i was chatting to this guy off the interent, and we echanged number and started chatting on the phone, we spoke every day and we were getting really well and we couldnt get off the phone from each other, we had 8 hours for calls, we met on friday and everything was fine, we spoke for ages, and had a few drinks, and i kissed him and he kissed me back and then he wanted to leave, he called his friend and they drove me home and he kissed me good bye, and i havent heard from him since.........should i called him??.....or send him a txt message??......or leave it and see if he talks to me again??
2007-03-16 23:33:03 · 12 answers · asked by cobra 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd leave it alone and wait to see if contacts you again, but I wouldn't hold my breath either. It sounds to me like he's a mystery type guy that enjoys the mystery of not actually knowing his romantic interest. Now that he's met you, it's like he's made a conquest and is ready to move on to the next conquest.
That's one problem with meeting people on the internet. Many of them just can't deal with a real life person.
How do I know this? I internet dated for over 10 years until I met my husband. Most of the guys were just like what you describe of your friend. One date and they'd get real flakey.
Good luck, but be cautious not to get too entangled emotionally too quickly.
2007-03-17 00:07:24 · answer #1 · answered by Goddess T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call him and leave it alone. Once you call then the ball is in his court, and it's up to him to make a move. I would be a little concerned though, the way you make it sound is that... all of a sudden he wanted to call it a night. Was it because he had a guilty conscious? Is there maybe someone at home he doesn't want you knowing about? If you two hit it off great then there should be no reason for him to clam up and end the date. See if he calls you back and if not, then there might be a reason and you should just move on.
2007-03-17 06:40:16 · answer #2 · answered by Mystery_Woman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's odd, but it seems as if he's rather not interested, because shy he isn't due to the fact that you already kissed in a public place. Probably he wanted just to have a little fun, that's all... move on.
2007-03-17 06:41:32 · answer #3 · answered by kamqx 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you should call and say hi what's been going on. Ask him if he wants to go hang out.
2007-03-17 06:40:16 · answer #4 · answered by Robby M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He got a girl. That happened to me .
2007-03-17 06:36:17 · answer #5 · answered by Humble Ranger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him if he likes you he will talk to you if not theres nothing to loose.
2007-03-17 06:37:32 · answer #6 · answered by sexy-star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don't call him, let him call you. he was just checking you out. wait to see if he calls you, if not you are better off
2007-03-17 06:50:47 · answer #7 · answered by arbusiness 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave it till u'll get the message and undoubtedly will be positive
2007-03-17 06:51:22 · answer #8 · answered by flower 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
leave it and see if he talks to you again.
2007-03-17 06:38:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think well and do as ur mind says
dont listen to anyone.
2007-03-17 06:40:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋