has told me) some realy nice dates, texts, emils ect and she wants to know how he feels about her, but the problem is that there is another girl he likes, he has been honest with my friend and told her about the other girl, *the other girl lives 100 miles away*


he said he might be falling for her too

i just dont know what advice to give her, she realy hs fallen for this time, and im just dont wnt her to get hurt, the boy says he likes her a lot, but...

i just dont know what to do to help

any advice would be cool

2007-03-18 23:54:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

LAST WEEK I WENT TO THIS PARTY. I SEEN THIS GIRL AND WE TALK AND AFTER A WHILE WE WENT TO A ROOM AND HIT IT OFF.. BUT FOR SOME ODD REASON I FELT BAD AFTER. WHAT DOES THAT MEAN???????

2007-03-18 23:49:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is the best way to impress girls.??
How should i behave to them ??
How can i make them think i'm cool??

Please Give me alot of tips...

2007-03-18 23:48:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I still love my ex husband. We barely talk anymore. He called me about a week ago. Saying he was sorry and he knows he messed up and bla.bla.bla but didn't directly say he wanted to resolve probelms ( we are divorced no children ) I hung up on him and said That this was too hard for me and I could never forgive him and said bye. Two days later his current GF calls me asking what's his deal still with me, I told her there was nothing there anymore. and she told me he is moving in w/ her and so on and so on and pretty much complaining on him? saying he's a bad liar, saying he's not that good hearted person whatever. So then she tells me the only reason why he married me was because she broke up with me one day prior to that. (so confusing)
But that's a short verison, so after that he calls me up and tells me he hates me and that he wants no part of me, and hes trying to move on, i got fiesty and said I already moved on, and i dont care. but in reality i haven't and i still do?

2007-03-18 23:44:25 · 9 answers · asked by SexyMama18 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. we live together. He has suffered from depression for years even before I met him, and since the beginning of our relationship it has caused him to not be able to hold down a job and function. He's anti social, and it worries me. I love him very much, but i really wonder if he is good for me, I'm trying to go back to school and I have been working and paying the bills. When we talk about things he is quick to bring up my faults, when I don't even think they are on the same scale. we all have our faults. He complains that I don't show him love and cuddle or anything, and honestly, I'm not attracted to him when he is this way, I want a man, not a blubbering baby. But when we met, his tender side is what attracted me to him. am I just a dumb ***** that doesn't know what I want? or is this really a problem of his and he needs to fix it? I'm at a loss, I just know that it makes me depressed and miserable.

2007-03-18 23:44:20 · 10 answers · asked by KAJ81 2 in Singles & Dating

we broke up two weeks ago but we still make out hold hands and it seems like we didn't even break up in the first place....

2007-03-18 23:43:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it money, looks, personality, his hobbies or his amount of social activities?

2007-03-18 23:43:12 · 12 answers · asked by ghidrahbebop 1 in Singles & Dating

What happened?

2007-03-18 23:42:24 · 7 answers · asked by tyemetght814 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My best friend is in high school and she has a bf in college.they have been dating,off and on,for 3.5 years now. and she claims they used to have a really good realtionship.now he emotionally abuses her and it kills me.and hes not afraid to grab her.he tells her who she can hang out with and stuff.she claims shes in love with him but I dont think she is.shes been having really bad dreams lately and i think they relate to him.He tells us that she only needs him and im afraid hes going to take her somewhere.She doesnt tell her other friends about him either.just me and when i talked to her today she showed me that she is engaged.she said she would think about it and he got mad and broke it.shes probubly going to end up saying yes.please i dont know how to help her.i love her to death.i dont know if i should just be there for her.or stop her.im really afraid hes going to do something. please help.

2007-03-18 23:41:36 · 4 answers · asked by ryanssdfisufd 1 in Singles & Dating

What happens if the reason that he fell out of love with you because you weren't yourself or the person he did fall in love with in the first place. I wasn't myself for the last year (we were living together this year) of a 3 year relationship because of me being scared of losing him. I did extreme measures to make him happy, like being available to him all the time, letting him do what he wants avoiding any serious conflict (basicly losing my independence and identity). The reason why i did this was because he had committment issues in the past with me which made me think that if did everything to make him happy i won't lose him, but then he dumps me teliing me that he wasn't happy in the last couple of months and doesn't feel the same way by doesn't know why. I still love him and I regret in what I have done (in my case in losing myself first and then second, losing him)

2007-03-18 23:41:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi people. I'd love to name my unborn child the name 'Spider man'. But my husband said 'Hell no'.
Pls what kind i say to him that will convince him .
I think Spider-man Williams will sound so cute lol.

2007-03-18 23:39:34 · 34 answers · asked by Sugarbabz 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My bf moved back to Turkey in October last year to work as an engineer. In January I moved to Bodrum,Turkey+took a great job in real estate.This is where the problems started.

My boyfriend lives in another city.He insisted that he meet me at the airport even though I explained to him that the company had arranged everything...I just wanted to feel settled. He keeps visiting at short notice and I feel bad saying no all the time. To cut it short- I've been here 10 weeks and he's visited 5 times.

The first 2 weeks he called me every day without fail, just complaining about his job, which really wore me out. He left the company and is looking for a job.He wants to apply to my company, but I said 'no'. We had an argument the other day and he called me selfish.

He called my company this morning cos he couldn't reach me on my mobile all yesterday. I thought it was a bit weird.

We used to be so happy but I'm really starting to get cold feet about this whole relationship.

2007-03-18 23:38:11 · 16 answers · asked by heyjude 2 in Singles & Dating

Actually I will give you TWO since you opened this up to read it.
A. Being honest with us women will go a million times further then lieing ever would. And yes guys, even in that area.
B. A man who is sensative to our emotional needs (not just chocolate needs) is very likely to get, shall we say, treated VERY nicely.
Are there any questions?

2007-03-18 23:38:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Actually I will give you TWO since you opened this up to read it.
A. Being honest with us women will go a million times further then lieing ever would. And yes guys, even in that area.
B. A man who is sensative to our emotional needs (not just chocolate needs) is very likely to get, shall we say, treated VERY nicely.
Are there any questions?

2007-03-18 23:37:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My dad moved away when I was 6 to live in Africa. Recently he has moved back to London. We talked on e-mail every so often, but last easter he asked me to go on holiday and I said I couldn't go. He then didn't contact me again. I didn't get an xmas card or present, but suddenly in Feb he started ringing our house. He sent me a Valentine's day card and then he stopped ringing. However on Saturday night he left a message on our phone again. I don't know whether I want to talk to him or not. I mean he's my dad and part of me loves him and I want to talk to him, but the other part of me feels like he hasn't been a part of my life for years, so why should he come marching in now? Should I talk to him? My mum just keeps saying it's my choice, but I'm so confused.

2007-03-18 23:36:06 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

she can not control herself when her dad and i spend time together. what can i do? she is nice to me when we are alone, buit when her father is in the icture se is totally weird and seems very jealous. please advise.

2007-03-18 23:36:06 · 7 answers · asked by bebe4u 2 in Family

Okay I am starting to see a guy that is 6'6'' and really thin. I'm expecting him to have an enormous "johnson" although I haven't seen it or felt it, he is just so tall. I've never had anything in me larger than 7 and not much girth. Too be honest i'm afraid of the pain that it may cause. Is there anything i can do to ease the pain?

2007-03-18 23:35:34 · 7 answers · asked by ap 1 in Singles & Dating

Does anybody take this into consideration when getting into a relationship?
Have any of you taken notice to how your partner treats their ex. I observed my now ex, treating her first husband like he was not even human. I should have taken notice, but thought "she would never treat me that way" but we are now split, and sure as hell, she is treating me the same exact way. I will pay attention in the future to how someone treats their ex We have a kid together, it would be easier for all involved if she could get over the idea of ex's are to stomped on. I think how someone treats their ex's is important.

2007-03-18 23:35:28 · 15 answers · asked by ckgene 4 in Marriage & Divorce

We both have great jobs. Currently I make more money, but that could change shortly (husbands pending promotion). He will have better career opportunities in our current city of residence. I would have a better future half way across the country. We both want careers and childrena re not part of our future plans. Who winns?

2007-03-18 23:35:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-18 23:33:51 · 3 answers · asked by RED WHITE AND BLUE 4 in Family

My female friend has been in a long distance relationship with a guy for a bit over a year....He can only come to see her rarely but they seem in love. Her complaint is that he has never given her any sort of gift. She insists its not the material aspect she is after .
He came recently after her not having seem him for quite a long stretch and she had some gifts prepared for him. She was quite wounded he came and left without giving her anything. He is well off by the way...
My first reaction was to tell her that he is the one coming to see her so he does incur travelling expenses, hotel and such...but she keeps insisting this has nothing to do with how expensive the gift is, just the thought....I really don't know what to tell her? What do you think?

2007-03-18 23:31:59 · 13 answers · asked by Wicked_One 2 in Singles & Dating

my daughter was on msn and some1 added her ..they made out they were my sons best mate by putting in a very similar addi as his best mates! then asked her to get my son to the camera(which he did not) he is 12 by the way! and asked her if he knows how to w--k!! its disgusting but im not sure if it could be 1 of his mates winding them up ????????

2007-03-18 23:30:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-18 23:28:49 · 18 answers · asked by vikas 1 in Marriage & Divorce