Family & Relationships - 16 March 2007

She makes me want to die, and I have thought of killing myself recently.
I stay with her for our 5 y.o. daughter.
If I break up with her, she will take our daughter abroad and I won't see her again, or very rarely (maybe once a year). Sure, a US court will award me partial custody, but when she has my daughter she will just leave, and the country she will go to will not honor my custody, and I can't live there.
My plan was to just stay with her for 13 more years, until my daughter is old enough to go where she chooses. But she makes my life so awful, I would rather be in jail or prison or dead. Seriously. She is mean, cruel. I didn't see how evil of a person she was when I met her. I can't fight back too much, because she will just take my daughter away. Even if I fight back a little, she will say horrible things to my daughter.
We can't "talk" through it, I hate her guts and she is naturally mean. Besides the next 13 years in hell, is there a solution where I can see my daughter?

2007-03-16 20:39:41 · 11 answers · asked by whatsthefingpoint 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I work for the same company. But different buildings. He and I are on different shifts. He was supposed to work Saturday. But it was canceled at 7 a.m. at the end of his shift. My shift ends at 10:30. p.m. I paged for him but no answer. Another employee said that my bf didn't have to work. I feel like my bf should have called. The only time he calls me is to say he is on his way over or to cancel. I called him and asked him about it. He said that he didn't call because he didn't know if I would be home or awake. I find this excuse dumb because I have a cell and home phone. Both have answering services. So, am I being picky when I expect him to call? I mean, what if I wanted to see him?

2007-03-16 20:37:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean how can I tell him what I like and what I want for him to do, Im shy to tell him...but he cant understand what I want...like giving me flowers sometimes, or presents....How??Do I show him how?

2007-03-16 20:35:28 · 17 answers · asked by ayashers 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My 1st relationship lasted for 1 year plus and just ended about a mth ago because both of us felt that we needed some space to ourselves.

Now that a mth has passed, I'm not sure if I should try to get back together with him. What should I do? I feel that he has something for me. The bond we shared was so strong before and its still present now.

2007-03-16 20:35:03 · 10 answers · asked by Grace 3 in Singles & Dating

I have this amazing friend who just happens to be a guy. over the years we got really close and seriously considered dating. but with our age it didnt seem appropriate. i hate to say it, but im a very conservative person. When i found out that he drinks alcohol sometimes, i flipped out. Its not something i approved of and i felt like he was screwing up his life. So i made him an ultimatum. I told him that if he wants to be with me in the future, he cant have any alcohol. He seemed to accept this for a while, but today i found out that he was part of a beer run and got an MIP (minor in possession).He knows how much i hate stupid people behind stupid decisions. Did he do this because he doesnt like me anymore? or can there be a different reason. im at a loss of words. i feel like its an attack on me. am i a fool to think that he ever cared? By the way we are 15.

2007-03-16 20:32:49 · 10 answers · asked by Violet J 1 in Singles & Dating

okay so if you added a guy you had a class with on myspace and just msged him to say who you were. Would this tell the guy that you liked him? I just added him because he was nice to me in class and I think hes a nice guy. I didnt think much of it but then my friend said he is probably going to think I have a crush on him and now Im scared to look at him and school just incase he thinks that.

2007-03-16 20:31:11 · 9 answers · asked by sallyprince9 1 in Singles & Dating

ladies and gentlemen, would you let your man or woman have a last fling or date with whomever they like before you exchange your wedding vows?? you know.... to clear their minds from temptation.......... for the time being that is

2007-03-16 20:30:31 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-16 20:29:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

1.would you go out with me?

2.do I seem wifey material?

3.What would you rate me on a scale of 1-10

4.What would you do if just me and you was alone?

5.do you think I would like you?

6.Do I seem like a freak to you?

7.is you a freak?

2007-03-16 20:29:09 · 9 answers · asked by shaan 1 in Friends

My younger brother always gets what he wants!! When he wants to watch Tv he gets to even when he did not finish his HW!!! When I wanna watch Tv and I finished my Hw what do I get a big NOOOO!! My brother also runs around in my room with his retard of a friend and startes to scream. I tell him to get out and he startes to bawl. When he does'nt wanna do his chores he makes up an exuce and makes MEEEEEEEEE do them!!! Help me PLEASE AS SOON AS POSSIBLE ASAP
Also what does LOL mean?

2007-03-16 20:28:51 · 14 answers · asked by yasminbelkhyr 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We were all the same age but he thought I looked better so he picked me but my friend realy liked him so so much that if I went with him it would hurt her but then agen I realy like him to and want to be happy to.

2007-03-16 20:27:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I work with two of my friends who had an affair (he's is married) for a couple of months... Now his wife is pregnant, but he is still in love with my friend who also loves him. They don't talk to each other, so none of them know how the other feels... Should I tell them?

2007-03-16 20:26:29 · 20 answers · asked by Me 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Im 13 and i just found out my dreamgirl likes me!! we are now datin. How can I make sure we stay together?

2007-03-16 20:24:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have always missed her, but lately, more than ever. I don't understand why. I think about her all of the time and it has been YEARS since she has passed. Why is it hurting all of a sudden? My father is married to a WONDERFUL woman that I helped him meet, I LOVE her! She has been so good to me! But all of a sudden I want my Mom, I want to know her, but she's gone. Why did this not effect me before now?

2007-03-16 20:24:03 · 19 answers · asked by ktterdfurguson 4 in Family

I don't want to bother girls by asking them out, so should I worry about being alone for the rest of my life?

2007-03-16 20:23:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

As a kid I imagined a magic-using robot as my guardian/friend. He'd watch over me until I became older and could use magic at which point he'd reveal himself to me. I'd see him flying along beside the car when I was riding in a car on the freeway, or imagine him talking with the president while waiting at the DR's office or while bored in school. I realize now that I probablly wanted to imagine that I would one day have greater control over the world than I had as a child.

I later thought that if I did the right combination of actions (seemingly random like opening a cabinet door 5 times and running in circles) I'd unlock some ancient, 'chance possibillity' in the universe and aquire the unusual abillity to use magic also. I would then take control of a group of magic users (including the magic user)and go about improving the world, in childish ways, like saving endagered species, stopping wars and building space-stations.

Now for the question:

Do you still have an imaginary friend?

2007-03-16 20:23:37 · 9 answers · asked by hen m 1 in Friends

2007-03-16 20:20:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Whom would you choose if you have to choose only one among your True love or True friend & Why...? Please justify your answere.

2007-03-16 20:20:35 · 29 answers · asked by shaan 1 in Friends

I was seeing this boy for like 3 months, until he tried to break things off. he told me it just wasnt a good time, but he still really liked me and kinda wanted to be friends i guess, which i was pretty okay with. but now we don't talk at all, except for the ocasonal text messages. now he's telling my friends he wants to get back together with me eventually, but I know he's kissing other girls..now the promise of being with him again isnt going to stop me from seeing other guys..it didnt even really stop me before..but it was easy because we live kinda far and the boys i would kiss, he would never find out about, but now there are a couple guys he knows and would find out about..would I be an idiot to not take a chance with someone else because he MIGHT want to be with me again?

2007-03-16 20:19:35 · 12 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-16 20:19:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-03-16 20:18:57 · 3 answers · asked by Kerrysssss 1 in Family

Guys, Iam 14 years old and my girlfrnd is gonna turn 14 on 20th of March and I wanna give her somethng very speacial on her birthday..........

Plz help me......

2007-03-16 20:18:19 · 11 answers · asked by Aki 1 in Singles & Dating

Wat is Life ?

How u want to make Life Beautiful ?

2007-03-16 20:17:58 · 19 answers · asked by shaan 1 in Friends

So many things do you think of them concerning her? Did you wish you would have changed the past? Do you miss her? tell me your story!!!

2007-03-16 20:17:51 · 4 answers · asked by remi m 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-16 20:17:11 · 14 answers · asked by xoxjaime06xox 1 in Singles & Dating

i did not told my bestfriend about this guy & one time i introduced them but my boyfriend fall inlove w/ her.im very hurt...how can i over come this?

2007-03-16 20:16:30 · 4 answers · asked by sharamier 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't know I was just thinking about it today.

There was this girl sitting in front of me and oh my god...she was just toooo cute. Everything about her. Her face, hair, voice, laugh. I just wanted to grab her and hug her LOL.

What really did it was her voice.

So it got me thinking....excluding the face...what about a guy is "cute"? I mean it's not like they can act "cute" or talk cute because that would just be weird so other than their face, what could be cute about a guy?

2007-03-16 20:16:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok my bf has been grounded for over a month. We were really close. But now it is like we broke up. he can't call me or see me. I feel like i moved on. What should i do? Someone please help. Should i leave him? Should I stay. We have been together for 1 year and 5 months...

2007-03-16 20:16:15 · 2 answers · asked by Ashley 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-16 20:16:05 · 10 answers · asked by Baby GurL 1 in Friends

2007-03-16 20:15:28 · 7 answers · asked by Raj Bab 1 in Singles & Dating