Never going to ask a girl out?

Question

I don't want to bother girls by asking them out, so should I worry about being alone for the rest of my life?

Answer 1

How would you bother a girl? Even if she says no, I'm sure she would be flattered because it boosts up her self esteem. Don't worry about being alone for the rest of your life...as long as you're open and receptive to love, you'll find somebody.

Answer 2

First of all, the ONLY reason I keep answering your questions is because I feel sorry for you and want to see how your doing.
Second. DUDE IF YOU DONT EVER GET RID OF YOUR NEGATIVE ATTITUDE YOU WILL END UP COMMITING SUICIDE!!!! So cheer up before I have to hunt you down and beat the crap out of you!!!!
Dont worry about it!! You could never worry about bothering a girl by asking her out. That wont bother her!!!!
Try just talking to girls!! Find common intrests!!!! Example: I know a guy and one day he just came up to me and asked me how I was doing. The conversation went on from there and now we know that we both love cats and football!!!!! Just try TALKING TO A GIRL!!!! And unless your butt-ugly (which I highly doubt) girls will ADORE having you talk to them. REALLY THEY WILL!!!!
And please dont worry about being alone for the rest of your life. I promise you there is a girl out there for you. And she will come into your life someday and you will know that she is the one for you. But dont be to eager or you will either turn her off or "pick" the wrong girl and when the right one comes along you wont know it.

And I dont mean to sound creepy or anything, but I'll be praying for you.

~Brunette Poet ;)

Answer 3

No. I wouldn't worry. I don't get into the whole "being asked out" thing either. You might try asking a group of people including the girl you like to go out to lunch. It's more casual and there is less pressure. Maybe something will start from there.

Answer 4

I used to have the same feeling, but now I realize that there's nothing for me to lose. If I don't ask a girl, I never get to go out with her. If I do ask a girl, there is at least a chance. So which is better?

Answer 5

Dont want to bother? Are you that lazy, or are you nervous? Girls do ask out guys, I've asked out a few. However self confidence is a turn-on and the worst a girl can say is 'no'.

Answer 6

If you want to be alone for the rest of your life, you don't need to bother. if you want someone spend life together, you better do something, and seriously work hard on it, otherwise, you probably will end up being alone.

Answer 7

YES! What do you mean you dont want to bother them? Is it that or is it that you dont like girls. Or maybe your just too nervous. Just remember, something my dad use to tell me when I was looking for a job. If you want one you better get out and find one, cause they aint going to come and knock on your door looking for you. So my advice to you is BOTHER THEM. You would be surprised how many of them love to be bothered.

Answer 8

You wouldn't bother a girl! If you are deciding to make the "conscious decision" of not asking someone out then you are defining your life of solitude for yourself. I would recommend accumulating some courage and trying the dating scene.

Answer 9

see here is the problem in that, every girl/woman one time or another enjoys being asked out, makes them feel good about their looks, even if they don't like you they did like the fact you liked their "looks" enough to wanna ask them out. don't close out asking girls out cause you think it bothers them. you'd be surprised at how many really aren't bothered (though they pretend they are) we're fickle but we do like compliments no matter how much we pretend not to

Answer 10

one day you will meet a girl and things will just click. some of the best relationships start out as only friendships. quit worrying about bothering girls now adays they will ask you out.