this is what she said
James, I've been thinking... would u ever consider dating other people? We wouldn't break up, we'd just have sort of an open relationship. Because, as hard as this is, it's going to be a long time before we ever see eachother again. You don't have to do this. I just want u to be happy and i want u to date whoever u want. I know there must be at least one girl you've had your eye on. Please don't feel bad. I won't be jealous at all, i promise.
But like i said, if you're too uncomfortable to date other people, you don't have to. I don't want to break up with u. I want u to live a happy life without worries about what i'll think. If we see eachother in the future at all, then i know we'll be happy. Right now, i want u to do whatever u want. I just think it's time to face the truth. It's probably going to be at least 3 years before i even have a CHANCE of seeing you again. Have u been thinking about this too?
Please please please james, PLEASE be happy and i'm telling u, i won't be jealous or mad if u want to date other people. How can we go three years without ONE DATE? I want u to date other people. Who says we can't and then find eachother later?
baby, i still love u so much and u mean everything to me. You're my best friend and the person i'm closest to. I mean it. Please do this for me.
i love u so much omg SO MUCH.
2007-03-18 23:59:34 · 5 answers · asked by JC MI 38 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm 16 and i just moved from germany to oklahoma.
we moved because of my dad
2007-03-19 00:03:28 · update #1
I'm sure it sucks to hear that, but she may be right. This is a big commitment for a 16 year old. You have many days ahead of you, and many days that you will want someone there. She may be trying to let you down in an easy way by putting it off on your to find someone new. Try to remain friends, and if a few years down the road you still have the same feelings - then do your best to get back to one another - but for now, try to live with an open mind that there may be someone else better suited for the both of you. Best of luck!!
2007-03-19 00:18:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone in Oklahoma, you are going to be too far away and you won't see her for 3 years, then when you do see her you will be past it. Seems like she isn't worried about it, that's strange. Time to move on, life is like that.
2007-03-19 00:09:48 · answer #2 · answered by chez006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me when i say this through her away u are only young and i believe she has already found someone else she wants you to do it so she can put it on you be carefull i know i wouldent want my man to see others i would want to keep in contact and i would be so sad if i was going away or what eva this dont sound right never heard this before lol dont let her get this one have a reply back to her like really i thought you would have never asked because i was thinking of asking you the same thing see what her reactions are then dont be fooled
2007-03-19 00:09:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have many many years ahead of you...time flies so fast...she is scared of loosing you so she is having a hard time fully opening up to you....when someone confesses their love upfront it becomes even more painful when a relationship doesn't work
2007-03-19 00:07:24 · answer #4 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is right.....good luck
2007-03-19 00:10:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋