So me and this guy had a talk - (best friends for a while, but decided not to pursue it right now - hes liked me forever) In the past month, we've hooked up once and again but jut recently decided that this time it had to stop and we had to move on and jut be good friends. Sometimes he would jokingly blame me for making the moves on HIM - even though i know that it was completely mutual!! He initiated many things. At one point when we did hooked up, i wanted to test him too i tempted him, he just smiled at me. When that was brought up he kept saying, "omg...i could have done more with you...i could have gone soo much furthur with you..." It sounded like a regret and when i asked he said, "noo, i just limited myself..." Also, he points out all the other guys that are "interested" in me. And lately, he's been talking to his old crushes again (even though they're taken) because he knows i can bounce back more easily with boys...
why is he acting like this??
2007-03-18 19:41:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That whole let's be friends thing is hard to take when you really like someone. Give the guy a break. And it's not fair for you to "test" him. Don't do that anymore. That's called teasing and it's mean.
2007-03-18 19:57:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants you and you don't want him. You only want him as a friend. That is a unique pain for men that women can never know, and yet they cause more men to feel it in their lifetimes than they would ever admit to themselves.
Your friendship is over because its based in falsehood. He's only your friend now because he's waiting for a chance to get back together with you. You can either pursue a relationship or cut him off. There is no middleground anymore unless you want to lie to him and yourself, and I feel like you're the type of person who knows that's not fair to either one of you.
2007-03-19 02:47:22 · answer #2 · answered by Takfam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause life to some people is this game, where you see who can open the other person up, who wanted who, and who falls first. Just so you can say I never really wanted you anyway, just some challenge. Sounds like both of you are game players, yea; good luck with that.
2007-03-19 02:47:15 · answer #3 · answered by shadycaliber 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋