I've been dating this girl for a while now. I've taken her out to eat dinner and what not, at first we were both shy birds but after a while we got to know each other a little more and we started to date more often. Its been about 3 months or so into dating and a while ago I asked her out and she said she'll think about it. Then the day after I asked her again and she said the same thing. Okay, So I cooled it off for a while and then after a month I asked her if she wanted to get together and she said "well... we are dating, were friends... lets just take it slow" that really boiled my blood, and the good thing was that I was driving her home and we were just like 2 minutes away. I never gave up though. A week cameby and I asked her out for a date and she said okay. Well, date day came by and she gave me the most stupidest excuse that she couldnt go... Okay, guys and gals, do you think im just wasting her time? because I certainly had fun on those dates and I also know she did too.
2007-03-16 19:55:00 · 3 answers · asked by Crash 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think she's testing you to see if you care about her enough to stay with her....even if you don't always get what you want.
Maybe your prior dates got too steamy for her and she's afraid you may just be after sex.
Maybe she's testing your temper to see if you'll make a good father and husband.
I think it's better to be straight forward before it slips through the fingers. (relationship worth keeping)
2007-03-16 20:04:59 · answer #1 · answered by Bonnie Lynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you really need to stop acting like such a little bitc$ and find another girl. Your acting like she is the only girl in the world. You are giving her to much attention, when she probably doesn't even deserve it. If she's like this now, imagine a life with her--it would be horrible. I don't mean to sound so rude, but I'm sure you are better than her. Keep it moving and find another girl.
2007-03-16 20:03:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, you are fooling yourself. Forget her, she has already forgotten you. She is just leading you on for the free rides. Don't get used, move on. Nothing wrong if things don't work out.
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2007-03-16 20:06:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋