Ok so Me and my ex broke up a few weeks back, There was a lot of love there. So We talked a lot and hugn out afterwards, occasionally "hooked up". She said I didnt make ehr feel "needed". Not sure if this is the truth actually but.... It does kind of hurt to see her and not be with her. We are both very proud and that could hamper things. So does anyone have any input ? Back off and let her see what she misses or try to call her and make an attempt? I am a strong believer that people want what they cant have . Maybe I should try to appear unavailable ? Thanks a Million Everybody.
2007-03-16 19:38:48 · 5 answers · asked by johnny731@verizon.net 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Look, u let her know that your there, that its up to her, that ur not going to push her, that the ball is in her court, then u back off.. completely.. and let her make the next move.. that way she knows how u feel, with out feeling pressured.. Sure u could play games and try to win her back, but then ur always going to wonder if she came back because u played the game or did she come back cause she actually loves u..
So tell her how u feel, tell her everything u ever wanted to tell her, hold nothing back, and then see what she does after that..
2007-03-16 19:45:55 · answer #1 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you take walks in the park holding hands? Did you sit on the couch rubbing her feet. Did you spend qauity time with her without trying anything sexual? Did you let her talk about her day and not just talk about yours? Could she ever have a headache and you spoil her instead of saying "my head hurts too" or"my back hurts". Sometimes women just need to know that they're specail. If you did these things and she doesn't want to be with you then she is just lieing to you. She is not worthy of you. Hope this helped!
2007-03-17 03:40:41 · answer #2 · answered by w_breezy34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are fairly young, inexperienced. If there was a lot of love there a few weeks ago it should still be there if it was indeed real love. Don't play games (like being unavailable) just tell her how you feel and see if she wants to get back together.
2007-03-17 02:47:49 · answer #3 · answered by Loreli S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just feeling the after effects of separation. You can't help but to hurt after the break up...all you pretty much know is being with her. So its going to be obvious that when you see her you are going to want to be with her. If you guys separated...you did it for a reason. I think you guys need to get your minds clear first and if its meant to be...yall will find yall way back.
2007-03-17 02:47:39 · answer #4 · answered by Miss. Tee98 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on shes gone
2007-03-20 21:02:44 · answer #5 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋