This lady i ve been asking her out, writing sms and calling her several times but she ended up saying no i dont want you. So i came to stage where i told her that i will not be calling her anymore and i stopped of course. Later, about two weeks she sent just a friendly sms and i ignored it. Then after another two weeks she sent another one and i ignored. She then kept sending smss. Though i still want her i want to figure out if she changed her mind and she is ready for me.Do i need to reply her or just keep her off my mind for good?
2007-03-18 19:20:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep her off your mind and stay away, brother. She wants you as a friend, which may seem cool, but it will be nothing but painful for you because you want more than that. Don't flat out ignore it, reply and tell her to stop smsing you. THEN you can ignore it.
2007-03-18 19:25:14 · answer #1 · answered by Takfam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reply to her! If you really like her then friendship should be enough. If you can't be her friend then you sure in the hell would not be a good boyfriend. Girls want to be with some one that makes then fell safe and if you blow her off because she would not date you as more then a friend then it is best for her if you don't reply. She likes you if she did not like you she would not be sending you smss . Just thank about it.
2007-03-19 02:41:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is playing a stupid game with your head. Sorry to say it this way but that is obvious to me. She is immature and perhaps not worth your time. If you think you found the one, ha ha - I dont believe there is only one !! - but if you want to spend more time with her, give her a call, talking will solve more questions than sms - choose a time you know she should be able to answ and just ask her what is going on - does she want to see you or not because YOU DONT LIKE GAMES. Good Luck - if she continues being immature - get over her, move on, you deserve much much betta than that
2007-03-19 02:29:24 · answer #3 · answered by gudsport 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a high maintenance woman just looking for attention anyway she can get it. Good job ignoring. Keep it up. If you do respond you are just encouraging her to keep you on a lease. That's the last thing anyone needs.
2007-03-19 02:27:07 · answer #4 · answered by CaTcHmEiFuCaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, she did not change her mind. She is just missing the attention you gave her. Unless she asks you out or pours her heart to you in one of these emails, do not respond.
2007-03-19 02:26:01 · answer #5 · answered by CurlyLocks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to make up her mind. Does she want to go out with you or not! If she says no, ask her to quit trying to contact you.
2007-03-19 02:28:40 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's rude not to reply, but if you see she's trying to play some crap on you tell her to stop, and that you changed your mind. Be polite.
2007-03-19 02:24:52 · answer #7 · answered by Maria 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
women are like that they love for the guy to chase after them shes playing hard to get and for your question she wants to talk to you why do you think she texed you talk to her silly billy she probably feels the same way about you too
2007-03-19 02:27:23 · answer #8 · answered by kambueno01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when she sms's you saying she wants you also....or you might sms her back asking what does she want. maybe you can stop playing telephone tag. if you want her...you might also just suck it up and pursue her. peace
2007-03-19 02:24:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, oh here she comes.
Watch out boy she'll chew you up.
She's a man eater.
2007-03-19 02:31:52 · answer #10 · answered by H M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋