Family & Relationships - 18 March 2007

Is this something that I need to give her room with, or is is something that I need to cut off now. We've been married since 9/6/05.

2007-03-18 22:55:28 · 28 answers · asked by tindale332 1 in Marriage & Divorce

For all people giving me support and advice on my previous question, how to stay cool with an ex partner who threatens me.

THANK YOU. THANK YOU. THANK YOU.

I am going through this particuliar hard time in my life with your help.

I think I have a good laywer, Child Focus and wonderfull parents and a fantastic kid.
I know I am a good mother, the only good thing about me according my ex. And I'm very far from alcohol, drugs, partying or men. I almost have a job and know I will have to learn living with this stress.

But again THANKS to everyone, it makes me feel less alone.

Big hug.

2007-03-18 22:54:52 · 1 answers · asked by belgium 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I came to London 7 years ago just for 3 months. I met somebody and the relationship wasn't easy in the beginning but it is over a year now that we are leaving together. In all this time my parents wanted me to go back to my country but I always had excuses to stay. I do not know why I stayed it seems that I just wanted to be with my boyfriend even the things weren't too good between us. Now we really understand each other and we are happy together but my parents are getting older and they really need me next to them. I feel I want to go back but I do not want to leave my relationship and I also would like to start at Uni, but on the other hand I do not want to disappoint my parents because they really need me now and they know that my life will be much better in my country. There is no way for my boyfriend to go there and my parents to come to London and I cannot cut myself in two so what can I do?

2007-03-18 22:54:48 · 7 answers · asked by Snita 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We've been married for a yr bcus I was pregnant. I knew my marriage will not be hard to find happiness. Never expect to be this bad, no privacy wit his family, couldn't move out bcus he wants to help them. Our sex life been really bad, since we're married our clothes taken off only once, and most of times he asked me to do wat he needs. It got worse when I gave birth to my daughter 6 mons ago. Our clothes always on and I was the one who always started to see how he react but I always disappointed. I talked wit him and told me he doesn't know y, but he'll do anything to make it up except it. I know it's hopeless bcus he doesn't love me enough. He always puts his family first and now also his daughter but never his wife. I;m keeping this relationship bcus of him and my princess. He told he couldn't live without her and I couldn't live if my baby not happy. I always wish she could be warm and safe wit both parents.

2007-03-18 22:52:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Arhh....
It is my husbands birthday next week and for his gift i am going to give him sex he will never forget!
But what would be a good idea?
Im thinking about dressing up as a maid with a g-string on and a sxc bra with high heels and when he walks in ill serve him dinner and ill act as a maid and i will be like " oh you cant start without a napkin on your lap!" and ill place it down with abit of a feel ( if you know what i mean ) ;).
What would your most sexiest thing you would want your Wife/Husband to do to YOU!
please i need help we already have sex 4 times a week but i want this to be friggen SXC!!! lol,
ta ta xx

2007-03-18 22:50:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My divorce will be final in 3 weeks. My ex has been telling me she meet someone and is in love which is fine. The other day I emaild her I wouldnt have any more contact with her but she could call me and say Hi anytime she wanted. She called right away. The day after she insisted I sign our final papers and she would turn them in on the due date. I agreed but told her I would sign only after getting stuff that was agreed would be returned to me. That day she inisted I sign first and I would receive my stuff later. All of this started the day after I quit whinning I wanted her back and let her know I was happy she found someone.. She has now inisted I have stuff that belongs to her, which we both know I dont (She couldnt even describe items) and today we were suppossed to meet to return my stuff and sign the paper. She called to cancel. Its seem she is putting off giving my stuff back because after that she would have no reason to contact me. Anyone have an idea on her behavior?

2007-03-18 22:49:54 · 11 answers · asked by PuckDog 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What happens if the reason that he fell out of love with you because you weren't yourself or the person he did fall in love with in the first place. I wasn't myself for the last year (we were living together this year) of a 3 year relationship because of me being scared of losing him. I did extreme measures to make him happy, like being available to him all the time, letting him do what he wants avoiding any serious conflict (basicly losing my independence and identity). The reason why i did this was because he had committment issues in the past with me which made me think that if did everything to make him happy i won't lose him, but then he dumps me teliing me that he wasn't happy in the last couple of months and doesn't feel the same way by doesn't know why. I still love him and I regret in what I have done (in my case in losing myself first and then second, losing him)

2007-03-18 22:47:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know its kind of a silly question, but id like to know your thoughts ont he subject
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2007-03-18 22:47:16 · 14 answers · asked by daisy 1 in Singles & Dating

i know its kind of a silly question, but id like to know your thoughts ont he subject
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2007-03-18 22:46:50 · 14 answers · asked by daisy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-18 22:46:50 · 6 answers · asked by catie 1 in Friends

Who finds Mirek Topolanek sexy??

2007-03-18 22:45:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What if he always asked you to describe your past lovers "parts" in detail, or always asked you if you need "other ones" if you know what I mean. I'm trying to be PG rated here. My guy always wants to know, its like he cant perform unless he is talking about me being with different men, "do you like black mens >>>> or white mens..... or mexican mens...... have they ever put it "here or there" do you know what I mean. I am rather offended by this. I can see fantasy occasionally, but its like he always has to picture me with other men, sometimes more than one. Hey, I like fantasy just as much as the next gal, but this seems strange and a little disrespectful. What do you think?

2007-03-18 22:44:14 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-18 22:43:26 · 21 answers · asked by Eric Chua Yanshan Maynas 3 in Singles & Dating

I am looking for a man named Mark Allen Degurski known to be in Tucson Arizona. He's 37 years old and I knew him from high school in New Mexico. I tried Renunion.com and all that, but I don't have a credit card to get this info. I was hoping I could find him through this

2007-03-18 22:41:48 · 2 answers · asked by aimee 1 in Friends

Hi my girlfriend is very individual & very indie & she loves music. I need a birthday present but don't know what to get her. Anyone know any ideas of what to get her?

2007-03-18 22:40:08 · 15 answers · asked by richardwales79 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have started to attend church groups since last month. I have had small talks with a 25 yo ladee I met at one group. I've talked to her a few times - there were times where I had to cut off the conversation because it was getting late.

she asked for my email and number last week which I politely gave her. she was going to send me more information on the group which she did. why does she need my number for that?

Today I went to one of their activities day. She was there all dressed nice with might i add, the nice shoes. When she was leaving with her friends she said if I want to have coffee to discuss anything.

I am 28 but I'm new to the church scene so I'm not sure what is appropriate behaviour...

2007-03-18 22:39:58 · 8 answers · asked by tripppah 3 in Singles & Dating

50/50 custody and the difference in the 2 indivual's income is considered for child support.

2007-03-18 22:39:49 · 4 answers · asked by brentmccain@sbcglobal.net 1 in Marriage & Divorce

first guy :24 years old, 6'4, very handsome ,smart, love animals,nice but very poor....

second guy: 50 years old, 5'4 fat and ugly ,mean,hate kids and animals ,but really rich........

2007-03-18 22:39:01 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

yesterday was mothers day ..hope t was good for all ya mums out there but..... my other half (who is an idoit) got me a grandma's card for me from my son ... but that wasnt the fact .. i was dissapointed that he didnt put harrisons name my son who died in november on the card ... harrison was only a baby and i feel let down and that my hubby has forgotten harrison
he asked me why i cried when i got the card but i couldnt tell him ... am i selfish?

2007-03-18 22:36:04 · 26 answers · asked by honey 2 in Family

my feelings have changed into something alot more deeper and meaninful. How do I tell him he turns my world upright and shows me awhole new world of possiblities. He puts the shine in my sun, he puts the stars in the night sky. He makes me feel safe, comfortable. I lurrve how he's so open and honest with me. How we can talk about anything and not judge each other 4 our differences in opinions.
And that I'm in love with him and that I luurrvvee being with him.

Is there a subtle way or do you just come out and say it.

P.S - Ok we met last year thru a store he manages and I usually shopped in & ever since we formed a close friendship. He's 28 and I'm 20 going on 21. If you wanna know more about our relationship just email me But I'll give u alittle scenario that always happens. He could be serving a customer and id walk in and "He'd be like oh hey (huge grin on his face) & id be like "hey dude". We spend hrs instore just talking instore about anything. He's single & so am i.

2007-03-18 22:35:49 · 6 answers · asked by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-18 22:35:40 · 3 answers · asked by ranju 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend is a non-muslim and is now married to a muslim. Her parents are worried about this interracial marriage. Do you think it might work long term? She will have to make lots of sacrifices and that means disconnection with the family. Any views on this issue?

2007-03-18 22:35:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i m going to gift this neckless-set to my girl friend, on her bday this april. is this good?will she like it? what is the friest impression did u get when u saw it?

oh she is a indian and loves jewelry.


http://hbj.capris.net/catalog/000941.html?id=K7FAFbPe

2007-03-18 22:31:47 · 20 answers · asked by Oh My God! 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-18 22:31:19 · 17 answers · asked by catie 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-18 22:29:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well, I contacted my ex after 6 months - since we broke up...
I met this person last year, and we were in love, we broke up 6 months back - and today i decided to just say hi online -


1st he was very nice to me, and then after sometime, he started to act crazy - he started name calling - he said i was crazy - and then said he is in love with another women - I gave it back to him, however I just dont know why he behaved this way, or what i did to deserve this??

he was so rude, waht can i do?? what do i do abt it? why would he act this way when all i did was be nice and say hi?

are all Men like this??

facts - he broke up with me....

2007-03-18 22:28:59 · 13 answers · asked by . 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-18 22:28:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I like it. I also like to pick up other people off the ground. exspecailly if they weigh between 100 and 155.

2007-03-18 22:28:00 · 4 answers · asked by 123fu765 2 in Friends

It's like she's obsessed with being someone or something she's not. I end up pushing her away if I say something to her about it. Any suggestions?

2007-03-18 22:27:26 · 9 answers · asked by cm2pappa 1 in Family

I'm living wit my husband's family, his parents and his little sis. She's 20 and her bf often comes over, he always takes my daughter away from my hands without saying anything to me not even say hi. I try to go stay in my bedroom but he still get in and take my 6 mons old away. Yes, I really want my own family but my husband wants to stay wit his family forever. He bought this mobile home, paid off his dad's car, pay for their car insurance, take them to shopping. They're still young, his dad 54 and his mom 46. When he wants to do something he's would afraid his family won't be happy, even his car, his dad have to says yes otherwise he won't get it. I'm willing to do anything for his family as long he agree to start our own family but he always rejects my offer. I;m trying my best bcause of him and my daughter, he told me he can[t live without her.
thanks for reading

2007-03-18 22:26:55 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family