Family & Relationships - 16 March 2007

I've been dating this girl for a while now. I've taken her out to eat dinner and what not, at first we were both shy birds but after a while we got to know each other a little more and we started to date more often. Its been about 3 months or so into dating and a while ago I asked her out and she said she'll think about it. Then the day after I asked her again and she said the same thing. Okay, So I cooled it off for a while and then after a month I asked her if she wanted to get together and she said "well... we are dating, were friends... lets just take it slow" that really boiled my blood, and the good thing was that I was driving her home and we were just like 2 minutes away. I never gave up though. A week cameby and I asked her out for a date and she said okay. Well, date day came by and she gave me the most stupidest excuse that she couldnt go... Okay, guys and gals, do you think im just wasting her time? because I certainly had fun on those dates and I also know she did too.

2007-03-16 19:55:00 · 3 answers · asked by Crash 2 in Singles & Dating

My marriage is in trouble. We have serious communication issues. I suggested that we go to counseling but my husband refuses. He says he would rather get a divorce.

2007-03-16 19:54:00 · 11 answers · asked by what? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi i really need help i feel confused and i don't know is it normal or not im in a steady relationship with a guy we've been together for a year and half and i know he loves me so much and i love him too i feel safe with him and happy he asked me to marry him and i was overwhelmed my family was a lil against him at first ot because he is bad they like him just some family problems and finally they agreed the problem is everything was fine i finally got what i wanted they said yes but i feel scared of marriage another thing thats confusing me is my best friends brother we were together ever since we were 12 me her and her older bro .Me and him are so alike . i used to have a crush on him but nothing happened so i took it as he only thought of me as a sis then he went to study out and I met my boyfriend . Her bro came back and ever since he knew im getting engaged he's been acting different kinda hurt and its making me feel guilty . I feel so confused its driving me crazy

2007-03-16 19:53:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

what do you see physically in a person and what do you think is hot? height, weight, looks, piercings, hair color, etc.

2007-03-16 19:51:44 · 24 answers · asked by confused 2 in Singles & Dating

I've just known her for less than a month and I'm looking for something subtle to tell her that I like her. I find love poems too strong for my purpose at the moment.

2007-03-16 19:51:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So this guy and I broke up, whom I was totally in love with. Now, he is dating this girl that is friends with my roommate. Well, I do like her and everything and have no resentment towards her. However, whenever she is around me she talks about him, tells me their 'initmate' events, and even asks me for advice and asks what he used to do with me.

Now......she wants to move in with me next year.... for the above reason and for the reason I know she is really loud, I don't want her to, how can I let her down easily?

2007-03-16 19:50:39 · 4 answers · asked by Violin2 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-16 19:50:29 · 7 answers · asked by wisper 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We will be at a lake. We are not able to leave there. We will have lots of friends and family there. There are soooo many activities in that ONE week that we are responsible for; like our daughters grade 12 Grad, July 1st Activities & Fireworks (which includes Fish Durby, games, face painting, etc), 2 different 50th Wedding Anniversarys for guests of ours, and my Sister's Wedding (at the lake also). We will be exhausted and am scared we won't have enough time and energy to celebrate our special day. Any suggestions of what I could do ahead of that time to make our day/evening/night special that we will remember outside of all of those activities? We can't leave because we are the owners of this resort. My idea is to just put up a banner, "Welcome to share our 25th Wedding Anniversary" outfront of the store and serve cake and coffee. Please be creative, put yourself in our shoes. Try and come up with fun and romantic ideas that would work at a fishing lake setting.

2007-03-16 19:50:21 · 10 answers · asked by lillyBme 2 in Weddings

looks?

2007-03-16 19:49:13 · 10 answers · asked by Carebear22 4 in Singles & Dating

i feel like us women fall for the same mistakes over and over een when it comes to picking out a man? why why

2007-03-16 19:49:08 · 10 answers · asked by mickie1108 3 in Singles & Dating

Have you ever been in love?

What's the longest relationship you've been in?

What's the shortest?

What do you look for in a guy/girl?

Do you go for looks or personality?

Do you believe in love at first sight?

What do you think about first impressions?

Have you ever cheated on someone?

Have you ever been cheated on?

2007-03-16 19:48:18 · 17 answers · asked by shaan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a college freshman dude, and I have a crush on this girl in my English class. I have had a crush on her since the first week of this semester. She doesn't seem that into me. I always strike up a conversation, and she never does. She doesn't really make an eyecontact. I met her at a techno party today. I wanted to dance with her, but she danced with this one guy the whole time. I am a very jealous person, and I admit I felt like beating the **** out of that guy. I feel so sh*tty right now. I never felt attracted to a girl this strong, and it's hard to get her out of my head. I've tried, but it's just not working. She and I seem to have different values. I am trying to be liberal and relaxed, but I've been raised by conservative parents. The girl seems like a hippy girl. She hangs out with hippy guys. I don't know why, but I am always attracted to girls who are very different. Even if I do get to date her, I will probably have problems because of the differences.

2007-03-16 19:46:58 · 1 answers · asked by What Wtasdcvg 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a 14 year old sister that thinks she knows everything. Every Friday she goes to the Mall with her friends and comes back late at night. Sometimes my mom yells at her and sometimes she doesn't care. My sister is also addicted to Myspace. School Nights she uses it until 12:00am and weekends she could use it until 6:00am. When I tell her to get off she just ignores me. My mom punishes her sometimes but she doesn't listen. She cares more about her friends than her own family. We constantly fight and sometimes I don't know why. I try to talk to her but she doesn't listen. And when she gets me angry I yell. Sometimes I feel like I'm A bad brother. I feel that if she died today I wouldn't care. I also feel that if things get worst then later in the future we may never talk to each other again. What should I do before things get out of hand?

2007-03-16 19:46:45 · 22 answers · asked by MosT onE... 2 in Family

I haven't seen some acquaintences in over 9 months. I
e-mailed them yesterday night to invite them over to my house to hang out. I only received one reply out of the 23 I sent out.

I am destined to be a loner. It sucks.

Should I just cancel the event? I asked them to come to my place the day after they finished their exams.

2007-03-16 19:46:30 · 8 answers · asked by . 1 in Friends

nice, sweet mature loveable, but a freak and has a really good personitly I used to call him honey bear but he said he dont like like but this boy is mosstly a freak so give me a good name

2007-03-16 19:44:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I personally don't think age really matters, but I'd like to know what you think!

2007-03-16 19:43:50 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've been dating for almost two years, and still have a great time when we're together. Yet, I'm 19 and she just turned 18, I went to college for a semester, it tore her apart that i was gone, but I decided that college wasn't right for me so I left and am home working. Now i work near 40 hours a week mainly at night. We don't see eachother as often because she is still in high school and its driving her mad that we can't talk or see eachother as much as we used to because at college i could at least talk. She wants me to ask for less hours which is out of the question because i love my job. We're going to different colleges in the fall. I'm incredibly confused and need all the advice i can get.

2007-03-16 19:43:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-16 19:43:11 · 8 answers · asked by Ace 3 in Singles & Dating

I'll never understand it. You say one thing,but then mean something totally different, explain please.

2007-03-16 19:41:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mother was the most abusive person in my life, she constantly put me down when i was a kid, slapping and hitting was a daily routine, i've moved out 6 years ago. I tried to have a relationship with her by visiting her and calling her, however her constant criticism never stopped, she says things like 'you are ugly compare to others', 'it was good that i beat you while you were young' or 'you may never get inheritance if i don't like you' etc, she just have to ruin every interaction i have with her, so 7 months ago i've decided to cut her off my life compeletly, no more visit or calling, i've also changed my phone number. Now she comes to my home twice a week and knock on my door, lucky i was at work, she leave food and vege outside my door with sweet notes, what should I do with this crazy woman? if she hates me so much, why bother to be nice to me now?

2007-03-16 19:40:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Be honest - who cleans up some of the questions put forward on here - personally I feel that we sure need helpers in certain categories.

2007-03-16 19:39:42 · 11 answers · asked by deep in thought 4 in Friends

I dance on boys alot when im with my boyfriend all i do is shake my butt on him and bend over on his u no what . and on the phone i talk super nasty! to my boyfriend, and i love to have my *** on penis!

2007-03-16 19:39:28 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so Me and my ex broke up a few weeks back, There was a lot of love there. So We talked a lot and hugn out afterwards, occasionally "hooked up". She said I didnt make ehr feel "needed". Not sure if this is the truth actually but.... It does kind of hurt to see her and not be with her. We are both very proud and that could hamper things. So does anyone have any input ? Back off and let her see what she misses or try to call her and make an attempt? I am a strong believer that people want what they cant have . Maybe I should try to appear unavailable ? Thanks a Million Everybody.

2007-03-16 19:38:48 · 5 answers · asked by johnny731@verizon.net 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so Me and my ex broke up a few weeks back, There was a lot of love there. So We talked a lot and hugn out afterwards, occasionally "hooked up". She said I didnt make ehr feel "needed". Not sure if this is the truth actually but.... It does kind of hurt to see her and not be with her. We are both very proud and that could hamper things. So does anyone have any input ? Back off and let her see what she misses or try to call her and make an attempt? I am a strong believer that people want what they cant have . Maybe I should try to appear unavailable ? Thanks a Million Everybody.

2007-03-16 19:38:36 · 5 answers · asked by johnny731@verizon.net 2 in Singles & Dating

how do u tell an insult from a tease?

2007-03-16 19:36:06 · 9 answers · asked by joey 3 in Singles & Dating

The first letter is what he wrote at first. He don't know if it would work and I told him it make him look weak. The second letter came from someone who shortened it for him, and I like it and I think it would work but problem is he ain't wrote it. Which should he use? Here they is:

2007-03-16 19:35:55 · 6 answers · asked by Curios 2 in Singles & Dating

how do I ge trid of her

2007-03-16 19:35:45 · 13 answers · asked by sharkmann25 2 in Singles & Dating

How do u react if your BF lives for his family members, for his brothers and sisters, when he spent his income to buy things for them.... suppose u r not married to ur boy and u asked him to make good income so that we will be able to stand by ourself, later after some years u see him he didnt earn anything what he earned he gave all that money for his brothers and sisters who got married and settled, also he spend money for buying gift for his family members and friends more than a limit.... what do u do he is not living for you, not for himself but living for others.... i mean for his family members and friends... do you think he will look after you and kids after marriage?.....

My partner is the same, he lives for his family members eventhough they got married and have kids, and for his friends,,, he is asking me to give more than a million to marry him? What do u do if u were in my situation?

are u ready to marry a man like that?....

2007-03-16 19:33:44 · 11 answers · asked by ann m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am on a very rocky state of marriage right now... i admit that it was partly my fault. i can say that my husband is a wife-beater,.. before i understand him because of the many frustrations he has in life. but because of that also, i was forced to seek attention of comfort from someone else, let's say i cheated.... but it was over and we started again, because i still love him... now i found out that he has been cheating me for the past two months, and what hurts me most is that he told everybody about what i did before... now we are still together, he is asking his freedom. he is putting all the blame on me on what is happening with us... it's hurting me too much, and i am thinking about the welfare of our child... should i let go or cling on to him...

2007-03-16 19:31:14 · 26 answers · asked by kish-kish 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-16 19:30:49 · 11 answers · asked by Me 3 in Friends