Family & Relationships - 18 March 2007

what might be a good line or thing to do that shows you want to kiss...cause i know she does but just how should i start, what should i do

2007-03-18 19:50:05 · 7 answers · asked by Biking Man 1 in Singles & Dating

The guy I'm seeing has just told me he's seeing another woman, who he's living with. He had first told me that she was his ex and moving out and I believed him!

He keeps telling me he loves me and wants to be with me, because since he told me a few days ago, I have been contemplating leaving him. He promises me he's going to leave her, and that he's just waiting cause he got laid off for awhile, and wants to catch up on back bills. Each time I say something, though, it seems like another excuse.

She has a child with him, and I am NOT the first person he has been with besides her, he confessed it all to me. I don't know what to do, I have half a mind to show up at her door and tell her everything about him, but I do love him.

HELP!

2007-03-18 19:49:43 · 14 answers · asked by pomme_de_sangstl 2 in Singles & Dating

i am 24 years old i just lost my mom to cancer and lost my grandmother to old age. i lost my job that i had for 5 years, i am now living at home with my dad, we never get along. everything just seem so screwed up. ever since my mom passed (about 4 months ago) i have been lost, unmotavated, hating the world. just feeling out of place. every time i am not doin something i think about her. EVERYTHING reminds me of her. i honestly think i am losing it. to a point i can't take anything anymore. please someone give me some advice. please!

2007-03-18 19:48:59 · 16 answers · asked by don p 1 in Family

I probably need a counseler or something, but I wouldnt know since I havnt had anyone to talk to about my feelings for so long. Im leaving for the marines in a few months and I havnt gone out with a girl in over a year, its pathetic. Im not stupid, ugly, dirty or anything. I just dont have any self-esteem anymore. Im kinda thin and really self concious about it and I know that it shows in my body language. Turning 19 in May. I feel like no girl wants to date a thin guy, not like i really ask anyone out cuz im way to scared to. Im not a weakling or anything at all, im tough and love to have a good time, but when i see a girl i like i just blank out and act like a complete idiot as if i have no personality. I dont know, if someone has some good advice that would be cool.

2007-03-18 19:47:28 · 10 answers · asked by PLUSMC 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-18 19:47:11 · 4 answers · asked by vanshreeg 2 in Friends

I has been 10 weeks since my ex-gf broke it off with me for some other guy. I was extremely hurt in the process because it not even 24 hours later she kissed another guy and has been with ever since. She knows I am a nice guy but she said she loved me as a brother and not as a bf. But I was with her for 3 years! I mean we did everything, had a sexual relationship and all, but I think she wanted more? She says she is more physically attracted to this other guy, but she still loves me as a friend. How can someone move on so fast? She knew this guy for 3 weeks max.
Now I have been going cold turkey because it is the only way to get over her propery.
Or that is what people have told me. I find it hard to accept because she has been trying to call me and be friends!
It is too soon and now she thinks I am trying to hurt her. But really I am not.
I mean 2 weeks after we broke up I saw his toothbrush sitting in the exact spot where my toothbrush was sittting.
What must I do?/????

2007-03-18 19:46:36 · 23 answers · asked by stephen b 1 in Singles & Dating

i was disturbed since few days. in tht duration i hurt my love. i love her so much....but she is no more in contact with me....i cnt live without her....what should i do now.......

2007-03-18 19:46:30 · 3 answers · asked by sahil 1 in Singles & Dating

well its been over a year i want it i want it bad

2007-03-18 19:45:51 · 25 answers · asked by spayhappy 4 in Singles & Dating

Did you lose the one and only? Who is, the one that got away?

2007-03-18 19:45:32 · 8 answers · asked by nunya 3 in Marriage & Divorce

and head over heels in love with you?

2007-03-18 19:45:28 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend at the current time has been in previous abusive relationships. For seven yers even though she was in love with me she got in some relationships that she came out not so good in. I've ben in some not so good relationships to involving incarceration for false charges and ttemps to kill me. I've now grown up and realized who I should'vebeen with the whole tme and love her dearly.

To complicate matters further because I have permanent business to take cae of here I live all eh way across the country from her. We are also from different faiths which surprisingly I think I accept more than she does.

When I do get a chance 2 prove myself she has a habit of sabatoging it. HELP!!!!!

2007-03-18 19:45:16 · 3 answers · asked by Crossroads Keeper 5 in Singles & Dating

If you had a boyfriend who was a 22 yr old guy, and he did something really stupid and illegal when he was just 12 or 13, would u care?and would you break up with him for somthing he did when he was just a kid?

2007-03-18 19:45:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-18 19:44:25 · 11 answers · asked by joejoe 1 in Marriage & Divorce

OK, so there's this guy that I think might like me and I kind of like him too. He's a friend. He's always complimenting weird stuff. Like my freaking coat he said it was soft and started stroking my arm up and down I pulled him away and ended up holding his hand for like a 3 seconds max which made both our faces go kinda red. Then he started singing Cupid's Chokehold and putting his arm around me and pointing at me during that one verse we all know. He whistled at me in the hallway and was saying I smelled nice or something. Do you think he likes me or he's just teasing me? He does a ton of other "flattering things" that make me think and think a little more

2007-03-18 19:43:25 · 9 answers · asked by Me, just me 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-18 19:43:23 · 9 answers · asked by ABDULLGHANI Ga 1 in Singles & Dating

First time meeting someone, and you're immediatly attracted to them. What's the best line for a girl to use on a guy? Doesn't matter how dirty it is, I;m just curious to see what guys would like girls to say to them.

Preferably male answers.

2007-03-18 19:43:18 · 3 answers · asked by getshorty 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok. I went out last friday with an old friend of mine, this girl (not f*** buddy, not girlfriend, just a friend, she's engaged anyway). Anyways, we were catching up and talking about things and we got on the topic of past relationships. I've had a couple with some coldhearted women who had problems, not when I first met them though (otherwise I wouldn't have bothered), but after sometime they developed certain issues with themselves.

I did everything in my power to help them but to no avail. I tried everything from being Mr. Nice Guy to putting my foot down and telling them like it is.

Now all this girl 'friend' of mine can do is attempt to give me advice that I didn't even ask her for, we were just making conversation. During her "insight", she says something to the effect that "you can't be a soft guy". I asked her "What makes you think I'm a soft guy?" and she was like "Okay, Steve, lemme ask you, have you ever punched someone before?" I told her "No, but not because I'm a soft guy, I was just never in a situation where I had to fight, that's not my fault though."

Now I know myself, I'm nowhere near a soft guy, maybe I'm a bit more mature than most my age (22), but when I get angry.... I'm not even gonna get into that, forget it, let's just say its something most people don't see often, you know. But what am I supposed to do? Just walk up to someone in the street and start a fight just to prove myself? That's stupid. What's this friend of mine expect?

Several times that night, she kept talking to me as if I didn't break up with the previous person when I mentioned to her EACH time that I did. Then we're talking on the phone the next day, she brings it up again then I told her AGAIN, then shes like "Really? You told me that? Wow then I guess my listening must be off then huh?" 'Cuz see she says one of her best qualities is that she listens and she values it a LOT.

I even write screenplays. We went to see a movie that night, then when we come out she was talking about how good it was and starts questioning my writing "Now, CAN you write as good as that?", she's never read any of my work and my writing is pretty versatile, I've been workshopping it for a few years now. This girl doesn't know as much as I do about screenwriting and the film business and here she is talking like that. Makes me sick.

Why is she like this? At heart, she's a really good person. But those certain things she did/said really got me upset. Anyone gone through some similar B.S. with a friend?

2007-03-18 19:42:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

So me and this guy had a talk - (best friends for a while, but decided not to pursue it right now - hes liked me forever) In the past month, we've hooked up once and again but jut recently decided that this time it had to stop and we had to move on and jut be good friends. Sometimes he would jokingly blame me for making the moves on HIM - even though i know that it was completely mutual!! He initiated many things. At one point when we did hooked up, i wanted to test him too i tempted him, he just smiled at me. When that was brought up he kept saying, "omg...i could have done more with you...i could have gone soo much furthur with you..." It sounded like a regret and when i asked he said, "noo, i just limited myself..." Also, he points out all the other guys that are "interested" in me. And lately, he's been talking to his old crushes again (even though they're taken) because he knows i can bounce back more easily with boys...

why is he acting like this??

2007-03-18 19:41:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to start a new life with my boyfriend but dont want to ask him to propose.... what hints can I offer to get him thinking?

2007-03-18 19:41:04 · 11 answers · asked by gudsport 2 in Singles & Dating

why kidds forget their parents when they grow up and even mother's day card. parents does so much for their children and childern think that was parents dutie...why????

2007-03-18 19:40:07 · 11 answers · asked by friend 2 in Friends

Do you prefer to contact them or do you like it if she calls you first? What do you like to be told?

2007-03-18 19:39:03 · 7 answers · asked by gudsport 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a super close friend who I hang out with all the time. And just recently her flirtation with other men (MIND YOU SHE IS MARRIED, HAS BEEN FOR 3 YEARS) has gotten out of control and it is towards my brother in law (who first of all should know better) Well we went out this past Friday and low and behold it was to a place where he was at, it started out as a harmless game of flirtation that quickly turned into a partial strip tease, groping, almost make-out session. It was actually quite stomach turning as her husband is a good friend of mine and my husband. Her husband is the greatest guy in the world BTW. Well at the end of the night I went to take her home and she argued that she wanted him (my BIL) to take her home I told her that wasn't such a good idea to just let me take her home and she refused to I said screw it. Well the next morning when I talked to her to see if she got home ok she was like yeah we (my BIL &her) made-out and had sex in his car. And then quickly

2007-03-18 19:37:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

1. white , she is gonna love only herself, and cheat often
2. hispanic, she is gonna love her family, but drink too much
3.black, she is gonna support her man,but have ugly personality
4.asian, she is gonna compete with her husband
5.Arab,she is not gonna takecare of herself
?

2007-03-18 19:36:27 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

me and my guy have been together for 7 months and i always feel like the dude begging for him to sleep with me. he really likes it...trust me but i always have to spend a lot of time convincing him. whats the deal boys? i dont get it.

2007-03-18 19:34:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have knowin this girl about 7 years we are great friends we talk about everything we share everything we understand and know one another better than we know are selves. she is my conchance and my protecter and i am hers. She has had a hard life full of tradities, misstaks and regretts we both have a addiction that plaigs are life and when it gets out of control we are there for one another to say stop thats anuff. we love oneanother deeply as friends. we are intament with one another we are totaly open and able to let are selves be are selves. but she is not able to commit and openly admits to sleeping with others she regretts it always and confides in me all the feeling and confusion that propells her to do the things that she hates most in life the abillity to say no. she trully does not want to do the things she does I am her friend and love her more deeply than i care to admit and it hurts me no it scars me {what do I do}

2007-03-18 19:34:01 · 2 answers · asked by jasondonaldwood 2 in Singles & Dating

I asked a question about saying i love you to someone.......maybe i do love him and i am just not sure of what real love is yet?

How do you know when you love someone, how should that person treat you if you do love them?

2007-03-18 19:33:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-18 19:33:20 · 18 answers · asked by spayhappy 4 in Singles & Dating

I got with my ex while I was getting close to another guy. The guy said he's not mad because he didn't have a 'claim' on me but it changed things. He said he likes still likes me but things are different. He doesn't say the same sweet things...he says he's not sure about how he feels but still maintains that he can picture us together. He says he needs time to figure things out.
How would you feel? How bad did I mess up? Should I feel so mad/sad at what I did?Do we stand a chance? Should I give up? Anthing else you want to tell me.... (By the way...I let go of the ex right after the incident...does that change things?)

2007-03-18 19:31:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why can't I have a relationship lasting longer than a month

2007-03-18 19:31:47 · 9 answers · asked by Yvette J 1 in Singles & Dating

hey..

I am scared and worried.. last night.. all of a sudden my g/f/fiance.. stopped talking and said she don't know what to say and ran out of thinks to say... and i didn't feel the same way one bit and i was looking forward to talking to her... everything was fine sat and friday and on friday we talked on the phone for almost an hour few times and it was pefect.. friday night, she wasn't talking much because she was tired and i let her go.. but sat, i was loooking forward to talking to her and heart dieing to talk to her and all she was all quiet and everything, and then i asked her and she's like "i don't know what to say.." and that she's going to get going.. i was like we talked perfectly on friday.. and she's like i guess we talked about it everything then.. so I AM WORRIED LIKE CRAZY! I love her very much and i don't know why she felt that way!! I don't know if she was mad at me or not.. or anything at all..

2007-03-18 19:31:22 · 4 answers · asked by abe_cooldude 1 in Singles & Dating