but yet my mom still treats me like Im 10 yrs. I work 40 + a week and I give her $1,136.00 a month. Every week i give her $100 and evey two weeks I give her $368.00. Im 4 months pregnant. I cant bring my childs father to our apartment. Its hard for me to save money. I cant even go out. She expects me to be home by 9:30. She expects me not to go out to a club or even go out Friday nights. Im trying to save money but its so hard when the majoritie of my check goes to her. What should I do? Im the youngest of 6 kids. so im not sure if thats why she keeps on holding on to me. What should I do?
2007-03-17 20:37:48 · 8 answers · asked by trish 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
As long as you live under her roof, she is the boss. Sounds like she over does it some.
When you are the one providing a roof over your head and are sitting with your knees under you own table, you will be the one in charge of your home and life.
Hope life will soon change for the better for you.
You have to remember that once you are of age, no matter how much you love each other, you become an imposition when living at home. Two adult women, just doesn't work out in the same house.
There comes a time in every mother's life that, once her children are raised, " It is her time and it's about time."
2007-03-17 20:59:10 · answer #1 · answered by DeeJay 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello! If you are about to bring a child into the world and you are worried about your mother letting you go to a club, maybe you should consider giving the child up. It could be a very hard choice, but it sounds like you are not ready to raise a child. I am sure that you didn't think about any of this while having sex, but these are very important moments for you and your child.
Your mother should have learned tough love a long time ago. Seems like it's a little late!
2007-03-17 21:25:12 · answer #2 · answered by Blue 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Get your own place! If you don't think that you can afford it on your own, look in the classifieds and find a room for rent. Also if you go to apartmentraitings.com there are a list of people that need room mates.
2007-03-18 04:19:24 · answer #3 · answered by kittysoma27 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
$1136 a MONTH? and you cant afford a place of your own?
do u live in NYC or something?
get out girl. surely with your income you can find SOMETHING. would u like to live with the childs father? you could combine incomes and find something that way!
you are the youngest she cant adjust to the thought of you leaving the nest.
so jump outta tha tree!!!
2007-03-17 21:54:10 · answer #4 · answered by Not here 2 make friends 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to the song 'Mother of mine'.
Mother of mine, you gave to me / All of my life, to do as I please / I owe everything, I have to you / Mother, sweet mother of mine.
Mother of mine, when I was young/ You showed me the way, things have to be done / Without your love, where would I be / Mother, sweet mother of mine.
Mother, you gave me happiness / Much more than words can say / I pray the Lord that He may bless you / Every night and every day.
Mother of mine, now I have grown / And can walk straight, all of my own / I'd like to give you what you gave to me / Mother, sweet mother of mine.
So my favourite quote is: Equate Mother Earth with your Mother and serve both with equal honesty. All mothers are protective. Does she know you are carrying? If not, tell her and ask her advice. Things may change.
You need ur mother at this moment much more, so try to gain her confidence, being frank to her will make you comfortable.
My sister, I am very happy to learn that you are taking very good care of your mother, but please do not advertise it to all.
Take very good care of yourself now to give birth to a beautiful life to bring all the charms in your and your man's life.
May God bless you.
2007-03-17 21:33:59 · answer #5 · answered by subhas chandra kar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart you need to find a friend to stay with so you can save your money. You are a grown woman who is about to have your own family, you can't keep letting her do this to you.Tell her you love her but its time for you to get out on your own.If she trys to stop you get help from your boyfriend and his family.She has no right to controll you!I My heart is breaking for you. honey please get away from that situation you will be so much happier and you can enjoy you pregnancy stress free.Good luck.
2007-03-17 21:01:49 · answer #6 · answered by goodgirl5567 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to move out.
2007-03-18 01:06:22 · answer #7 · answered by phoenix_rising_28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is cheating you
2007-03-17 21:01:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋