Is it just me or my gf is really weird.
I just hang out with her tonight with a couple of my guy friends. There are a couple of strange things I noticed:
1) She talks to them so much more than she talks to me.
2) She's really "friendly" aka extremely flirtatious towards them. This gave me an impression when she started tickling 2 of my guy friends and put her legs on top of my friends lap. ( I don't know i think this is ok if she was just playing around with her "girl friends"...which is not in this case. Her doing all these stuff kind of sends a guy a wrong impression.)
Now it makes me wonder how she interact with her other guy friends when in not around. !@#$ this is pissing me off!!!
2007-03-18 19:23:50 · 15 answers · asked by confused zer0 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am sorry, but if your girlfriend talks to your friends more than she talks to you, I would have a "minor" problem with that. If your girlfriend flirts, in a touchy feely kind of way with your friends, I would have a "major" problem with that. I personally would re-evaluate my feelings about this girl. Your girlfriend is very insensitive, and disrespectful to you. You are being treated very unfairly by this girl, and she is making you appear foolish. Sorry, but find a girl who is interested in ONLY you!
2007-03-26 13:00:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you told her this is pissing you off?
I would tell her (if she was just trying to make you jealous, she'd stop if you told her you cared)...
However, have to say the tickling and the putting her legs on another guy's lap are really excessive!! Kind of tips the scale to the "don't waste your time telling her anything, dump her she's a flirt" side!
2007-03-26 14:43:34 · answer #2 · answered by gorg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may just want more of your attention. If you feel as though you cant trust her maybe you should let her go. If you want to be with her keep her away from your friends. I dont know about you but I am the jealous type I would tell her how I feel. and your right it does send guys the wrong message. that message being, she is interested in them. and you know boys will be boys. But how are you guys when your alone. think about it before you make any drastic decisions
2007-03-26 16:51:03 · answer #3 · answered by mike gulf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say there are a couple of possibilities:
1. She's a flirt and she loves the attention. She isn't going to settle down anytime soon and you're just in line for heartbreak.
2. She likes one of your friends. Either she discovered this after you started dating or she is using you to get to him.
3. She's flirting to get your attention and get you jealous.
The bottom line is she is definitely flirting. Trust me - girls do not put their legs up on another guys lap "just like that". ESPECIALLY when their boyfriend is in the room!
Talk to her.
2007-03-26 14:01:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's testing you. She wants to see how far you will let her go before something is said. She may also be the kind of girl who needs attention, even if it's negative. If you say or do something, she might act out. If you don't, she may take it even further. It's hard to tell what's next.
I'd sit down one on one and talk to her about it. It may be that it can be easily resolved.
2007-03-26 17:26:57 · answer #5 · answered by Pray 4 Mojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO good news here hun shes a " PLAYER" not a one man lover,have fun with her, but don't get serious!!! NOT jealousy or paranoia,just plain wise!!!!!
2007-03-26 17:34:34 · answer #6 · answered by ~FliZo~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always go by 1st impressions, and it would be in your best
interest to move on.
If she were truely interested in you, she wouldn't humiliate
you in front of others.
2007-03-26 16:13:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
then i guess she is not the one 4u look elsewhere cuz girls shoulden,t b acting like tat at all.she sounds annoying 2me i,m surprised u held on 2her.
2007-03-26 07:16:10 · answer #8 · answered by Baby Doll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-26 15:48:24 · answer #9 · answered by GrassRootsRabbits 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would look for another girl friend.
2007-03-26 04:14:36 · answer #10 · answered by brenda b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋