ladies and gentlemen, would you let your man or woman have a last fling or date with whomever they like before you exchange your wedding vows?? you know.... to clear their minds from temptation.......... for the time being that is
2007-03-16 20:30:31 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hell no.
they might realize what they are missing and leave you. haha.
but seriously, it's starting off the marriage with distrust and jealousy... even if you both agreed to cheat, there's still going to be negative feelings.
2007-03-16 20:34:41 · answer #1 · answered by Alexa K 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok, let me tell you, and I think I can speak for alot of guys out there. Guys will always have the temptation, so that part is not a good excuse. Im sorry for spilling it guys, but when we say that we're not looking, we are. So I guess I would say NO that it is not ok to do this before you exchange vows. I mean the whole reason your exchanging vows is because this kind of behavior is supposed to be out of your system.
2007-03-17 03:39:19 · answer #2 · answered by tom c 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they are tempted just before marriage then what would change after the marriage. If the person I wanted to marry wanted a last fling I would seriously question what kind of commitment they are proposing. Open marriages should be discussed before marriage.
2007-03-17 03:43:05 · answer #3 · answered by Jim C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they needed a "last fling", they clearly would not be ready for marriage at any time in the near future.
2007-03-17 03:33:48 · answer #4 · answered by Liz 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
saying you want to have a last fling before marriage vows is done, or wanting to have one or just wishing to have one and justifying it as a last one before marriage or giving your commitment to someone show a lack of maturity. i am sorry but to say such a thing but this is just a personal opinion.
2007-03-17 03:35:32 · answer #5 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uh, NO!!!!!! If you're "needing" to have one last fling, you don't need to get married. When you become engaged, you're telling your significant other that you want her and her alone and that you're emotionally ready to be monogamous. Obviously, you aren't and you need to break off the engagement.
I'm not knocking you. Better to break it off now as opposed to later when you're married, maybe have kids and it gets VERY messy.
2007-03-17 05:33:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is always going to be temptation even after marriage. but is there is love, and communication in the relationship, then it wont happen.
p.s. if you are getting married, best of wishes! :)
2007-03-17 04:54:56 · answer #7 · answered by Traveling girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
temptation before marriage=not yet ready to get married
2007-03-17 03:58:19 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't think of a better way to get a marriage off on a worse start.
2007-03-17 03:51:38 · answer #9 · answered by whatsthefingpoint 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's just the point: it's just for the time being, meaning in the future they will think a recharge is ok. So, No.
2007-03-17 03:46:20 · answer #10 · answered by Huguenot 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋