had a breakup with my girlfreind 10 days ago...she said she is not getting enough from me..after 2 days she again told me that she has realised what real love is and she loves me..i accepted her happily..last night i hv recieved a text message from her...she is saying that she wants a break-up..also says that we can remain as good freinds...
Im in a confused state now..why is she doing like this
what i have to do now...I love her...I cant live without her..
2007-03-18 19:30:37 · 10 answers · asked by gaf 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's confused. Learn to live in reality. You say you cannot live without her. but why? If you love her, you ought to stand by her side. But instead you demand the same love back. That's demanding, not love. Give her some time. Take some time to understand your own values. Your life has got a lot more flavors than this girl. Enjoy those flavors.
All the best...
:-)
2007-03-21 19:03:09 · answer #1 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems she is going through some mixed emotions right now,if u think both of u were prety serious together the this has to be handeled very carefully,
First as she said she wants a brak up so ask her to meet u whenever she is comfortable and has time do not force and be very polite
then when both of u decide a mutual place to meet make sure u r n best of ur appreance and mod then u need to try to ask her and make sure ur not rash in ur behaviour bout the reasons why she thinks u both should break up and try to ind if there is somwe confusion or roblem going on in her life ask her if it is becoz of u or how can u help show ur concern with sincerity and mean it
then try to talk on same mental level and if everything is going ok tell her that u dont want her to take any tensions or burdens so fix up a time when u can comfortably meet again if anything is eamaing she will agree to it provided u r very softspoken and show real concern bout relation do not show that u have a problem in her braking up show that u care for your realation use the word our realtion in ur conversation then maybe everything would be sorted out but dont jump to conclusons neither let her
2007-03-19 02:39:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. It is time to know whether she is interested in you or not.
Do not call/sms/spk/meet for a week. Meet other people. At the end of the week, re-evaluate your choices.
There is no point being mad over someone who has such a flickering mind, may back fire later too.
Anyway go out part and cheer up.
2007-03-19 05:13:30 · answer #3 · answered by APS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is just one possibility. She may have had feelings or a "crush" on another. When he didn't feel the same way, she ran back to you. Then, maybe he had a change of heart or she found another to latch onto. Some people feel naked without having a boyfriend/girlfriend to make them feel needed. She might want to really "play the field" but wants you as a back up. :)
2007-03-19 02:34:45 · answer #4 · answered by VHagerty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is Confused But you Dont be
I believe once in love cant be friends and based on that i would suggest that you should deny her simple friends offer.
I know it will be hard on you but keep this thing in mind if she changes her mind so fast, she is not a person to live with.
What if she would have given you this kinda indication later in life like after marriage
Thanks the God who saved you and move on with your life
2007-03-19 02:39:20 · answer #5 · answered by CoolestnHotest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heart of the sweet heart fills with joy and empties for tiny reasons. It's like the glimpse of a moon just before the start of monsoon. It appears often and disappears. Judge yourself whether she is `love' or not.
2007-03-19 03:00:24 · answer #6 · answered by thannickan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see my friend think with your brain it gives u a perfect answer.The answer may be hard or tough or what ever it is it says the truth follow it.how can u love a person who is not stable and always confused.think for a while.we have come on this world to live and do something good to mankind ,try to do something good.Gud luck.
2007-03-19 02:46:56 · answer #7 · answered by lekha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont say tat u cant live without her. Live your own life without her. Its not worth to drag on. Life is short. U will find someone who will appreciate u as who u r.
2007-03-19 02:41:18 · answer #8 · answered by Joy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can u possibly make such a conclusion jus becos i asked the question..i hav always been intrigued by abusers cus they appear to me less of human beings..i want to know what their phsycology is...quit posting such rash comments without thinking how wrong u cud be
2007-03-19 03:10:37 · answer #9 · answered by lilmissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she's psycho and it sounds like she's manipulative, too. Or doesn't know what she wants. I would say, learn to live without her. Because she KNOWS you can't live without her. So find out why SHE can't live without you. And take it or leave it. You can't change her. Period.
2007-03-19 02:40:24 · answer #10 · answered by notasnowballs_chanceinhell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋