Last night my boyfriend said that tonight we would watch movie together and then tonight when I called him he said, "I'm at my friends house and I'm going to stay here all night." I said that I thought you said that we were going to watch that movie I rented. He is like you can come over here if you want. He knows that I can't stand his friend. I said, "Well I thought we had plans but I guess not. I'll make other plans then." And I hung up on him. He called back about 10 minutes later but I didn't answer because I didn't want him to hang out with me just because I was mad at him. He was the one who said we were going to hang out in the first place, then he makes other plans? Next time he tries to make plans with me I'm going to say that I'll be there and not show up. What do you think about that, and do you think I have a right to be mad?
2007-03-18 21:57:15 · 10 answers · asked by juniper 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u have 100% rights to be mad. this is just so unintelligent to promise smth and not do it. if i were u i would revenged first (exactly as u said) and then dumped him. he is not a decent guy. normal people do not do that.
2007-03-18 22:01:34 · answer #1 · answered by jacky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you do have the right to be mad and he was wrong to just blow off those plans. Be the bigger person and have a discussion with him about it. Let him know that he upset you when he blew off your plans and be sure to give him a chance to explain himself. Maybe his friend was having some kind of crisis in his life or something. It also seems that when he invited you over to his friend's house that he was making an attempt to meet you halfway. After you have both said your pieces, both of you together form a plan to avoid this from happening again. It could be something simple like calling to say "Hey, my friend's goldfish died and he's really broken up over it. I'm planning to stay tonight so is there any chance we could go out to breakfast tomorrow and watch the movie tomorrow night???" or picking a certain day of the week as your day where the two of you spend it together regardless of anything or anyone else.
2007-03-19 05:12:47 · answer #2 · answered by snackfairy06 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sort of have a right to get mad. But if you try to do what he did to you, not a good idea. It's like so childish. Try and talk to him. Let him do the first move to talk if not ask him why he broke his promise to you.
2007-03-19 05:06:51 · answer #3 · answered by fashion_model 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you have a right to be upset, but he may need some space. Just talk to him about and do to him what he did to yo because that would not be the right thing to do.
2007-03-19 05:03:01 · answer #4 · answered by shooter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you have a right to be upset, but don't try to "teach him a lesson," just let him know how he made you feel. Don't get caught up in playing games. If he truly cares about you and your feelings, he won't do it again. Good luck.
2007-03-19 05:02:13 · answer #5 · answered by amy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure you have the right to feel however you feel. disappointed, lonely, mad. whatever. Should you do the same to him on purpose? no. sometime in the future you may find that you do the same to him? how will you two end it? it will become a cycle. peace
2007-03-19 05:05:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go with Jacky's answer. You deserve better.
2007-03-19 05:05:10 · answer #7 · answered by supertop 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes,of coarse u r right. u must have self respect .
2007-03-19 05:04:25 · answer #8 · answered by thakur_pawan73 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's your bf at fault.he should not break his promise.
2007-03-19 05:01:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course you have. talk to him about it.
2007-03-19 05:00:27 · answer #10 · answered by shamica 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋