My marriage is in trouble. We have serious communication issues. I suggested that we go to counseling but my husband refuses. He says he would rather get a divorce.
2007-03-16 19:54:00 · 11 answers · asked by what? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Go to counseling without him. It will help you gain new perspective and help you through this difficult time in your marriage. You'll be investing in your own happiness and emotional health whether or not your marriage remains intact or ends in divorce.
2007-03-16 20:14:53 · answer #1 · answered by Nessa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always tough when something is ending, in this case your marriage sounds like it has been finished for a while. Are you happier when he is around or when he is gone. It is much easier to end a marriage than to fight for it , but when you are the only one fighting to keep it , would it be worth the effort. Sometimes people stay together for the wrong reasons, just try and remember the last time you were really happy and see if your husband was in that moment with you. If he wasn't it might be better to end it and move on with your life, it won't be easy, but it might be worth the risk for new happiness.
Good luck , and don't worry this might be necessary for your happiness.
2007-03-17 03:05:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this, but without compromise there is no way you can have a relationship with a person! If he will not go see a councilor he just does not care enough about preserving the relationship. There are men out there who will treat you a lot better! You really don't have to take this. I know you love him a lot and this is hard for you, but after it is all over you will be a lot happier. You're worth it to someone who cares!
2007-03-17 02:59:05 · answer #3 · answered by zeonchar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get divorced. A man who refuses to get better isn't worth the effort
2007-03-17 02:56:50 · answer #4 · answered by SongMaker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Friend,
It happens sometime in a life, but it does not mean that your marriage would come to end, if anything is wrong in relation try out some different options to get ride of this.
2007-03-17 03:02:50 · answer #5 · answered by Shailesh S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you tryed since your husband would rather get a divorce let him
2007-03-20 18:15:13 · answer #6 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest you read the book "the praying wife." buy him a copy of "the praying husband." tell him you are not going to nag him about councelling but you would like him to read through the book. it is really uplifring.
2007-03-17 02:58:05 · answer #7 · answered by misse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can either get a divorce or find someone else to fill in his areas of defiency.
2007-03-17 03:26:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your marriage is something you still want then PUSH (pray until something happens).
2007-03-17 02:56:25 · answer #9 · answered by Jade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the divorce last thing not first thing.. u must to listen to him and he listen to u what happened..don't give up and he is either..
2007-03-17 04:02:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋