me and my guy have been together for 7 months and i always feel like the dude begging for him to sleep with me. he really likes it...trust me but i always have to spend a lot of time convincing him. whats the deal boys? i dont get it.
2007-03-18 19:34:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he also needs a lot of foreplay. im weird for a chick and hardly need any is that strange?
2007-03-18 19:44:32 · update #1
Its a turn on. Guys feel like they're the ones in control when their girlfriend begs for it. Furthermore, its an ego boost when you know you're so good in the sack that you have a woman begging for more.
Don't dwell on it, just know that when you beg, it makes him feel good in ways other than the physical. Both sexual and emotional health are good for a relationships.
If you want to change things up, take care of yourself for awhile until he begs for it. That'll turn the tables and spice things up a bit ;)
2007-03-18 19:39:04 · answer #1 · answered by Takfam 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The answer would be NO Definately not !! I believe if you are seductive and good looking enough it should just come natural with out either partner asking also he is belittleing you for you to beg !!! At the time both of you should know what is going on and just follow each others lead !! enjoy what comes natural !! in making love !!
just some friendly advice cowboy5
2007-03-18 19:48:57 · answer #2 · answered by cowboy5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he wants you to beg. plus how long does he go one with not asking you for sex until you give in and start begging? cuz if its a couple of days then he prob just wants you to wait but if its like a week or weeks or soemthing then thats weird. something is up if thats the case.
2007-03-18 19:41:04 · answer #3 · answered by california 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no this isn't normal. As a guy I can say that I would be the last person that would have to be begged or coaxed into it. Unless he is started to just not feel that into you anymore, than there is no reason for it, unless he just has problems.
2007-03-18 19:42:13 · answer #4 · answered by ppodjames 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not normally, have you talked to him about this. I would confront him about it. Don't take no for an awnser you should not have to beg your boyfriend for this task!!
2007-03-18 19:42:07 · answer #5 · answered by jack l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its the same with my gf. she pretty much has to get me to have sex with her. yes i do want to but sometimes guys aren't just in the mood. i know its not fair to the girls so i do my best to please my gf. have you tried having sex in different parts of the days cuz im really tired at night after work and it takes me a little while. so we try it like in the morning or the afternoon i think its the perfect time of the day
2007-03-18 19:41:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
may b he is afraid of doing sex with u or he does not like it,thats the only reason y he has to b convinced and i want to know if he is a pre mature ejaculator plz tell me trough mail and ill help u mre after knowing the whole procedure of ur sex tell me the whole story when u do sex, imean how much time he takes and what does he do during sex?
2007-03-18 19:41:53 · answer #7 · answered by atul s 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's sexually controlling you in order for him to feel more masculine. I wouldn't deal with it, IMO, if it bothers you that is. Sex games can be dangerous psychologically if one doesn't wish to participate.
2007-03-18 19:50:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl!!!
Are you giving away our control to THEM?? Get a grip will'yah
don’t turn the tables on us.
This is the only female power we have against men.
Ditch the guy.. he’s probably gay any way.
2007-03-18 19:43:58 · answer #9 · answered by lestate_undead 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is he on any medications? Some medications especially antidepressants can significantly decrease libido. Just a thought...
2007-03-18 19:43:09 · answer #10 · answered by Linnygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋