...not even in our one month anniversary. What should I do? I respect her decision to remain a virgin (I'm 17 and she's 16) but my body hormones are driving me crazy. I'm not a virgin myself and I haven't had it over a year =[. I don't want to dump her for it neither I want to push her any more but... ugghhh =[..
2007-03-18 21:55:12 · 21 answers · asked by JohnJohn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OMG! You guys have been together a month, and you're angry that she won't have sex with you? Good Lord..get a grip!!!!
You're 17! Of course your hormones are raging! IT'S PART OF LIFE! Try doing something else to get your mind off of sex! If you really can't control it, then take care of it yourself.
But you better not cheat on her or dump her for this. If you do, it will make you a sleazy, shallow person.
Obviously, she's not ready. But she knows you are, and so when she is ready, she'll be completely comfortable with it. The worst thing you could do is push her and push her to breaking point, and cause her to compromise her self worth. Let her come to you!
Good luck. And don't be a sleaze.
2007-03-18 22:08:01 · answer #1 · answered by Bre 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've only been going out one month and you expect sex from her? Get real.
She sounds like a decent girl who has respect for herself.
You say you respect her decision to remain a virgin. She's obviously made it clear to you she's not ready.
There's no point trying to push her into it; let's face it, you haven't given her enough time to get to even KNOW you, let alone share the most intimate thing she could ever do with anyone, ever (esp. cos it would be her first time).
Have a little patience!
2007-03-18 22:06:41 · answer #2 · answered by verygirlygirl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex isn't just about releasing the fustration for girls. It is a BIG DEAL to lose your virginity and at 16 and only being with someone for a month, I don't blame her for not jumping into bed with you. There are girls out there who will be in it just for sex but she isn't one of them and if you like her enough you'll wait until she's ready. Losing your virginity is a very emotional thing and not something to be taken lightly.
2007-03-18 22:04:28 · answer #3 · answered by podsta85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, don't push it. Just enjoy eachothers companionship. Sex would mess everything up anyways at your age. Unless you are ready to take care of a baby with her at 16 and 17, you are not ready for sex.
2007-03-18 22:00:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your seventeen homey, play the field until you strike gold with a girl that puts out. Because before you know it you are going to end up married like me and you are not going to have that option anymore. Enjoy your youth and have fun (safely with protection) and try not to hurt anybodys feelings in the process. Be slick. She wants to remain a virgin, respect that. Don't harass her about it. Just seek other young willing women that will grant your wishes. Just be safe and don't hurt other peoples feelings like a said before. Good luck.
2007-03-18 22:03:23 · answer #5 · answered by montana16niner 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well... you do need to respect her wishes. I am 25 and even just one month is too soon for me. It is going to be hard for you but just wait a little if you can.. i'm sure she is very into you so you have a choice!!
2007-03-18 22:00:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
lack of sex is not going to kill you. be sensitive to her needs. if u respect her and care for her then you let her be. also sure u think u are ready for sex, but are u truly ready for the responsibilities that come with this? diseases? pregnancy?
look am not here to judge, but if she is not ready and u are, then let her go and dont force her, dont coerce her into changing her mind or pressure her, cuz she is going to feel pressured. you sound frustrated, but u need to find another outlet.
2007-03-18 23:04:10 · answer #7 · answered by braille 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's 16 I think she should wait rather than let herself be used by a guy that only cares for what he "wants" and not for her. Because if you cared for her you would respect her... have you heard of soap and water next time you shower do yourself....there you go problem resolved.
2007-03-18 22:05:58 · answer #8 · answered by Sunset 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok you've only been going out for a month, so it's unlikely she would sleep with you anyway. I would tell her exactly what you just wrote here, that your hormones are driving you crazy. but in the mean time involve yourself with other activities that will take your mind off things.
2007-03-18 22:04:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Just remember this--if you push her into something that she is uncomfortable with, you WILL lose her. Give her time, she will come around. Hey, at least you know that she's not doing every guy in town.
2007-03-18 22:02:04 · answer #10 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋