Is she too old for me? She's 25, I'm 18?

Question

I personally don't think age really matters, but I'd like to know what you think!

Oh, I forgot to say; we agreed to have lunch next week.

Answer 1

Have your lunch and enjoy her company.
You'll know if it's right...just take it easy and
spend time together. Have fun.

Answer 2

No, I don't think age matters. When i was your age I dated a 29 year old guy. And I've had crushes on much younger guys. The thing is you have to be compatible not only in maturity but at the same point in your life. My sister (23) just got out of a relationship with a 42 year old. They got along fine but she's starting her life ready to get married and have a bunch of kids. He already has had kids and he's actually already a grandfather, so he's not at the same point as her, so it just couldn't work out. But hey, give it a try, your ages aren't all that far apart.

Answer 3

what we think is not relevant only what you think matters the older you get the closer the ages become but 18 isis still very young by the time you are 20 you are another person and when you are 25 you are different again .by then you settle down
dont make any permanent decissions untill you are 25
or you may get divorced very soon as many young relationships do because of the heavy personality changes still ahead.

Answer 4

age is just a number, but remember with age we become wiser and more mature. So do not expect a 25 year old to act like some of the 18 year olds you have dated in the past. (assuming you dated some) Also she may expect more from you because as we age our priorities change and she may need more than what you can give. (Financially maybe) BUT ALL IN ALL , GO FOR IT. you may learn a thing or two.

Answer 5

I'm sorry but 25 be a woman age of maturity and when begin to have most smarts and beauty. 18 does still be child and I honestly cannot imagine being attracted to a long term relationship of18. Expect to be used for your body alone which should be the nature of these ages meeting. :) So have fun with short term relationship with older women. And look for yourself being 25 before you get all serious.

Answer 6

I don't think age matters much. The important thing is how mature you are and how mature she is. Another thing to think about is that at a young age, sometimes a huge difference can be a problem, but when both parties are older, the difference really don't matter.

Answer 7

It depends how mature you are. You need to get the main things out early. If you fall in love how old do you want to be when you get married, have kids etc. Once that is out, if it is compatable, then at your age 7 years is fine. If it's not compatable. Run before someone gets hurt. There is no point wasting time if the relationship cannot go anywhere.

Answer 8

Love is more important than age. Age shouldn't matter; what you like in the person (like their personality) should. Don't let age keep you back from a potentially successful relationship.

Answer 9

Age ain't nothing but a number as long as your both legal. Besides that is not too much of an age difference anyway. Go for it if it feels right.

Answer 10

Not at all! I am 25 myself and I was at a concert last night and saw plenty of younger men who were hot and I would have dated. Go for it! If she is interested in you as well, there is nothing stopping you two. Just try to be mature, as women are attracted to maturity and not little boys.

Answer 11

you answered your own question with " I personally don't think age really matters." it doesn't, but you do have to wonder, what can you give her...that she can't get herself at her age. i mean...it may be love. no doubt about that, but at certain ages we think differently, my mother put it interestingly one day to me on where I was as far as my mentality...think of three tomatoes. one is green, another orange, and the last a deep red....at your age consider yourself the orange, you know things but you still aren't ripe yet. and her consider her a red orange...more advanced in that she has seen more. age doesn't matter.