Family & Relationships - 16 March 2007

I just want an opinion. Thanks.

Let me start off my saying I'm 17, a junior in high school.
I'll be introducing my weak side first.
I'm usually not nervous about talking to my friends even though most of them are girls but when they ask me out to a type of dance or prom as friends, I get so hesitant and back off. I just keep saying to myself can I even dance? I can't even explain how nervous I am if I were to ask a girl out or even talking to her, I just think I would hurt her in a way if I even attempt to ask. Usually when I get nervous and being in the "put on the spotlight" situation, I don't take it very well. I just do whatever to get out of that situation as fast as possible.

My stronger side. I'm rank 60 in my entire class out of I think 540. I have a 3.43 academic GPA and plan to go to college. I'm good with computers for the most part and plan to major in computer engineering in college.

I want to have a relationship and all but what can I do to improve myself?

2007-03-16 23:57:16 · 13 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-16 23:56:33 · 14 answers · asked by sexy-star 4 in Singles & Dating

hes having sex with prostitutes..hes been doing that with a lot of girls and for more than 2 years, ive known about it....shoud i tell my mom???what else i should do??id rather see them break up than see my mom look as if her husband is very faithful to her....its not easy to tell the truth...what should i do???

2007-03-16 23:56:29 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hi all,My Husband Confessed he was Seeing a Sex Worker for 4 Months &Last Night he Told me He has been seeing Sex Workers Since Last June,I am Gob Smacked,We were still having sex in that Time,I asked how many women has he been with and He said about 20-25,What the Hell am I Going to Do,OK Some might say its my Fault,but we had a Talk one day and I asked him was Sex the Most Important Thing in a Marriage and he said NO,I wasnt very Interested in Sex,But we still had it and I thought he was Happy with That,How could I be So Wrong,So the Next Question was Why he saw The one Woman 4 Times and the Reply was she was the Best one there,They met up about 6 Times after they slept Together and He had her Phone Number,How can I EVER Trust him again,He wants me to Forgive Him but I really Feel ill when I think about Him and The Whores he has been With and not to Mention the STD"s,I could have got something from them,What would you Do?????

2007-03-16 23:55:03 · 8 answers · asked by Spud 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-16 23:55:02 · 9 answers · asked by yp_kameko_phoenix 1 in Singles & Dating

Is this type of discussion and thoughts, typical for a young, new and LD relationship? Is our relationship already going downhill? Is the relationship just based on lust? serious answers please.

2007-03-16 23:54:17 · 21 answers · asked by unwritten 2 in Singles & Dating

what were the challenges? what were the beauties?

2007-03-16 23:53:55 · 12 answers · asked by me 1 in Singles & Dating

supermodels are hot, but i like girls around size 3 better

2007-03-16 23:49:58 · 2 answers · asked by isuckatphysics 2 in Singles & Dating

well i hv a friend on net & now she thinks dat i'm.. u knw
i wanna impress her plz help me out guyz and galz here...

2007-03-16 23:48:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

hmmmmm.. how could you possibly keep a secret from your parent????

2007-03-16 23:45:21 · 5 answers · asked by ladyabcdy 1 in Family

i know when you meet another person and do the deed that is definitely being unfaithful but what about flirting online and text messaging but not heavy content , is that being unfaithful ??

No , i am NOT being unfaithful to my lovely hubby , just asking a question out of curiosity ...

2007-03-16 23:45:09 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi all,My Husband Confessed he was Seeing a Sex Worker for 4 Months &Last Night he Told me He has been seeing Sex Workers Since Last June,I am Gob Smacked,We were still having sex in that Time,I asked how many women has he been with and He said about 20-25,What the Hell am I Going to Do,OK Some might say its my Fault,but we had a Talk one day and I asked him was Sex the Most Important Thing in a Marriage and he said NO,I wasnt very Interested in Sex,But we still had it and I thought he was Happy with That,How could I be So Wrong,So the Next Question was Why he saw The one Woman 4 Times and the Reply was she was the Best one there,They met up about 6 Times after they slept Together and He had her Phone Number,How can I EVER Trust him again,He wants me to Forgive Him but I really Feel ill when I think about Him and The Whores he has been With and not to Mention the STD"s,I could have got something from them,What would you Do?????

2007-03-16 23:43:52 · 4 answers · asked by Spud 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i am 16 and i like this girl. i dont no if she knows i like her. me and her are from compleetly difrent backgrounds. we tlk allot. but i am shy and dont no wot to do.

its against my culture to go out with a girl. but i like her what do i do.

2007-03-16 23:43:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Plz, give me your e-mail address, ICQ-number or mobile
My first name is Ilgiz

2007-03-16 23:42:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

How can I show a guy that I like him and not screw up !! ??
help!
I want him to fall for me first though... how???

2007-03-16 23:41:30 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this girl a few months ago. She told me that she was tired of the way she was badly treated in her past relation (where he cheated on her, put her through a lot of pain). I decided to give it a shot with her even though was adviced not to by my closest friends. We started dating and she cheated on me a couple of times with the same ex. I always overlooked the scenario and gave her another chance after she apologized for her mistakes. We finally broke up recently and the reason was her ex once again. Am so heart broken and dont know what to do. I know her ex has been making these false promises to her and is saying exactly what she wants to hear. It has messed us up but dont know why but I still tend to miss her. Do u think she will come back. Do u feel that a chance of us getting back together exists. An honest answer is what i need. I kinda sound desperate bout her but its not that way at all. Its not that I cant start dating someone else but that I cant see her hurt again

2007-03-16 23:40:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-16 23:38:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

If my husband keep telling me to wait and it's been a long time I'm loyal and I keep waiting on God, as I continue to live away from him believing he really loves me, he refuses to live with me but he continues to live in the big house with his sister and her husband that there dad and mom owns, I want to be sure, I don't want another diverse again,Christians,reply only please: I want it to be God's will before I give up, he's only 46, I take pretty good care of myself, I get hit on a lot but i still stay loyal to him even though were not together, my kids aren’t his & his kids aren’t mine, it's my 3ed marriage it's been 6 yrs married, he’s never been there financially or met my sexual or other needs 2 yrs separated now, I started all over living and raising my 3 kids alone like I did before we married him, he spends the night once in a while, and we keep in touch on the phone a lot, he had a heart attack 4 months ago, you name it, it’s been a long road. but I want God's will now.

2007-03-16 23:37:55 · 3 answers · asked by busybobbie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and why did you do it?

2007-03-16 23:33:46 · 14 answers · asked by tony r 1 in Singles & Dating

i was chatting to this guy off the interent, and we echanged number and started chatting on the phone, we spoke every day and we were getting really well and we couldnt get off the phone from each other, we had 8 hours for calls, we met on friday and everything was fine, we spoke for ages, and had a few drinks, and i kissed him and he kissed me back and then he wanted to leave, he called his friend and they drove me home and he kissed me good bye, and i havent heard from him since.........should i called him??.....or send him a txt message??......or leave it and see if he talks to me again??

2007-03-16 23:33:03 · 12 answers · asked by cobra 1 in Singles & Dating

I have hair like Reese Witherspoon in Just Like Heaven.
I have hazel eyes. My hair is a cross between blond and brown. I am skinny. I have good style. I smile a lot. If u could help me, then that would be great. I never beleive my friends when they tell me that i am so thanx

2007-03-16 23:32:05 · 15 answers · asked by mc_heavenly 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-16 23:28:51 · 32 answers · asked by AJAY D 1 in Singles & Dating

We just had a family bereavement, and we want Mum to go stay with Uncle. They have BT phone and we want to use their direct transfer call service, only I cant find it online and all the Cust servs seem to be from India or foreign, and they talk so quick i cannot understand a word theyr saying.
Its obviously very upsetting in this situation, not to mention soul destroying, and frustrating.

Is there any1 out there who knows how we can get this started so that Mum doesnt have to stay home alone, she can go stay with her reli's

I managed to get some codes from them like 21; 61; 627, but I couldnt get what theyr for, or what you need to do with them.

Funnily enough, he had NO TROUBLE AT ALL letting me know how much it was all going to cost us!!

Please pretty pleas and thnx

2007-03-16 23:28:45 · 3 answers · asked by ? 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

or just if he's good or not,cheap or expensive
I really want to know

2007-03-16 23:28:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well he came to see me twice in my apartment. We are not close at all. His grandmother and my aunt are close friends but since both of them are in their senior yrs and are ill - the two of us (the grandson and I) communicate thru text messages and to check how his grandma is and how my aunt is doing. 1st time he came to my place was to sell me insurance and at the same time to tell me about his life story then proceeded to tell me if I needed anything he'll be more than happy to help even if it was just to talk. 2nd time he came over was to ask me how I was and then he proceeded to tell me more about his life, the way he struggled with it and how he handled everything. He's very friendly and being too open that it's alarming - alarming bec he's got a wife and kids and that 2nd time he visited me was after he got out from work and his visit lasted 'til 10pm. Am I just being paranoid?

2007-03-16 23:26:41 · 19 answers · asked by Sunflowers 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi,

This is a survey. I hope some Indian girls respond to this.
Question 1: What is the lowest age of a educated single gud looking girl for marrying a divorced 37 yr old guy who is well settled with a comfortable salary. The 37 yr old is also healthy and looks 25. (The marriage lasted 10 years. The two lived together for 3 days. )The intent of this survey is only to capture the data and not seek girls.

2007-03-16 23:24:18 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He said that you can never trust anybody. Then he added, "Oh, but you can trust me." Would you?

2007-03-16 23:23:45 · 21 answers · asked by kuntess 2 in Friends

my parents have very strict rules about using the phone in the house or use our moblies in th house im not allowed to use either

my bf lives 200 miles away and we have very limited connact at the moment as i have to wait until my parents go out just so i can phone him.

he doesnt have the internet at home so we can talk using IM and skype any ideas we currently send letters and texts and talk maybe once a week on the phone

please im getting deperate i wanna talk to him so much

2007-03-16 23:23:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think past experiences are recking my trust . I cant seem to get over it .why ? being cheated on ,seeing others cheating . I see it as rejection. It breaks my heart to see infidelity anywhere.as far as i know hes never cheated on anyone.

2007-03-16 23:22:51 · 11 answers · asked by libby e 1 in Singles & Dating

There's a boy in my class and I fancy him. The problem is: He knows that and now has changed his behaviour. He doesn't talk to me and says that it's an old problem, uses my best friends to make me jelous. I don't get all that, I can't stand it. I feel soooo bad when he talks to all the girls, accept of me. Before we were the best of friends, but now...... . What should I do?? Help me please!!

2007-03-16 23:21:28 · 9 answers · asked by weird 3 in Singles & Dating