Family & Relationships - 18 March 2007

Friday night I've been out with allot of friends to a club in south africa, I had a few drink and few tequilas! but just being myself, flirting here and there, nothing serious! I danced with one of my old school friends and after the dance me and some friends just stood there and chatted with her! The next moment n massive guy came from the side and hit me like it felt if every single bone in my face broke. The next thing that I could remember was waking up in bed! My friends said that it was a bouncer that hit me, and that it look liked a guy that didn't like me talking to that girl set him up! Having a serious concussion now what is going to keep me out of my job for a while is a big issue for me. Do you think I should just leave it and forget about it or try and do something about it!

2007-03-18 22:26:39 · 7 answers · asked by Martino 1 in Singles & Dating

i just call her baby or babe, but i think she might be getting tired of it, cuz it's getting kinda repetative.... Nothing corny please... (My friend said, "Pickle Girl"... yeah. Nice one. lol...)

2007-03-18 22:25:55 · 11 answers · asked by xXanythingbutinnocentXx 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-18 22:25:39 · 12 answers · asked by meet 1 in Singles & Dating

my wife and i would like to legally change our names for various reasons, nothing bad, but we really don't know how to do it or if it costs anything and if so how much?

2007-03-18 22:24:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

were both 17. this girl has pillow fights with me, puts her photo into my phone as wallpaper, calls up my friends, even parents for jokes, even though i dont find it amusing, always laughs at my jokes, she gets very close to me, and wont move away.....and likes to touch me alot, and play with things i have. i get mixed signals though, as sometimes during the day she wont talk to me at all, cause she studies, but when were together she cant stop talking, and offering me food, and drinks, and going out places.One thing she does alot is curls up and goes to sleep for like a minute,and then wakes up, and does it again......whats all this mean???she also tells me about times when shes stressed at school and so forth....one thing thats really wierd though, she likes to know what her name is on my phone when it rings???.........need help, im from canada btw guys. I like this girl heaps, and need her to know that, cause im really scared of losing her to someone else

2007-03-18 22:23:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Not a check for mental wellness, lol. but some sort of financial award for sticking it out, families are falling apart everyday.

Maybe if you qualify for the program, you and your kids get interviewed once a year and someone maybe observes your family one weekend a year or something.

2007-03-18 22:23:12 · 22 answers · asked by james t 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-18 22:21:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Which is the best position to have sex having a broken leg?? I have my leg completely casted, from toes to hip, have someone been in the same situation or with a gf with a cast like mine?? I need suggestions!!!

Thanks

Please only serious answers

2007-03-18 22:20:57 · 9 answers · asked by Debby 2 in Singles & Dating

years, he's 32 and I'm 25.I love him with all my heart and we've never fallen out or had problems. When I got married I left everything i was doing in London to live with him in a small village where he works as a fork lift driver. I had been traveling the world before hand and had planned to go back to university so the decision to settle wasn't an easy one. My husband was very keen for me to follow my dreams and said we could move to a city in a year or so once we'd got into the flow of married life BUT that all seems to be forgotten now, he's very resistant to change and I don't want to force my will upon him-but I need a life!
any ideas??? It's a secure relationship and perhaps moving away while I study is an option.
HELP ME!!!

2007-03-18 22:20:51 · 5 answers · asked by zoe o 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we work for my husbands family,my husband always has money or talked about it even giving my son money all the time, my son had no job, i think he thought we would not miss it

2007-03-18 22:18:29 · 8 answers · asked by DAWN T 1 in Family

actually am 121 pounds and may gilr friend is complaining that i weight too litlle for a man.the problem is the type of job yhat i do.am stressed guyz.

2007-03-18 22:18:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What happens if the reason that he fell out of love with you because you weren't yourself or the person he did fall in love with in the first place. I wasn't myself for the last year (we were living together this year) of a 3 year relationship because of me being scared of losing him. I did extreme measures to make him happy, like being available to him all the time, letting him do what he wants avoiding any serious conflict (basicly losing my independence and identity). The reason why i did this was because he had committment issues in the past with me which made me think that if did everything to make him happy i won't lose him, but then he dumps me teliing me that he wasn't happy in the last couple of months and doesn't feel the same way by doesn't know why. I still love him and I regret in what I have done (in my case in losing myself first and then second, losing him)

2007-03-18 22:17:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I ended my relationship with my partner of 5 years. We where together for 5 yrs. He is an alcoholic, just admitted it now at 28. He made me ill with his blaming attitude and aggresion etc when drunk, so I left him. Now his AA Class says that it is not his fault as a chemical in his brain called THIQ is responsible, not him. I was asked to attend AL ANON to understand and that I neede to support him through this illness. I feel ecven though I love him, it is too much for me. What do you think. I feel happier without him and just as friends, but guilty if this THIQ thing is true as it is not really his fault

2007-03-18 22:16:14 · 8 answers · asked by Abigail 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-18 22:15:51 · 15 answers · asked by major deol 1 in Singles & Dating

I got a text from my mum complaining that no one brought her a card or anything for mothersday. (she was very sarcastic and angry)

She told my sisters (late teens) that they weren't allowed to come round anymore and everytime they did she would go out. All they do is argue with her.

I have just had to apply for a remortgage and have had to sell my things so that I have food.

I sent her a message back saying sorry and explaining why I couldnt afford to get her anything, she hasnt replied. What should i do?

2007-03-18 22:15:26 · 15 answers · asked by MARIA 2 in Family

is it ok that my wife didn't get me an anniversary gift? not even a card. she didn't forget our anniversary, just didn't get me anything and this is our 11th anniversary. does this mean anything? cause it kinda hurt.

2007-03-18 22:14:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-18 22:14:30 · 8 answers · asked by Xenomaniac* 2 in Friends

At the beginning of August of 2006 I just had a baby. He end up in the hospital in September of 2006 he had to be hospitalized. Come to find out he has a heart condition. I stay in the hospital for a week with our newborn. During this time that I was in the hospital with our son my husband was talking sexually and almost cybering with a woman he knew back in high school. I found out about this in October of 2006. When I found out all of this my world just came crashing down. Since then I have forgiven him and he has promised to not do anything like it again. He hasn't either because I check all his stuff now. All he and I do is argue and it always ends up being about that. I feel that I can't trust him anymore. I overreact to things because I am so worried that he is going to do it again. How do I get over this so that he and I can be happy again like I thought we were so long ago?

2007-03-18 22:12:35 · 49 answers · asked by ksphinx 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Would anyone know how I can get the e-mail address for Traux-Biches Hotel in Mauritius.

2007-03-18 22:11:57 · 2 answers · asked by Dee 1 in Friends

I'm living wit my husband's family, his parents and his little sis. She's 20 and her bf often comes over, he always takes my daughter away from my hands without saying anything to me not even say hi. I try to go stay in my bedroom but he still get in and take my 6 mons old away. Yes, I really want my own family but my husband wants to stay wit his family forever. He bought this mobile home, paid off his dad's car, pay for their car insurance, take them to shopping. They're still young, his dad 54 and his mom 46. When he wants to do something he's would afraid his family won't be happy, even his car, his dad have to says yes otherwise he won't get it. I'm willing to do anything for his family as long he agree to start our own family but he always rejects my offer. I;m trying my best bcause of him and my daughter, he told me he can[t live without her.
thanks for reading

2007-03-18 22:11:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

30 year old son did not graduate and unable to get a job. Anti-social behaviors. Talks to himself. Has no friends. Will not see a doctor. Thinks he is normal. Dad pays for everything such as food, cigarettes, gas, insurance, phone, etc. because he does not want to "kick him to the street." Even sold his house to get him out on his own, but he bought another house and then paid one year for son to have own apartment. Son agreed to get a job, but nobody will hire him. Dad is frustrated and does not enjoy living with Son in the home. Does not know where to turn for advice. Ex-wife had him once, but she had him leave, so Dad took him in again. Any suggestions how to treat this problem? Oh, Son does everything in excess. Smokes too much, drinks too much (when he gets alcohol), plays video games and watches cartoons too much, etc. I am friends with the Dad for ten years and this Son is destroying our relationship. Any advice (serious, please) would be appreciated. Thank you

2007-03-18 22:09:50 · 15 answers · asked by tryingtodigout 1 in Family

Changed into something alot more deeper and meaninful. How do I tell him he turns my world upright and shows me awhole new world of possiblities. He puts the shine in my sun, he puts the stars in the night sky. He makes me feel safe, comfortable. I lurrve how he's so open and honest with me. How we can talk about anything and not judge each other 4 our differences in opinions.
And that I'm in love with him and that I luurrvvee being with him.

Is there a subtle way or do you just come out and say it

2007-03-18 22:05:52 · 11 answers · asked by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

Many time, when we purchase bedroom set, it comes with 2 pillow and a bolster? If you are single, that solves all problem. What happens when you are married? Hmmm... was just wondering. Anyone have a good answer?

2007-03-18 22:02:29 · 9 answers · asked by Tham 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A Girl That Lives A Hour And 45 Miuntes Away Or A Girl That Lives 10 Miuntes Away. the first 1 i think i like a litte bit more but i have stuff in common with the other 1 but i've know the first 1 longer and the other 1 just broke up with her bf 5 days ago.And If It Makes Any Difference the first 1 has bigger **** but the other 1 has a bigger butt almost big **** as the first 1 but not really. the first 1 said " your the only 1 for me" the other 1 wants 2 **** me the first day she meets me and spend the night.So I Don't Know What You People Think?

2007-03-18 22:01:05 · 14 answers · asked by brentons9mm 2 in Singles & Dating

Things began to changed when I moved to Secondary 1.Though its just a first sight,I began to love this guy really deep. I do not know why. But as soon as years passed, he's joined my class.Everytime I see him, it melts my heart.But this unsuccessful love, will still remain in my heart although he's with someone else. I will always pray for his happiness.If he's happy,im happy for him too.But why does it hurts although i let him go and am proud to love him??

2007-03-18 21:59:51 · 15 answers · asked by aNjAsMaRa 2 in Singles & Dating

I hate monday i always feel really down what do you do to get rid of the monday blues?

2007-03-18 21:59:44 · 19 answers · asked by suzy 3 in Friends

On the first date, we meet after work, so i wore my office wear.
But on the 2nd date will be a more proper one, so what kind of outfit is suitable? We'll most probably go to shopping malls, but i just need to know which outfit is not too sleazy or too overdressed.
Help please? Thanks.

2007-03-18 21:58:47 · 18 answers · asked by Daffodil 3 in Singles & Dating

From personal experience I find English and Australian girls to be the easiest

2007-03-18 21:58:47 · 39 answers · asked by superscorer2003 2 in Singles & Dating

Last night my boyfriend said that tonight we would watch movie together and then tonight when I called him he said, "I'm at my friends house and I'm going to stay here all night." I said that I thought you said that we were going to watch that movie I rented. He is like you can come over here if you want. He knows that I can't stand his friend. I said, "Well I thought we had plans but I guess not. I'll make other plans then." And I hung up on him. He called back about 10 minutes later but I didn't answer because I didn't want him to hang out with me just because I was mad at him. He was the one who said we were going to hang out in the first place, then he makes other plans? Next time he tries to make plans with me I'm going to say that I'll be there and not show up. What do you think about that, and do you think I have a right to be mad?

2007-03-18 21:57:15 · 10 answers · asked by juniper 4 in Singles & Dating

...not even in our one month anniversary. What should I do? I respect her decision to remain a virgin (I'm 17 and she's 16) but my body hormones are driving me crazy. I'm not a virgin myself and I haven't had it over a year =[. I don't want to dump her for it neither I want to push her any more but... ugghhh =[..

2007-03-18 21:55:12 · 21 answers · asked by JohnJohn 2 in Singles & Dating