I mean how can I tell him what I like and what I want for him to do, Im shy to tell him...but he cant understand what I want...like giving me flowers sometimes, or presents....How??Do I show him how?
2007-03-16 20:35:28 · 17 answers · asked by ayashers 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'll give you and inside view of the male. We are very simple. You need to tell us straight up what you want. We are not girls, we don't think like you do. Giving us hints, clues, being subtle only confuses us and frustrates you.
Face it. Guys want sex and more sex. They would be happy as can be if you let them jump you each night. I know a woman would be aghast of such a thing, they want romance, excitement, teasing, the chase, etc. You will simply have to teach that to a man. But once a week or so, just blow him or have a quickie, some romance less sex. It is always fair for both to give in to the other.
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2007-03-16 20:51:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your too shy to tell him, go to a book store and buy him a book on how women like to be treated, both sexually and romantically. I know they have them, because my first wife bought me one. He might take it a little personal when you give it to him. Just reassure him that he's not a bad person or that you dont like him, tell him that's why Im giving it to you, because I see a future in our relationship. He'll like that. My wife said to me, Only a woman knows what a women wants. That just about killed me. So dont say that. Good luck
2007-03-17 03:47:21 · answer #2 · answered by tom c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u feel Shy just say inderectly means for example 2 ur Boyfriend hey my friends boyfriend had gave a lovely wrist watchto her & its very lovely. just like this way so ur boyfriend will also think 2 impress u in that way by giving u some gift what u like.
2007-03-17 08:24:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is so simple!
Give him each article what you want as 'presents'!
If he don't return anything, understand that he is a shameless man. I don't know if 'shameful and shameless' is a proper match!
Any how it is a simple matter and so ahead!
Remember, life is more than all these humbug!
2007-03-17 03:47:26 · answer #4 · answered by kkr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I want coplaments from my boyfriend of 9 years I say "honey I think you're handsome" "I think you're sexy" He always starts complamenting me back!!! If you don't tell him how's is he sapose to know? When talking to him say"I am looking for this in a relationship" I like this" don't say "you need to do this" "you need to do that" You'll put him on the devensive doing that.
2007-03-17 03:59:44 · answer #5 · answered by w_breezy34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you have a friend who got a present and you thought it was so sweet. Ask him how he feels or thinks.
2007-03-17 03:40:54 · answer #6 · answered by Huguenot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Telling him. I just told my dude that today was sweethearts day and I wanted something from Edible Arrangements, and he got it for me. Men ar like children they need instructions.
2007-03-17 03:38:52 · answer #7 · answered by Jade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys, I have the same question ask she does.
As you all suggest just tell him straight, wouldn't guy feel too demanding if girls ask so many times ( you know, we need a lot of cares and attention)??
2007-03-17 04:01:43 · answer #8 · answered by Caring Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you keep giving him all that he wants for a while and then suddenly one day stop ... he would start thinking and understand that he too needs to give ... n its not always about receiving !
2007-03-17 03:39:54 · answer #9 · answered by SD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, in order for you to be satisfied in any areas of your life, you need to tell him what you want . i know it can nerve wracking to tell someone, but you have to find a way. the both of you will be happier.
2007-03-17 03:39:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋