Things began to changed when I moved to Secondary 1.Though its just a first sight,I began to love this guy really deep. I do not know why. But as soon as years passed, he's joined my class.Everytime I see him, it melts my heart.But this unsuccessful love, will still remain in my heart although he's with someone else. I will always pray for his happiness.If he's happy,im happy for him too.But why does it hurts although i let him go and am proud to love him??
2007-03-18 21:59:51 · 15 answers · asked by aNjAsMaRa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yours is a typical situation but only those who have been through it will understand your feelings. I know what you mean because I have been through that phase myself. And there are only two things that can bring you out of this phase.. 1) if your love realizes your feelings and reciprocates; or 2) if you find love in someone else.
Till that time, I guess you will keep feeling this way. And trust me.. do not feel too bad about it. Falling in love is a wonderful feeling and even if the feeling is not reciprocated, it still remains as one of the best things your heart has ever felt.
2007-03-18 22:43:59 · answer #1 · answered by Raj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you have what is called unrequited love. Have you spoken to this boy? Are you friends or are you like I was at high school and just standing the background, hoping that one day "That boy" will notice you?
One day, you will meet someone who you can have a relationship with, and although you will never forget the other, you will move on. It's about life lessons, and some really hurt.
Good Luck to you
2007-03-19 05:06:55 · answer #2 · answered by vinyl_mad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My God what a drama queen---did you read your own letter??? Snap out of it...get a grip...get a hobby or something. you ask why it hurts??? The whole world and life itself is full of aches and pains--are you just going to sit there and do this pathetic pity drama thing?? Get a coffee and get outside and have some fun---he obviously isn't suffering over you !!
2007-03-19 05:07:10 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It hurts cause you know he wont notice you, dont worry darl this will pass and you'll meet someone else who is totally worth your love and heart
2007-03-19 05:11:00 · answer #4 · answered by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats so true what t d said. You want him to share your feelings and it hurts you that he doesn't. But i applaude you for beign happy for him adn not holdign anythign against his girlfriend. keep up this attitude and something good will happen to you.
2007-03-19 05:07:34 · answer #5 · answered by Out of Reach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not always the first love is true just don't stop there and find your true love
2007-03-19 05:08:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds a bit like an infatuation to me, being that he doesn't even know how you feel about him.
2007-03-19 05:07:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you feel youa re unable to get his love back.and you know he doesnt love you but you love him.so you feel there is no love in you..its just a crush...seriously,when he break with his new gf , TELL HIM THE TRUTH !!!!!
2007-03-19 05:07:29 · answer #8 · answered by ♣valentine melons♣ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you felt / feel is true...thats why it hurts. I admire your strength. You never know what your future holds. Maybe he might be yours someday.
2007-03-19 05:08:38 · answer #9 · answered by Taurus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's psychologically unfullflling to love and not be loved in return.
2007-03-19 05:02:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋