Family & Relationships - 18 March 2007

For the first time tonight me and my boyfrined had sex and he relly coundent get it in there he only did like for 1 sec. he sade i was so tight that he even hurts and he didnt feel a thing. i just dont get it. plese help me!

2007-03-18 19:31:04 · 14 answers · asked by my69tgr 2 in Singles & Dating

had a breakup with my girlfreind 10 days ago...she said she is not getting enough from me..after 2 days she again told me that she has realised what real love is and she loves me..i accepted her happily..last night i hv recieved a text message from her...she is saying that she wants a break-up..also says that we can remain as good freinds...
Im in a confused state now..why is she doing like this
what i have to do now...I love her...I cant live without her..

2007-03-18 19:30:37 · 10 answers · asked by gaf 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-18 19:30:35 · 1 answers · asked by russian_girly19 1 in Singles & Dating

Please help pleaeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
Why my bf doesn’t answer the phone?
I always call hi I send message but he never answer me last time I send message ask him to give me peace of mind and here what he say!!!
Sexy gf, I am going to send a couple of text, ok
First of all, you are a great gf and awesome person. I have enjoyed my time with you so much. I have felt bad for a while because I feel you want more out of our relationship
Than I prepared to give. I feel like that hurts you often.
Second, sexy gf I am sorry for having you call and text me so many times without answer
Third, I have been upset about feeling obligated to help your family.
Fourth. I now you have probably been hurting for money. I want to pay your rent for the next 3 months. And give you some extra money to help you out.
I swear I want nothing but good things for you. It has really been hurting me that you have probably been really stressing about rent and money.
You are absolutely a fantastic woman, gf and fr

2007-03-18 19:28:16 · 9 answers · asked by carla 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-18 19:27:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

U HAVE 2 GIVE ME CREDIT

2007-03-18 19:27:08 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm 17 overweight very shy around girls i like, and not that athletic. i really like this one girl but i screwed up by staring a her and she got mad. i wasn't staring at her *** or boobs only her face because i thought she was the most beautiful girl i've ever seen. and know she won't talk to me anymore
Please help give me some advice

2007-03-18 19:26:00 · 14 answers · asked by Kyle P 2 in Singles & Dating

We have been dating since secondary school. 8 years that is. I don't ask for commitment, a marriage or material stuff. Just some pampering on and off (im really independent). I am always second best next to his band-yes he has a band. Having a soft spot for him doesn't help. He tries to take things lightly when confronted and promises to improve things. There is little effort......very little. and lately I just gave up hope. Pls advise!!

2007-03-18 19:25:54 · 16 answers · asked by hyda . 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-18 19:25:11 · 2 answers · asked by sandeep k 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it just me or my gf is really weird.

I just hang out with her tonight with a couple of my guy friends. There are a couple of strange things I noticed:
1) She talks to them so much more than she talks to me.
2) She's really "friendly" aka extremely flirtatious towards them. This gave me an impression when she started tickling 2 of my guy friends and put her legs on top of my friends lap. ( I don't know i think this is ok if she was just playing around with her "girl friends"...which is not in this case. Her doing all these stuff kind of sends a guy a wrong impression.)

Now it makes me wonder how she interact with her other guy friends when in not around. !@#$ this is pissing me off!!!

2007-03-18 19:23:50 · 15 answers · asked by confused zer0 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-18 19:23:50 · 27 answers · asked by sonali 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't know how to explain my situation very well. I feel that if I'm not being beaten or molested, I have no right to complain and am a spoiled brat. My mom is constantly complaining about everything I do, I do chores around the house to help out and she screams that I don't do it right and does it herself and then says I'm stressing her out too much....she does this to her boyfriend as well. She made me drop out of school because she couldn't give me rides and I currently don't have a liscence and can't take the bus(complicated situation) and now gets mad that I sit at home and says "why can't you go to school like a normal kid?" She never wants to spend time with me when she gets home at 5 pm, saying she's too tired, goes right to bed, talks about money constantly and never anything else, won't let anyone is the house eat anything that doesn't fit her standards meaning no cereal, no crackers, ect only things like wheat germ....Is it just self pity?

2007-03-18 19:23:29 · 16 answers · asked by ohohariel 1 in Family

He hasn't called me but I miss him and want to talk..i think he might be shy but then again I'm not sure. How do shy guys act? Do they like girls to call them instead and are they scared to call?

2007-03-18 19:23:01 · 4 answers · asked by Jasmine 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is really insistent, and can't get the idea out of his head to wanna do it to me this way...and so I may just let him, is it that bad?
Ive asked some friends and some say yeah it realyy sux and others say, its nota big deal?
Im not askin 2 many friends though, cuz its embarassin!
So is it really gonna hurt?

2007-03-18 19:22:08 · 18 answers · asked by tess 1 in Singles & Dating

This lady i ve been asking her out, writing sms and calling her several times but she ended up saying no i dont want you. So i came to stage where i told her that i will not be calling her anymore and i stopped of course. Later, about two weeks she sent just a friendly sms and i ignored it. Then after another two weeks she sent another one and i ignored. She then kept sending smss. Though i still want her i want to figure out if she changed her mind and she is ready for me.Do i need to reply her or just keep her off my mind for good?

2007-03-18 19:20:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i don't even know where to start..i think its just me..
but ok..
me and my boyfriend have been dating 6 months already talking about marriage..everyone knows it..so anyways since our relationship is pretty serious and not something to take lightly i'll continue with my random thoughts..
lately well i fear that he thinks i'm needy..even though he's extremely needy..or he alwyas said that now the tables turn and i feel too needy but thats cause i love him and he's the one person that i want to feel i can trust and be with and i enjoy spending time with him..i fear that he doesn't feel the same ..even though he always is saying how much he loves me it almost just seems like words to me..
cause as my brother says..you shouldn't be the girl he just comes by to say good night to...cause lately he has been focusing alot on all his friends..whether guys or girls..he rushes to the occasion to see friends. but when i'm fially off work its like he's sleeping or hanging out with his friends

2007-03-18 19:20:01 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex broke up with me 2 1/2 years ago b/c i moved away for college and he wanted me to have fun and enjoy my college life. Now....he continues to text me and tell me he misses me, loves me etc. but refuses to have sex with me (says he has to be good). do you think he sees a future with me? im so confused b/c i still love him so much but just always act friendly with him. do you think he still loves me and sees a future with me if he is acting this way after 2.5 years? how should i act towards him? should i call or always wait for him?

2007-03-18 19:20:01 · 14 answers · asked by Jasmine 1 in Singles & Dating

Yeah what do you all think about my plan?

2007-03-18 19:19:09 · 14 answers · asked by spayhappy 4 in Singles & Dating

so this new girlfriend wants me to go down, which i have no problem with, but she wants me to go down, and around the corner. "uhh" i replied, "thats gross". Then, at that, the mood was ruined. No action for me. I would be willing to try it if it really made her happy. I just want to know if its weird? I am talking about the controversial 10 minute discussion from Clerks 2 if you know what I mean.. But I know I would hate the feeling of someone licking around down there. Do people really enjoy that? She said she has never done it.. so maybe I should try it.. or talk her out of it.. help!

2007-03-18 19:18:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guys: how do you answer "how many times have you had sex?"

Girls: what do you expect to hear???

this cute girl asked me this question, but i couldnt give her the real answer any ideas?

2007-03-18 19:17:59 · 3 answers · asked by captinstunna2003 1 in Singles & Dating

Without saying much else what do you think I should do?
Go it alone ....or not.
give me your gut feelings and I'll tally.

2007-03-18 19:17:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So a hot guy came into work today to fix the hot water heater. There was a little bit of flirting, but he was only there for maybe five minutes. He'll be back tomorrow (later today) any flirting suggestions..I'm out of practice! Nothing too obvious/blunt. Thanx!

2007-03-18 19:15:57 · 5 answers · asked by way_2_short84 3 in Singles & Dating

GIRLS ANSWER ONLY !!!!!................

2007-03-18 19:13:59 · 8 answers · asked by huy s 1 in Singles & Dating

ok let me start out by saying this, im not a bad looking dude, but i know i dont have really great looks. i get pretty girls from time to time, but this girl i met who came onto me 100% is like obsessed with me, and she is sooooo beautiful, like she's one of those girls that every guy try's to get with, she's a 10... every one of my friends i bring her around cant believe she likes me like this, and i cant either. but the first time we hung out she basically threw herself on me, offering me sex, and all the other goodies... so my question is, do you think this girl is a ****? is it possible she really likes me alot like she says? i only knew her for a week and she's telling me she loves me, and all this crazy stuff and im getting really scared that she might be sick in the head.. anyone have an opinion on what i should do? im 24 and she's 20.

2007-03-18 19:13:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

are men always in need do they have to watch porn y do they do it in front of us women my man wackes offevrytime regardless if we have sex or not is that normal and he has to watch porn evertime to its a turn off for me what should i do

2007-03-18 19:13:34 · 10 answers · asked by evelyngarcia2012000 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-18 19:13:27 · 15 answers · asked by D S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My bf told me that he loved me, but i'm not sure if i do love him.

I guess i'm comparing what i think love should be for him, to how i love my family and friends. It took me years and years to love my friends and trust them fully. I love my family because they raised me.

We've seeing eachother for maybe a year as casual - getting to know eachother as friends before even dating. We've been dating for maybe 4months. I dont know if i'm scared to say it?

Do you think if i say it i will feel more for him, let go of why i'm scared? I do really really like him, and i can see myself loving him in the future. But i dont just want to throw the word around.

I've never said it to a guy before (all other relationships have been with people i didn't even really like) i dont know why i can't just say it.

2007-03-18 19:12:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I asked... GUYS...do you sing R&B love songs to a female who is friend only or one your are trying to get to date you?

The answer was... if a guy is singing and he know he can't but keep going anyway then he is just a poor sprung fool.



Have I got my crush SPRUNG?
We haven't done anything except hang out at my house...

2007-03-18 19:11:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so ive got a problem with my best friend of many years who finally say about a month ago that hes really liked me for ages. wasnt sure how i felt and thngs were weird for a while. we were getting quite close, he was making effort to get me to like him. then he met some other girl and they got together a few days ago. hes strange now in that when its three of us he is rude to me also being all over her in front of me kissing and stuff. does he just wanna make me jealous? or is he paranoid about her finding out he likes me too? he texted me the next day and acted like everything was cool between us all nice like nothing happened??? he could tell i was upset at him, but is a shy type that doesnt want to ask to avoid confrontation. i have never known him to be like this (everyone who knows him says he is the nicest guy!!) and he has always treated me well. just want to sort it out but not sure how to approach him! any ideas? would be good to get a guys opinion too

2007-03-18 19:11:01 · 12 answers · asked by jen 1 in Singles & Dating

And i love box-- poles not my thing

2007-03-18 19:09:28 · 13 answers · asked by Cyrill sneer 2 in Singles & Dating