some stuff i need help with..guy issues?

Question

i don't even know where to start..i think its just me..
but ok..
me and my boyfriend have been dating 6 months already talking about marriage..everyone knows it..so anyways since our relationship is pretty serious and not something to take lightly i'll continue with my random thoughts..
lately well i fear that he thinks i'm needy..even though he's extremely needy..or he alwyas said that now the tables turn and i feel too needy but thats cause i love him and he's the one person that i want to feel i can trust and be with and i enjoy spending time with him..i fear that he doesn't feel the same ..even though he always is saying how much he loves me it almost just seems like words to me..
cause as my brother says..you shouldn't be the girl he just comes by to say good night to...cause lately he has been focusing alot on all his friends..whether guys or girls..he rushes to the occasion to see friends. but when i'm fially off work its like he's sleeping or hanging out with his friends

it was like one weekend he was hanging out wiht a chick all day that he considers his little sister..well i put an end to that in a nice way ..and he understood....but i just want to feel special in his eyes..since i make an effort to do that with him..i piss my other friends off just for him...so that he doesn't feel left out ..i compromise a lot for him but i feel that i don't get that back..i mean he tried so hard but now its changed and i don't know exactly what if its just me if i'm making a huge deal out of nothing but i waste my day's thinking he wants to see me and then i find out he's having another guys night

Answer 1

You're talking about the big one after six months?I don't see that as a good idea. The reason is very simple and make a lot of sense regarding relationships.To build up a relationship the main material is time.In this case you don't have it.In six months you can't know a person well.Think about the whole thing.Remember marriage is for ever.