I love my husband but, I feel like he asks too much of me. When is a good time to call it quits?

Answer 1

Never call it quits!
Hold Firm your marriage
Cultivate your love
Obediently love each other with honor and respect
Deal with what you need from your husband~ tell him what you want and need
Separate those around you and focus on your marriage

Answer 2

well it never is a good time so this depends on you,what are your limits?what i belive now is that when your married you have no limits to how you love each other but.....i was married once before and this man never gave back i don't mean money or things like this.no real emotions is what i mean;no loving touch no thoughts about me no how was your day,and i am really easy to please,but that is how i felt then now i see i did not love him for who he was he was being himself and i wanted more in a marriage but i stayed and stayed and tried to work on it but that made a big blow up the day it all ended,you have to love that person for who they are,and if he is not what you want let him know with out the drama.don't fight for things that you know you don't want,don't make it hard on this man when you are the one unhappy.don't damage him when some other woman will love him for him....i do not agree that you should stay because the world says so but i will say this i waited 8 years to remarry to make sure i never took vows before God a 2 nd time that i could not keep....i was young the first time 17 and did not understand just what you need to put into a marriage to make it work.if it all goes wrong this time i will know everyday i worked to the best of me as a wife to take care of this man i love,but as a wife now to this man i have to say,if he can't ask it from you,where is he suppose to get the things he needs as a husband? you are suppose to do all you can without him asking and then you can't blaim him ,it is your job as a wife.and if he is a good man he will see your work and give back to you(not money or gifts)in the same ways a husband should.sometimes its 20/30 sometimes its 60/40 sometimes it is 5/10 and most times you can try for 50/50 point is somebody both somebodies are trying.....you just got to NOTICE IT and it should not have to be some grand jesture to be seen......

Answer 3

When it gets to the point where you must account for every minute of your day. Rather than being jealous, he is insecure. Sometimes these situations escalate very quickly. Have a serious sit down talk with him. Maybe he is willing to work on the problem with you. If not, get out.

Answer 4

I personal think that you should try every thing to stay together. Marriage is just not something you quit. try marriage counseling. But if staying together means abuse or you not being happy than look at divorces. Remember it not just about making him happy, you also have to be happy and that goes for him to he has to put in the effort to make you happy and him happy as a couple.

Answer 5

What is too much??? You said vows, did/do they mean anything to you? I think you should work as hard as you can at marriage, do what it takes to save it. If everything fails and you've given it all you got then it is time to call it quits.

Answer 6

Never. He is your better half and you should voice out your concerns and unhappiness no matter what. You are to share the problem with him. Don't give up on love. That's way you married him.

Answer 7

Call it quits when you don't love him anymore, not before then.

Answer 8

how much is too much? don't you also ask too much from your husband? talk to him.

Answer 9

OH!!

You’re getting enough off him already??

Well after marriage they tend to be un-creative (If you know what I mean)

Answer 10

when he stops asking. peace