years, he's 32 and I'm 25.I love him with all my heart and we've never fallen out or had problems. When I got married I left everything i was doing in London to live with him in a small village where he works as a fork lift driver. I had been traveling the world before hand and had planned to go back to university so the decision to settle wasn't an easy one. My husband was very keen for me to follow my dreams and said we could move to a city in a year or so once we'd got into the flow of married life BUT that all seems to be forgotten now, he's very resistant to change and I don't want to force my will upon him-but I need a life!
any ideas??? It's a secure relationship and perhaps moving away while I study is an option.
HELP ME!!!
2007-03-18 22:20:51 · 5 answers · asked by zoe o 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i hate people like u u know what u have 2 do but ur 2 stupid 2 do it
2007-03-18 22:30:08 · answer #1 · answered by djizz 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me like you are having a problem so don't say you have never had a falling out. You are having one now. Sounds like you were lied to. Your husband is not your boss, he's your husband. If he is unwilling to make good on his promise, find a school close by or maybe an online school and follow your dreams anyway. I think a compromise can be found here.
2007-03-18 22:31:37 · answer #2 · answered by CaTcHmEiFuCaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How far is the nearest University or Collage? If it is less than a 2 hour drive you can easily see each other on weekends. Go for it. !!!
2007-03-18 22:57:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you want to move, your hubby should move with you too. Long distance love/marriage do not work. Try to talk to him again and share with him. As you are a wife now, I think you should listen to his points and try to compromise the situation.
2007-03-18 22:30:44 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
arent there universities, degree options on the internet?
maybe he wants you close to home and settled or hoped that you would be pleased with a simpler lifestyle? good luck peace
2007-03-18 22:38:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋