Your man is not normal he sounds kinky as hell and if you won't play with him he will and probably already has fount someone who will play his games he likes to play. It is ashame that we as women have to do things we are uncomfortable with doing for the sake of keeping our man.
2007-03-18 19:43:28
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answered by Teenie 7
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I once found some porn that one of my husbands friend had given to him, I asked him was this something he needed or was it something he wanted to try? He said,'' It was given to me and it's nothing''. So I waited for awhile, just to see if he was going to get rid of it or not. I asked him also, ''Why would he bring this type of thing into our home and we have a 16 year old boy, a 17 year old girl, and a 7 year old that is so curious about everything? He didn't get rid of it, so I trashed it. He has never said where is my porn collection, why did you throw it away ect...? He knows what I will put up with and what I won't put up with. He knows that I have morals and he have respect for me to know if he watch that filth, then not to include me in this. Your mistake was... sitting there watching it with him and not letting him know that it was replusive to you. You as a person with morals should have gotten up and went to the other room and told him when he get thru with that garbage to let you know and you'll talk with him later, if he have any strength left from wacking himself off. When he start to do it, leave the house, when he want to have sex with you, tell him to go pop a movie in, since you wasn't enough for him. He has a problem and you are enabling him. Your silence is an agreement. Just because you don't say anything and you sit there and watch it, you are saying to him, I agree with you. So now he put you in this sickness he have.
2007-03-19 03:07:05
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answered by Go GO Ressa 5
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Well, for one thing, these are intimate details of your marriage/relationship that he could better answer than any of this Y-Q&A community could. This is like a "Duh,.....why doesn't she ask him"? Question.
But, with an added thought, he probably assumes that you are open to this and have had no problem with this. This is also a gender biased question as there are women out there that want it more than men or just as much as yours does at times.
I know any sexual ventures that any of my companions and I ever approached was together and neither did anything that made the other feel comfortable.
You might want to add the most important ingredient into your relationship called COMMUNICATION!
You might want to introduce the left side of your brain to the right side. Apparently they haven't met before or even knows the other exists. C-O-M-M-U-N-I-C-A-T-E!!!
2007-03-19 02:27:17
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answered by The Sylvan Wizard 5
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that seems a little much but for the most part yea we are pretty much always in need. But if you read some other questions a lot of women are saying they are not getting sex from there man so consider yourself lucky or trade.
2007-03-19 02:42:40
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answered by Anonymous
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Hes addicted somehow your going to have to if you can show him or make him understand that its an addiction They are like drug addicts they don't think they have a problem as long as they stay high . Maybe you can ask for advise in here from people who was addicted at one time and what made them realize it was an addiction
2007-03-19 02:36:53
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answered by Anonymous
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o hon,, no let him be hes much safer at home tossing off then out cheating and it really has nothing to do with you, your fine,, all relationships take work and to be happy,, there are no princesess or princes,, in life.. so let him enjoy it as long as your both together,, good luck and remember life is short..
2007-03-19 04:30:45
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answered by wgggn_babyjim 3
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Sounds like your man has a problem. He needs professional help with his addiction.
2007-03-19 02:45:50
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answered by Tricia 2
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Throw away the cds or tapes or the telly itself.
2007-03-19 02:22:21
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answered by Ashley 4
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nope...once a guy finds the person he loves, he will stop doing anything that might involve him checking toher girls out...that includes porn...well thats how i feel atleast
2007-03-19 02:38:20
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answered by Anonymous
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give the guy his space.
you women don't realize that you get to have sex whenever you want, while we get to have sex whenever YOU want.
then you get all out of joint when we are forced to take care of things ourselves.
2007-03-19 02:38:29
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answered by Anonymous
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