Does anal sex hurt a lot?

Question

My boyfriend is really insistent, and can't get the idea out of his head to wanna do it to me this way...and so I may just let him, is it that bad?
Ive asked some friends and some say yeah it realyy sux and others say, its nota big deal?
Im not askin 2 many friends though, cuz its embarassin!
So is it really gonna hurt?

tried it-he really wanted me 2-was way bad!

Answer 1

I havent had it before, but a guy tried to do it without filling me in first and i just about jumped through the roof! DONT DO IT!!! my bestfriend sleeps around a bit and does it, but she only lets the guys with the small di*ks do it cause it doesnt hurt!!! So if your boyfriend isnt well equipped then go for it!! be sure to use a bit of lube!!! he he he

Answer 2

I'm not going to lie, unless you are "stretched out" it's gonna hurt. Just how much is up to you. If you relax it'll hurt less but that's easier said than done, esp the first time. You can practice on yourself with a sex toy but that's depending on your comfort level. If you do practice you'll have a better idea of how it's going to feel and how to handle it. I found that after the initial pain that it starts to hurt less and less. But i never found any enjoyment out of it. It always kind of felt like i had to poop. Sorry if that's too much info but you asked what it felt like. If it's something you are truly comfortable doing for your man then I say go ahead. But make sure he goes at your pace because no matter how you go at it, it's not going to be fun or pleasurable fo your, at least at first.

Hope that helps.

Answer 3

It's your body - if you don't want to try it, then tell him no way, not once, never.

I've been married 28 years, and although I tried to a LOT of times, my wife never went for it.

If you've seen it in porn, they are both used to it and totally lubed up with special stuff. Porn isn't real life.

I think the only people who like it are people who were abused a lot when they were young.

Answer 4

No it shouldn't hurt. 3 important things - relax, time, and lube lots and lots of lube. also call the San Francisco Sex Information Line to get more info on Anal or other sex advice. People there are trained and informative there.

Answer 5

Hi Tess, Don't do anything you don't want to do. Anal sex doesn't not apeal to me. They's only one place that you should have sex in the vagina. I have been told that anal sex is very painful besides other problems that could happen.
A Friend.

Clowmy

Answer 6

If your man is very gentle and you relax and don't tense up it will be fine. You may even like it. Theres something about doing it like that, that makes you feel extra naughty and its a huge turn on. You might want to stimulate your clit while he does you, and it makes the pain completely go away. Don't forget the lube... Have fun.

Answer 7

really its up to ur body but i cant tell u now that wen a man pumps u from da bak ur butt and thighs tend to grow bigger

it might hurt for the first time

good luck

Answer 8

Why would anyone want to stick it in a craphole???? That doesnt sound appealing to me, but maybe you should just stick to the other things if you're not comfortable. I mean he can't force you to do something you don't want.

Answer 9

its going to hurt like a *****.
Don't give in just because he wants you to do it.
That is what you called "conditional" love.
If that bf of yours truly loves you then he'll respect your wishes, especially if you are not willing to try it on the first place.

simple. answer. don't be his *****. don't do it.

Answer 10

i would never do it.....and i would feel like sh** if i was ever asked...tell him to go find himself a guy,because i say booty is booty,and if a guy will do it with a girl, i think he would do it with a guy.........and i have nothing bad to say about gays....i have a thing for women and men myself......