Threatening ex - international fighting divorce - thanks?

Question

For all people giving me support and advice on my previous question, how to stay cool with an ex partner who threatens me.

THANK YOU. THANK YOU. THANK YOU.

I am going through this particuliar hard time in my life with your help.

I think I have a good laywer, Child Focus and wonderfull parents and a fantastic kid.
I know I am a good mother, the only good thing about me according my ex. And I'm very far from alcohol, drugs, partying or men. I almost have a job and know I will have to learn living with this stress.

But again THANKS to everyone, it makes me feel less alone.

Big hug.

Answer 1

Biggest hug back!! One suggestion, don't refer to your ex in any opinion relating to you. When doing this, this not only gives this power-sucking, esteem-busting, self-aggrandizing individual more power--it gives you less over yourself. By referring to him less (I realize that you have to refer to him and talk about him, and will, for years), it makes your opinion of him more indifferent. Indifference is worse than hate.