How do u react if your BF lives for his family members, for his brothers and sisters, when he spent his income to buy things for them.... suppose u r not married to ur boy and u asked him to make good income so that we will be able to stand by ourself, later after some years u see him he didnt earn anything what he earned he gave all that money for his brothers and sisters who got married and settled, also he spend money for buying gift for his family members and friends more than a limit.... what do u do he is not living for you, not for himself but living for others.... i mean for his family members and friends... do you think he will look after you and kids after marriage?.....
My partner is the same, he lives for his family members eventhough they got married and have kids, and for his friends,,, he is asking me to give more than a million to marry him? What do u do if u were in my situation?
are u ready to marry a man like that?....
2007-03-16 19:33:44 · 11 answers · asked by ann m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
are u ready to marry a man who make fun of your physical outlook? who demands for ur money? who is very extravagant by giving too much gift for his people and friends and when he never listens to u?
2007-03-16 19:35:34 · update #1
If your best friend was asking you if she should marry a guy that wanted her money and made fun of her and treated her badly, would you say "sure, marry him?"
I don't think you would. So why on earth are you considering it? Guys don't suddenly become different people once they are married to you. If anything, they get worse.
Get away from this guy, far far away.
2007-03-16 19:42:24 · answer #1 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look 1. untill he's actually married, its his money to spend he needs no ones permission on how to spend it, if he wants to go into debt over his family thats his choice..
2. If you need to ask if u should stay with a man that belittles you.. then i can understand why he's making fun of u.. because your obviously dense.. NO u dont stay with someone that doesnt respect u , plain and simple..
2007-03-16 19:49:10 · answer #2 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this straight, your partner is asking you to give more than a million dollars to marry him? Honey, I can introduce you to guys who will marry you for less than a million. Why would you marry someone like that? Are you from a culture where a dowry is paid?
2007-03-16 19:46:46 · answer #3 · answered by kgee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your bf will never change and would probably becomes worse once you are married. he is not your husband yet so why give him money???? It sounds like he is taking you for granted. Use your brain. Ciao.
2007-03-16 19:48:04 · answer #4 · answered by carlota_2312 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you blind, in denial, desperate, and with no self esteem or self worth at all? Move on, your just a walking bank account. He does not care or have feelings about you. He is in love with your wallet and so is his family. Grow up and open your eyes.
2007-03-16 19:42:40 · answer #5 · answered by another journey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your question is kinda hard to understand but it sounds like he puts all others before you. you know the answer to your own question. but since you are asking, you should leave him. not forever if you want to make it work, just for him to realize you are not going to put up with his crap anymore. if he doesn't change this behavior for you, then I'd move on. i wish you luck and happiness in your future!!
2007-03-16 19:40:16 · answer #6 · answered by heather l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't even date him. Why are you even thinking about marrying him?
2007-03-16 20:31:26 · answer #7 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey he didn't marry you yet dum dum. So he doesn't owe you a damn thing. Get over it.
2007-03-16 19:42:14 · answer #8 · answered by Joe B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there a full moon out tonight?
2007-03-16 19:38:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you feel very bad about how he handles his money and how he treats you, then why are you still with him?
2007-03-16 19:47:07 · answer #10 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋